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Oya, make Una allow me win, I go share give Una small. No more posting.

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Una no dey go church, make Una go church . Am the last to post. Oya Op, thread closed.

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batstan: morn'g!!!!

Morning to you. Am the last.

Yungzed: de form iz last yrs own na

Yes, they need to change it to 2013/2014. It's an error on there path. If you where following the site very well, you will see that the "APPLICATION FORM" section always says " application closed" when clicked on , but now when you click on it , it brings out this same form used last year. I even called someone close to the school, she said that some people are already filling that same form, it's the same info.

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Cee9: I got d news from d ryt source.congrats to al wit 180. D date exams is 25th,26th and 27th.form sales stops 24th.study to show ur self approved

What about those that chose them as second choice?

lordnammy: In secondary school: garri, water, biscuit milk and sugar. we have to do this before going for prep by 7 pm so that before we (me and my cornermates) come back by 10pm we will have enough rising for the night we called it soak and travel

Which secondary school did you attend?

Put garri inside bowl, get 7up or sprite. Pour it inside the garri and enjoyment starts.

Okpa and drinking garri (otoo).

Rouqui: ...u know d life!!

Hahahaha, my dear, I normally soak mine in the morning before going to school by 7:15 am and then run to school . After school by 2pm, I submit my plate in the refectory for afternoon meal to be dished and then I move to my afternoon function. After function , the afternoon meal bell would be rang, I immediately go under my bed , pull out the bowl. Wow, behold no water that was soaked in the bowl of indomie would be remained. The bowl would be filled , I normally take it to the refectory with my indomie sauce. I get a bigger bowl , poured my own portion of rice and the pour the indomie inside the bigger bowl, put the indomie sauce and stired it. My dear, no be small belle full I dey belle full any time dem cook rice.

....... Updating. At last, the form is out.

remecy: Cabin Biscuit soked in milk(bako flakes.
Palm oil rice

In my own school, we call it conk.

Indomie soaked in cold water and left over night to rise .

My dear , the thing dey full the bowl which it was soaked in.

morzook: Yea.. but not in an hotel tho. In a house with basic amenities

Don't know of any.

morzook: Nice thread so far.... Can I get a room for around 15k in Cotonou? I mean monthly. I just need to get out of here to somewhere less distracting: I am writing a book and I think cotonou will be a good place for me.

You mean 15,000 naira for a full whole month?

Bawss1: ^ The Almighty is prefect, no? Will He that is perfect initiate a marriage that fails? Yet there and thousands of failed marriages about.

I will urge you to learn to express yourself correctly. Perhaps you mean to say that marriages that are successful are so because the couple followed godly principles. There is a grave danger in passing across wrong and untruthful concepts and the consequencies will hit hard regardless of whether your intention are good or not.

You asked a question and you answered yourself .

First, I will say that most marriages fails because it wasn't built on the solid rock, which is Christ Jesus. And also those who there's where built on Christ Jesus may have lost off and needs Gods grace to fix up . So my dear , without Christ in your home ( marriage) it's likely to have a crack.

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yellowpawpaw: I don't think u r a christian else u wouldn't hv said this.
Nawa o! Nl is truly all round entertainment.

That's truth, I don't think he is a Christian. He has to be duely informed.

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Bawss1: Can people stop using the name of the Almighty to spread untruths!

How is the Creator the initiator of marriages again? People get married based on the choices that they have made! Whether the marriage fails or succeeds has nothing do with the Almighty but everything to do with the married couple.

You had better express yourself correctly if the above is what you mean. And if its not what you mean then you are dead wrong. A time will come when careless expressions will avenge themselves thoroughly, especially when the Creator is involved.

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I repeat myself , incase you don't know. God is the initiator of marriages. You can read this to learn more. http://www.biblicalperspectives.com/books/marriage/1.html

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bettymafy: Ok ok, sorry for coming at you like that. I just couldn't stand that your "suicide mission" advice.

I don sleep wake up now, much calmer, so let me engage u a lil. . . U see, men (human beings in general) do not physically abuse someone that they know would seriously fight back, directly or indirectly. People pick their fights carefully. U don't pick a fight u know u won't win. U rather pick one that u see the other person as helpless and weak.

