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LaurelP:
Guys have a lot of wrong notions about ladies especially Naija ladies. These beliefs most times are partially or totally incorrect, but because of societal norms and our culture, most ppl still believe them anyway. There are many of them but I will just mention 10 and leave u to mention urs.

1.Ladies who are social are promiscuous: The average Naija guy beleives dat ladies who are very social and confident are wayward and love sex a lot. This is actually wrong as many girls who are free and mingle with guys are actually virgins.

2.Ladies with big bosoms is a result of constant handling by guys: Even me I used to have this impression before I got to know that a lady can be busty naturally without having guys constantly handling her breasts. Those days, we will be making jest of girls with big bosom and calling dem all sorts of names. That's wat ignorance can cause, now I know better, lols!

3. Ladies with big bottom is a result of excess sperm: Many guys believe dat ladies who have big backsides get it from excess sperm from guys. But this is not true. There are ladies who acquired their assets naturally, not a result of guys sleeping with them.

4. Ladies who are quiet are decent: This is not always true. My experience with women have taught me that quiet and calm ladies are usually worse dan the social and talkative ones. Its when u are alone with them dat u will know who they really are!

5. Those ladies who cover their whole body and don't wear trouser are decent: If I hear! It could just be as a result of fear of parents or religious beliefs or just lack of modernity. Decency or being responsible has got nothing to do with whether a lady wears trouser or Mary Amaka! Its in the mind.

6. A rich young lady must be a runs girl: Not in all cases oo. There are many ladies who are working hard and making their cool dough legitimately. I know of one in my town who's building a house for her family. She's d only female in a family of 7 men and she's the only one dat got a very gud job in an airport.

7. All Naija ladies love Money: But really is there anybody that hates money? Both male and female? The way guys paint it is wrong though, as if all they care for is money and no other thing. There are still Naija ladies who will love you for you are, and even support you (financially) if need be.

8. Naija ladies can't do without a guy that has got a nice car: That's for hungry ladies. I've seen ladies who have turned down guys who have really nice rides for guys with Legedez Benz, lolz.

9. Thß
ey are not smart or brilliant: Na lie! The last time I checked, more ladies are making 1st Class these days than guys. Besides we have many ladies who are doing pretty well in their fields. I no get power to type their name abeg, u know them.

10. They are too pompous and proud: This may be partially true, but not all of them. Besides, what guys mistake as pride may be a result of shyness. Many of them are shy but they cover it up by putting on a facade of pomposity and pride to avoid guys taking advantage of them.


Feel free to add yours.


LaurelP

They are not misconceptions, most of these ideas were derived from experience

Nigerian ladies sha, be careful with them
Just a warning

[quote author=priscaoge post=29623061][/quote]you have mentioned all the guys available

Who will these girls marry now?

Eavesdrop

F pls

nice

In south east and south west they assume that

Every Northerner is Hausa or Fulani

So wrong

opyzy:
the road to success is never easy, Buhari should stop replying all his critics, silence they say is the best answer for a fool

Not in politics

Those people you refer to as fools actually make up the electorate

What did he use in 2011?

lalasticlala:
By Pastor BISI
ADEWALE

([b]1) Living with a man who has not paid their pride price or married you.
(2) Sending their nude pictures to guys in the name of Love.
(3) Sharing all their secrets with a man they barely know.
(4) Stealing their Parents money to finance a guy.
(5) Giving their School fees to a guy to Celebrate his birthday
(6) Accepting to be a second wife because of so called love.
(7) Wearing the engagement ring of man who doesn’t even know their homes, seen their parents or received their consent.
( Fighting all their friends and family members who oppose their love affairs.
(9) Giving your BRIDE PRIDE (virginity) to a man who has notpaid your BRIDE PRICE.
(10) Turning themselves to a Man intimacy gadget and slave in the name of love.
(11) Bathing naked with their Guys, who may secretly snap the picture and post it on the internet.
(12) Turning themselves to guy cook.
(13) Turning themselves to launderer washing clothes for guys they say they love.
(14) Public show of romance with your boyfriend who is only deceiving you.
(15) Abusing all other guys around because they feel they are already hooked.
(16) Disobeying their parents for the sake of a man who their parents don’t even know or accept.[/b]


Bisi Adewale is an International Conference Speaker on Marriage, Parenting and Family Life, He is the author of the best selling books: Secrets of an Irresistible Wife, Parenting Teenagers and more than 70 other best selling books on marriage and family life.


