honey86:
And in the process if she contracts HIV its also ok?. Most women with the virus contract it from their cheating husbands. Atleast I know a family friend who contracted it from his numerous girlfriends and passed it to his wife. Guess what, this man died, then 2 years later the woman died and left 3 kids to suffer. If she had left when she had the chance, wouldnt she be alive today?.

dayokanu:

She told you like the OP that its in your own interest she uses condom and its the safest thing she can do for now.

Thanks.

zhukafa:

Point to Ponder: she says she saw condom. Also, that's why am emphasizing on her building the home on Christ. Remember, wife is the owner of the house, but husband is the owner if the home.

Thanks.

[size=18pt]Man arrested with N106m fake condoms, drugs[/size]
May 10, 2013 by Eniola Akinkuotu



Osefoh

Osefoh
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The National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control has arrested a trader, Olisaemeka Osefoh, for importation of counterfeit medicines into Nigeria.

The suspect was also arrested with fake Rough Rider condoms.

PUNCH Metro learnt that the estimated street value of the goods was N106, 210, 000.

Some of the drugs seized include, Mycoten cream, Neurogesic ointment and Skineal cream.

In his statement, the suspect said he was in partnership with a cartel based in China, where the products were sourced, before being shipped to Nigeria.

The Director General of the agency, Dr. Paul Orhii, while parading the suspect, said Osefoh was arrested after a tip off.

He said the suspect had also given investigators information on how the goods were illegally cleared through Tincan Island Port, Lagos.

He said, “Operatives of NAFDAC’s Investigation and Enforcement Directorate raided a warehouse located at Progressive Traders Market known for the sales of jewellery and cosmetic products.

“During the raid at Trade Fair Complex, Badagry Expressway, Lagos, 158 cartons of Skineal cream, 43 cartons of Funbact- A Cream, 719 cartons of Mycoten Cream, 131 cartons of Neurogesic ointment, [size=18pt]56 cartons of Rough Rider Condoms[/size], 20 cartons of Iman Luxury Powder and 205 cartons of Heal Balm were impounded.”

zhukafa:

Ya, it hurts. Everybody has his or her way of handling issues, I believe she didn't say it in an aggressive way.

Because if done in a quiet manner, then stories have to be told and I place a listening ear.

Thanks

honey86:
Condom is not100% reliable. Also there are other things that can be contracted, such as hepatitis B through saliva and Hpv, just by rubbing the groins. Hpv leads to cervical cancer in women. So who now us on the losing end?, getting punished for a sin they did not commit.
You say she should buikd her home on Christ, what about the husband. Is he not supposed to be the spiritual head of the home as well?.

armyofone: OP didn't say she has children for the cheater and beater husband. We will assume no kids yet all the reason why she should scamper now.
I so much hate battering marriages. Carry belt dey flog your wife, hehehe, dem neva born that man reach.

baby_123:
http://www.punchng.com/metro/man-arrested-with-n106m-fake-condoms-drugs/

People need to be more cautious and faithful. May you not jam this guy's product with the wrong person. They only caught one person, meaning others may have gotten through, who knows.

honey86:
Trust me, no man would take that kind of talk from their wife, except you are not been truthful to yourself.

zhukafa:

Point of correction, Am not saying what the man did was right, no no no, just that the woman should plead to God to redirect her husbands mindset, because God is the initiator of marriages.

Thanks

dayokanu:

You wan talk say you no like domination and b-D--s-M

bukatyne: I will keep stressing that no woman who decides to stay in a chaotic marriage without improvement should never open her mouth to say that shd is staying for the kids.

All the posters who endorse beating and see extra martial affairs as normal were those who saw such exhibited in his or her family. Nobody brought up in a normal loving environment will believe such is normal.

What is even amazing is that most of them will claim to be religious and will call down fire in the mosques and churches. I wonder if they have never read passages condemning such acts. I am sure passages on repentance and submission will catch their eye more.

I wonder why people still feel that parents of old are better with the immoral people they trained.

It's well

baby_123:

Yea, you kind of implied that at least he was using condom. I am just pointing out to everyone. Male or female that they are now importing fake condoms. So even that excuse is no more good enough. Has nothing to do with your other points. You are entitled to your opinion and advice.

carefreewannabe:

100 likes

Especially for the part where you say that "All the posters who endorse beating and see extra martial affairs as normal were those who saw such exhibited in his or her family. Nobody brought up in a normal loving environment will believe such is normal."

