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@ eldee,

75% of the fans said they could forgo sex for one year to see their teams win the FA Cup.
Have you ever heard when a goal is termed 'sweeter than sex'?

forgo sex for one year because of my team, then a million pounds should be resting in my account from the club, and thats still no guarantee, cos the sweetness is unimaginable, its better experienced.

tell him to take 3 bottles of GULDER MAX, and you both will be 'united' again, how much are they paying him? game is for fun and to unite us not divide us, laugh while it lasts, the tables will always turn, what was ur reaction the day MAN You lost to chelsea in the premiership?

talking about competition!!!

i have seen two guys fight over a LovePeddler in a club, sounds crazy, its about proving superiority and about who is the man and who is the boy, it didnt need to get to that, but the chick was HOTTTTTTTT like peppered chicken, how much more your girlfriend or a new date? takes great maturity and confidence.

i handle it the way it comes.
your scenario is almost impossible in naija if ever, everybody wants to be very careful, most guys are wary approaching a girl when they know she is with another guy(s).i remember a friends party i and my ex went for , some prominent footballers were there, yes they were winking at my girlfriend, but they never did what you described. you really have to believe in yourself because sometimes you can meet a stiffer competition, you may not be the best but can be among the best.

put on your game face , intro your selves to the guys ,join in the convo ( here is where your savoir faire and smooth swagger should be on point)

its all about shifting her attention from them right back to you

in this kind of situation confidence is oh soooo sexy!

this makes a lot of sense, and can be done when you believe in your game, knowing that if she goes you will get someone better. very few naija guys can can do this, very well depends on the guys level of exposure.

it goes like this;
been friends with this chick for about 6 months, had a soft spot from day one but took thing s in my strides just to be sure of my feelings.she is pretty & has the most endearing persona;lity ive ever seen.i guess she knew i had it coming but kept her cool and did not rush things. asked her out recently only to get a shocker that she is into a  relationship.afer  some pressure she agreed to give me a chance. few days after the incident , i called her on phone only for her to start acting cocky like i never said anything.my question is ; why start the cockiness after u agreed to give a chance . she is beginning to make me feel like a pest i already vowed not to call her again do u think it is the best thing to do in the present circumstance feel free to holler no insults please

i wont insult you, i will spank you!!!

point 1- why did it take you 6 months to make your move, what if someone came in the second month , you would have been shouting that he snatched your girlfriend , right? delay is not deadly, its catastrophic!!!
point2- why apply pressure, you only give her this impression you are desperate, and at that point a lady can condition you,you become her boy, she dictates to you how the relationship should run and at what pace, she gives you tough conditions and you try to be extra nice thus drowning yourself the more,by so doing you have giving your strenght as a man to her, automatically unknown to you you become a WUSSY, a weak,desperate and approval seeking dude!!!
point 3- you said she is begining to make you feel like a pest, no, your actions made you a pest.

solution

forget about her, its difficult because you will feel defeated, but you have to accept defeat in this instance to win tomorrow, make other friends, you may call her after 3 or more months to say hi and nothing more cause you guys arent quarelling, you are sure bigger than that, and life goes on.

sorry, i just gave your subject a second gaze, Should I Ask Her Out Again, damn! [size=18pt]please don't[/size]. if you do she will have this feeling you do when an ant bites you right under your balls

@ m.vuchy

@ easybaby and Ziggy_mama

wetin i do una shoooooo! na so una like me?

that was a nice one.you are getting it.

let me start by praying to god to give the families involved the fortitude to bear the loss.

"any name your family members call you is what your neigbhours will also call you."

we have not been treated any better even right here in naija so why are we shouting?

we have had riots and violences involving one ethnic group against another.

we should start the fight right here in nigeria, charity begins where? at home. fight against corruption and fraud,rather than promote it, this way people will travel less and chances of being victims less.

can someone tell me how many ghanaians were killed? it could happen.

@ topic,

not necessarily, but women are hardly ever attracted to nice guys, because they are predictable, nice guys keep their adrenalin level on the low and they are happier or excited when the adrenalin is on the high.

@ topic,

YES, THERE IS HOPE!

But the power to be hopeful is dependent on you! only believe that impossible is nothing! Keep on keeping on brother.