He is the president of Family Booster Ministries International and College of Marital Success (CMS), Host of Family Booster Moments on TV, watched in many countries across the globe.


http://citypeoplegroup.org/i/pastor-bisi-adewale-reveals-42-foolish-things-girls-do-in-the-name-of-love/


There are actually 42 things he enlisted.

No girl will have any guy if she keeps all these commandments, capish

She got the talent to become like maheeda and even better

Abraham2013:
Well d problem is dat d money is too small. Watever is worth doing, is worth doing well. Make dat money 4million and d guy will not disturb u again, make it 40 million and d guy will even agree to be d best man to whoever u chose to marry in future.

I don't think she will need the breakup if she had N4m

Just 40k?

Op you can do better now

But to be candid with you, you don't love him anymore

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Vivly:
lol.
I heard this when I was 12. It wasn't funny then. It's still not.

How old are you now, 13?

Juliaann:
You are not far from the truth

From your pix, I can tell you are intelligent

No. 4

Dunno when I will learn

LaurelP:
I've often heard people say that women are not attracted by what they see. They are according to them, attracted by sweet and romantic words. This is a consensus held by mostly women and some men.

I beg to disagree with this opinion. Women are equally attracted by sight just like men. They however do not react or show it the way men do. If women are not attracted by sight:

Why do they prefer and even crave for handsome men/guys over the average or ugly ones? This happens even here on NL, the handsome guys getting more attention from ladies.

Why do they like or prefer guys who are trendy and follow latest styles in fashion over achaic guys?
this also happens here on Nl.

Why do they die for guys who are rich and drive nice cars, live in nice houses and have good jobs/businesses? Are these things not physical, are they spoken words

Why do they like or prefer confident guys over timid ones?
Is confidence not a physical attribute one can see

Why do they like guys who are always clean and neat instead of dirty guys who are romantic?

Conclusion: There's nobody who doesn't like romantic words, both men and women.
There's also no one who doesn't get attracted to things that look good, both men and women.
So women are also attracted by what they see.

You can argue all you like but Stereotypes remain Stereotypes

People will never stop saying or believing in stereotypes. Only the wise ones make the right choice capish

ireneony:
This guy rap is lame. He needs to retire from music or better still stop rapping and join the thread of commercial music

You say it the way you see it as a Nigerian and I don't blame you.

But for the records, his rap aint lame ok

Picture or I don't bliv it

MzNelly:
LOL, I beg to disagree.

I was a virgin till I turned 23 when one fine girl raped me.

It was a nonviolent rape sha


I know a lot of guys in similar standing

MzNelly:
Male virgins are rare; known status or no.

There are more male virgins than female virgins

Kpekus no easy for some guys o

phrancyking:
Am 22 years old. I 'ave dated three girls, they all left me because I told them I would never have sex before marriage.. the first girl accused me of impotency.. the second girl was blunt she told me she can't cope.. the third one left without a comment ..

I need a girl Buh don't wanna have sex. please I need your advice

Its either the first girl was right or you are lying

Which one?

iceberylin:
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It happens.

That's why its never a good thing to hold back

badoolee:
What does it mean to crush?
Crush assin?
Ion get it

If you don't get it then you were probably never in the zone

boombay:
twas Obama's daughter.... she fell in love with me...
we are still dating tho'

Guy pls pass me ur number

I can open an office as friend to Obama's daughters boyfriend.

I remember how difficult it was for me to approach the first girl I had feelings for.

I would sometimes go to her class on purpose just to talk to her and end up spending minutes talking to another person

Did a lot of childish things then looking back in retrospect

I know its funny but I know some people did worse

Ezedon:
I'm interested in becoming his in-law

Nice dream

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