Now, there are issues in marriage that the best thing to do is be tolerant, patient and prayerful. The issues might not be resolved immediately, but will get better with time. But this method doesn't work for physical abuse. It is a matter of life and death, so u don't treat it with levity.

I'm sure she kept calm and prayed the other times that he slapped her. But did it stop him? Nope. He progressed to proper beating.

I'm sure if this story was that of a woman who was beaten to death, most poeple advising her to fast and pray will be the first to ask why she didn't leave the abusive man.

I've noticed people will always blame the woman anyways. So u either choose to stay alife and let people talk or take the blame to the grave.

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Better, now you are talking. I personally don't like insults because I wasn't grown that way. I hardly insult people, when people gets on my nerves, I leave that arena immediately to cool off. Am happy you can contribute now without insults. From the look from some of your text, it shows that you are from Igbo land, and you should know that in Igbo culture, the woman is always
Under the man and for no reason , should she challenge the man ( that's culture for you) . From the op's post, she was already angry from the generator not being on and boils down to seeing condom inside her hubby's pocket. So even if the man ask for forgiveness for doing it ( even if he does it ) she wouldn't bear it.

I will give you a scenario of what happened in a ministry close to my compound . During the time of revelation ( or what the call it ) the prophetess pointed at a man and told him to stand up, she began to tell him his weakness and that it's women that is tieing him down from moving forward, so people started grumbling . The woman told the man to dip his hand inside his pocket and the man did so and brought out his wallet and opened it. Inside the wallet was about 4000 naira and sacket of condom. People grumbled more and the woman went to the alter and said that if any married man sitted there, that would say that since he got married to his wife , no affair has taken place between him and a woman before should walk up to the alter and take the 4000 naira placed on the alter. Could you believe that no Man there owned up to get it.

So what am I trying to say, it only takes the help of God for marriages to stand. That man is not the only one doing it. So the woman needs endurance and Gods Favour to cope and believe me , If God intervenes, the woman would be happy to have such a man as the husband.

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bettymafy: For the third time, SHUT UP! My advice might lead women to seperation with their life intact, but yours leads them to their early grave, which one is the lesser evil? Or didn't u also read where she said that the beatings started with just slaps, now it has progressed to proper beating and hitting of head on the stabiliser. What if she had a serious cranial heamorrage and died in the process?

So she should die, cos she wants to answer "Mrs" abi? . . . And where did I even mention divorce? I gave her a practical way to tackle the problem she is having in her marriage and all u adviced was for her to keep enduring the beatings? U are simply heartless and wicked!

And please, stop going back and forth on this thread displaying your ignorance and wickedness. We have had enough of it! Now, crawl back to that your bedroom and continue beating your wife from where u stopped yesternight. Anu npam!

I repeat , I don't want to take it personal. You are insulting me, Madam. If that is how you talk to your husband or whosoever, please dont exhibit it here. Am pleading to you now, and you are feeling as if you are too big or something. I see you who has a heart.

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bettymafy: Oh please, SHUT UP!!! Yes, I said it, shut the hell up! What are u even blabbing? She should fast and pray for a cheating and abusive husband? Are u even listening to yourself? She should keep calm because he is "THE MAN"? Will he also be "the man" and keep calm when he catches his wife with a pack of condoms and she says he should be happy cos she's playing safe? I don't even know what to tell u sef. U are just a sorry case!

Chei! Women don suffer for this life. Especially African women. . . SMH. Everything that goes wrong in a marriage is a woman's fault. Your husband runs away for 1yr and refuses to even ask after his own child, the woman takes the blame for chasing him out with her "caustic" tongue. The man cheats and beats her, the woman doesn't respect him enough. She should put on the AC for the husband and mistress to fuc.k in their bedroom before going off to prepare a delicious dinner for them. Again, women don suffer! Smh. . .They make it look like being a woman is a curse.

Now to the poster. . . Why u dey fall my hand like this na? Ah ah! Don't u like/value your life? Don't u have able bodied brothers or cousins? As in, brothers with hefty chest that can beat the crase outta your husband? Please, inform them ASAP. Don't tell them what to do. They know.