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zhukafa:

For the fake condoms, that would be another topic, I don't want to deviate this thread. I will tell you that they aren't fake. It's just that it wasn't approved by NAFDAC , that doesn't mean it's fake.

Thanks.

The suspect was also arrested with fake Rough Rider condoms.

In his statement, the suspect said he was in partnership with a cartel based in China, where the products were sourced, before being shipped to Nigeria.

zhukafa:

Point of correction, not just a man rather "The MAN" . He is the head of the family, so you accord him that respect.

I still repeat myself, what the woman needs is prayers. She should tighten up her prayer buckles , nothing is impossible for God to do. God is the initiator of marriages , so she needs to ask God for strength .

Thanks.

baby_123:

A lot of couples though experience a lot of fights within the first few years of marriage. Because you have to adjust. The thing is, two people coming from totally different backgrounds with different orientations. That doesnt make it right. But it does happen. Even the well raised can fall prey to hitting their spouse. However, the level of abuse and violence already witnessed is a bit disturbing.

baby_123:



Ok. you are refusing to believe what is right in front of you. ok o.

carefreewannabe:

I don't agree. Not a bit. If you are not compatible, don't marry each other. Sure, no couple is 100 % compatible but if it needs any form of violence to adjust, then you are not even 50 % compatible and I pity your children.
I have seen couples who were fighting each other for decades, so how much time do you give a couple to fight each other until peace can reign?

byvan:


A cheating man is no head to any family,a responsible man is!!!!He should even been relieved of his duties as anyone's husband.

baby_123:

ok then. You dont have to agree. But its a fact. Some learn to live together and respect each other. Other's dont. Not everything is smooth sailing. But the assertion that everyone that indulges in domestic violence is from an abusive home is wrong.

zhukafa:

Please let's don't derail the thread, have just told you the fact about it. It's just that NAFDAC needed it passed through them ( much money) , that's why it's fake.

baby_123:

Why are you trying to force your own facts when you have been shown otherwise? What do you have to prove to anyone? Nafdac said it is fake, it is. If it was illegally smuggled, they would have said so. They wouldnt have put fake in it, because either way they guy will be in trouble for smuggling. You are being emotional about it, i wonder why. FYI, no one has to go by what you say. You denying the validity of NAFDAC without proof is disturbing. It is true, please dont push other men and women into trouble by dispelling the obvious. You can believe what you want. But you talking like you know for a fact is dangerous.

baby_123: Here is me, just posting my own and you are getting emotional about it. Please ignore me, and let me educate others on what is out there.

If you have ever lived in Nigeria, you know there is a fake of almost everything. So people, there are now fake condoms in the market. Please practice fidelity to your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Life is for those that want to live it o. if still dating and your guy is cheating, please run away. May you not enter one chance.

baby_123: Here is me, just posting my own and you are getting emotional about it. Please ignore me, and let me educate others on what is out there.

If you have ever lived in Nigeria, you know there is a fake of almost everything. So people, there are now fake condoms in the market. Please practice fidelity to your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Life is for those that want to live it o. if still dating and your guy is cheating, please run away. May you not enter one chance.

honey86: @ baby 123, you are right. Nafdac always say whether it is fake or smuggled. Besides, these days that I can go to aliexpress and buy fake carter bag, that we have 250 naira black opal and marykay powder, its not suprising that they now produce substandard condoms with fake labelling.

peggykorol: Ok I don't even know where to start.last nite when I was about putting on my gen set it didn't come on.so I noticed their was a problem.I called my hubby by 6pm cos he was hanging out with his friends.I told him to come assist us since we were in darkness(was I wrong)he said ok but didn't return till 11pm.and when he returned he fixed it but I was already asleep and very upset with him because where he was wasn't far from the house.this morning I saw a condomn in hiS jean pocket he wore out last night.I asked him abt it and he said it has been in his car.I have been d one using d car since he wasn't in Nigeria for a short time and am very sure their was no condom in d car.we started arguing and he said I was interrogating him.he said going out with a condom is ths safest thing he can do for himself and then I said that means its ok for your wife to move out with it too abi.he got upset and started hitting me,flogging me with his belt and his shoe.now my point is since we got married this is the 4th time he has slapped me and the first he is beating me like this.he beat me up like a child even locking our room door .finally he hit my head on the stabilizer in our room.where did I go wrong.how can a man who claims he loves me so much beat me up such way.he said I talk to him like he is my houseboy.I don't see myself forgiving him and don't see myself having any intimacy with him either.the feelings I have for him keeps reducing.I really don't know what to do