@ vivaladiva,

do i say am dazed!!!! you signed up on may 2nd @ 4PM and as at today(5 DAYS OLD) you average almost 50 posts a day, you are most definitely jobless, at this rate,in the next 1year you will be competing with the admin .

as per your thread? you need a Rehab!!!

no she isnt cheap.

probably you are not matured enough to collect numbers from people the first day, you can wait till the tenth day, because they are jobless. may be we shouldnt say hi to people the very first day we meet them.

i have done in every part of my apartment, i was actually considering doing it in my [size=18pt]deep freezer[/size] before we broke up

wooing Line?

JUST BE YOURSELF.

yemo:
[size=18pt]Nigeria is bad.
Agreed!
[i]what can we do to change it?[/size]

[size=28pt]CHANGE THE PEOPLE!!![/size]

@ topic,

NOT NECESSARILY!!! factors like background, level of exposure, age, experiences in life do affect people.

they will when a study shows a link between virginity and peoples attitudes and character.

dannio:
l go to catholic church but i have been to other churches on invitation.l consider myself a christian but l wonder why others have reservation about the church l go to.l met this lovely girl she is everything l have wished for but she is a protestant and she has highlighted the issue of our different belief becoming a barrier in the event that we decide to do the right thing mind you l have made my intentions known.l just don't understand why because of denomination if you have something good you just let it go it is not fair

i can feel you bro, at a stage in my life i hated to discuss religion because of the divisions that result from it,what do i say: if you cant cope with it, then let it go!

Pure Water Now 10 Naira Per Sachet!


thats no news!!! residents in port harcourt having been paying that amount since late 2006!!!!

great to be in a market or in the market, please take note of these :

-if you don't get a comodity of your choice , NEVER involve in panic buying, the market is open 24/7, besides your night as a buyer  is another sellers day so be patient and don't panic
-make sure you are in the market at the right time  otherwise you are left with unsuitable options. ( having to choose from rotten tomatoes to broken eggs or dented cars etc)
- know what part of the market to go looking for the stuff you desire
- don't bid for goods with an intent of proving to the seller you have so much money, bargain like you are broke!!!!

i am in the market at the moment with a very low sense of urgency, i know where and how to get what am looking for infact, the sellers know where to locate prospective buyers!!  SHINE YOUR 

[size=68pt]o[/size][size=18pt]2 [/size]   [size=28pt]for life!!!![/size]

no i wont, but i can,we will then adopt a child or look for other alternatives, this is possible if i love the lady.

larrychyk:
yes.i will end the relationship no matter how rosy.infact any woman who is not ready to leave her parents house and religion for me is not worthy of my attention.i cancelled my wedding with a month left(church wedding) for the same reason.its decietful and i can't tolerate it,especially when the babe goes contrary to agreement.its anti-corruption and ICPC should be involved and same with EFCC

bros, this is harsh!!!!

JJay1:
In the last few days, I have put this questions to 28 of my British and American colleagues and friend and here are the results;

Yes - 2

No - 24

Not sure - 2

Thats about 86% thinks difference in religion is no reason to terminate a beautiful relationship.

And we wonder why these UK & US societies are successful and advanced against our Nigerian utterly backwardness back to the stone age. The problem with most Nigerians is that they think they are more of xtians and moslems than the oyinbos that gave them the religion. One of the many reasons Naija will continue to be bad

And it baffles me that even the so-called younger and educated generation of the Naija society that is suppose to know better as as ignorant as the those that lived in the 15th century

great statistics you put out there!!!!!!!!!!! what works well for mr. A may not WORK for mr. B

@ sam milla,

great thought you have there, i want to believe when the ladies see the guys they are attracted to or vice versa, they wont bother if he or she is a kobonairalander.

[size=28pt]PAPA NA GIRL !![/size]

micklplus:
April fool !!

I CONCUR

i once experienced this problem, i took time to discuss with those involved but i guess it fell on deaf ears and i decided to give back "EYE FOR EYE".

i went and bought same brand of speakers as the occupants on the neighbouring plot and started playing my favourite love songs, not too long people around said i was a demon.

I'm very disappointed by the fake comments all you men on this site are making. Are you all actually praising this girl for doing wrong? i mean i know no one is perfect but for God sakes, if you were in her fiancee's shoes would you be praising her for comming forward with the confession when it shouldn't have happened to begin with.


shaking my head in disappointment

before you get so dissapointed i would appreciate if you put yourself in her shoes, mind you during the period her ex- and her were in recess, emotions had grown btw her and the school guy, while not justifying the act, what she did was right despite it backfired.