This same thing happened to a neighbour some years back. The jobless husband will beat her atleast once a week. We would always hear her crying and shouting. She refused to report to her family cos she knew what they would do to the man, until one day, the man gave her serious beating, threw her out stark naked and broke her tooth. She couldn't take it anymore and went to report to her brothers. When d brothers arrived, the man was unconscious within 2mins of serious woozing. They put him in d booth of their car and drove off to God knows where. When d man got back from the hospital after a week, he was so humble that a 10yr old could even slap him and get away with it. We couldn't stop laffing. Funny enough, they are still married up till today.

And for those asking if she didn't notice that when they were dating. . . Please, keep quiet already! How much can a person know before marriage? How many men beat their girlfriends? The beating usually starts after marriage when they feel u're helpless and caged.

You are insulting me please, and I don't like it. Your own ideas are the reasons why we have more broken marriages. If you can read her story again , you would see where she said that the man "apologizes". So the extent she took it to might be what arosed the mans anger to beat her up ( not in support) . Your whole story shows that you are not a type to be under the man, rather the man would be under your family, So that's no marriage.

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peggykorol: Hmmn No STI we were making use of condom because he didn't want any injections or coils for me.so when am not safe we make use of CD and we don't make use of them anymore.
its okay thanks for your input

My dear, you are the woman involved here . I believe your husband is your husband , and you know a way to make him change for better with the aid of Gods grace.
Don't even think of leaving him, it's totally off from it. Just hope on God for a change as you work hard to put him in a happy mode.

[quote author=baby_123]Here is me, just posting my own and you are getting emotional about it. Please ignore me, and let me educate others on what is out there.

If you have ever lived in Nigeria, you know there is a fake of almost everything. So people, there are now fake condoms in the market. Please practice fidelity to your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Life is for those that want to live it o. if still dating and your guy is cheating, please run away. May you not enter one chance.[/quote]Am not, just not to derail the thread if its fake or not.

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[quote author=baby_123]Why are you trying to force your own facts when you have been shown otherwise? What do you have to prove to anyone? Nafdac said it is fake, it is. If it was illegally smuggled, they would have said so. They wouldnt have put fake in it, because either way they guy will be in trouble for smuggling. You are being emotional about it, i wonder why. FYI, no one has to go by what you say. You denying the validity of NAFDAC without proof is disturbing. It is true, please dont push other men and women into trouble by dispelling the obvious. You can believe what you want. But you talking like you know for a fact is dangerous.[/quote]Am done with the NAFDAC stuff.

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byvan: A cheating man is no head to any family,a responsible man is!!!!He should even been relieved of his duties as anyone's husband.

No man or woman who does not have his or her own side of irresponsibility. It depends on how you show it up.

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[quote author=baby_123]Ok. you are refusing to believe what is right in front of you. ok o.[/quote]Please let's don't derail the thread, have just told you the fact about it. It's just that NAFDAC needed it passed through them ( much money) , that's why it's fake.

[quote author=baby_123]Yea, you kind of implied that at least he was using condom. I am just pointing out to everyone. Male or female that they are now importing fake condoms. So even that excuse is no more good enough. Has nothing to do with your other points. You are entitled to your opinion and advice. [/quote]For the fake condoms, that would be another topic, I don't want to deviate this thread. I will tell you that they aren't fake. It's just that it wasn't approved by NAFDAC , that doesn't mean it's fake.

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honey86: Trust me, no man would take that kind of talk from their wife, except you are not been truthful to yourself.

My dear, am not telling you so that we would believe me, am only telling you what I believe I would do , with the Help from God.

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[quote author=baby_123]http://www.punchng.com/metro/man-arrested-with-n106m-fake-condoms-drugs/

People need to be more cautious and faithful. May you not jam this guy's product with the wrong person. They only caught one person, meaning others may have gotten through, who knows.[/quote]Point of correction, Am not saying what the man did was right, no no no, just that the woman should plead to God to redirect her husbands mindset, because God is the initiator of marriages.

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