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Safari29: AM A LIVING WITNESS. GOT A JOB, FOUND A BROKE PORTABLE BITCHH WITH BIG BRESSS AND PERKY ASSSS. LOVED HER LIKE CRAZY, SPENT SO MUCH ON HER, GOT SACKED. WENT BANKCRUPCY. BITCHH IS GONE WITH ANOTHER MUGU.
LESSON LEANT: HOESS AINT LOYAL

lwtmb is that some kinda lyrics from Loyal by Chris b?

naijathings: I wonder when threads like this will cease..
Ok...
She has a good job her hand bag collection is worth 1,000,000 naira, she don't ask you for nothing (she even spends on you) ... But she'z a "hoe" or she'z a compulsive liar or she has body odor or she can't furk or she can't cook or she doesn't do anything without the consent of her dad (ikeji Linda).... The list goes on.
It's the same for a man too. Having a "job" doesn't make u any woman's dream man or Messiah.
The way it is... There is always gonna b a thread dedicated to the shortcomings of people especially women.

Make sure you marry a poor girl ok, am sure a guy like you with a large heart can handle it

missbronze: This is why i said Relationship is just a game.

Play smart.
Know the rules.

No chick or guy is worth been loyal to.

Hmmm, Food for thought but come to think of it, I can be loyal to you sha o

Ymodulus: [size=18pt]
So you ain't saying the guys are gold diggers. you just saying they shouldn't go outwith the broke bi.*tches [/size]

hehe, something like that. Hilarious guy

NeduLuiZ: lol ... Jilting is always an option ...not all broke ladies are greedy ..dating a broke lady who is considerate and demands reasonably is accepted .

Ok na

Ymodulus: Now that was harsh!!!! Lol!

Ok check my examples and read again. The basis of my conclusion is this. Get a gal that makes you happy. You may even get the president daughter as your wife and she will still want you to take care of her family.

Just get that adventurous , wild crazy, happy , funny girl that makes you happy.

Class determines nothing. Trust me

I didnt mean to be harsh, I was only offering advise to the newly employed, they need financial stability. I never said people dont deserve to be happy, but 'hoes' are always after those starting new well-paid jobs

Ymodulus: The degree to which many of you lack basic social consciousness is astounding. Speculating on the "class" of the person you're going to marry before you've even had a single adult relationship is also fucking retarded.

I've never dated not even once in my life time. But I have been friend with both girls up and down the spectrum of "classes" (random: for a country that boasts of its social mobility, it's remarkable how much the income of one's parents determine life trajectory... and how some of you idiots care so much about it) and the only generality I've been able to pull is that rich girls act the most entitled. Then again, I've also been with independent rich girls who work for their own money and insist on contributing for their share. What have I learned? Each person is different. While certain patterns may exist, there are plenty of people out there who don't fit the mold.

After years of marriage, many people develop close relationships with their in-laws. In 20 years, you will either hate them or feel like they're your second parents. If the latter, I hope you will WANT to help them as you would want to help your own parents. If the former, and your wife insists on assisting them, you should STILL want to help them. They're her blood. You would want the same care for your parents if you couldn't afford it. Common decency isn't so common anymore, apparently.

You love hard-working banker girls? Faaaaaantastic. Take them. I'll go with the happy, outgoing, adventurous, attractive, non-neurotic women. *gasp* if I'm reaaaallyyyy lucky, I might even find one of those with some intelligence too. I know, I know: if you're not in banking or didn't go to a top target you're CLEARLY mentally challenged, but a man can dream, no? Seriously... why a banking girl? Have you ever been with one? Most of them are as dull as their male counterparts. Sure, they're ambitious. Some of them are attractive. Some of them dress really well. Most of the ones I've encountered get boring to hang out with quickly. And many are fu-cki*ng robots. Also, a girl can be independent even if she's not on the "greatness" track .

At the end of the day, I want to find someone who makes me happy. I claim to be an independent guy and, as such, am not ready to depend on my girls income or family money to support whatever lifestyle I may want. If she wants to work until we're married and then stay at home and focus on becoming the best wife and mother she can be, I'd be fuc*king ecstatic. If she wants to work, I'd fuc*king ecstatic as well. Compromise comes a lot easier when two people are happy together and genuinely care about one another. But fuc*k, I'm way too young to hypothesize about what makes a marriage work.

All I know is: I couldn't care less about how much money my girl makes. It's all about how happy I am with her. Also: you sound like a terrible, heartless fuc*king person. And you also sound like you have shit for game.




[size=18pt]But, Wait[/size]


Come to think of it. It's always nice to go with the independent lady.

Total alien speech based on misleading hypothesis. You claim you dont care about class but all your examples are about working class girls. You are simply a Hypocritical Gigolo

NeduLuiZ: earning 200k per month could stil be average you know

Hehe, lets assume you are telling the truth, you'd still not succeed with a broke b¡tch

missberrypop5: No, all ladies. If you're in a relationship, you have a role to play, you play it well. Weather you men like it or not, your responsibility is to take care of Certain finacial needs of any woman you call yours, even if she don't ask for it.

In my post I was refering to girls from penurious background, you cant help them by keeping them as girlfriends as a new graduate trainee except if your family is already blessed with from the get go

Ipledge: wet in do you, because you heartless does not makes everybody heartless

You sound like serious MUGU

NeduLuiZ: off course certain men nag when she demands constantly

How would an average guy like you deal with that

missberrypop5: and i keep wondering what a guy who is still tryna make his finacial state a better one, is doing with a lady.

A Lady like you I guess

NeduLuiZ: It means i lack nothing and would not nag about a girl being broke.

wait a minute like men nag too? I was actually talking about her needs not yours

NeduLuiZ: stop jumping to conclusion you dont know me

I dont know you but I know what ''not rich nor poor'' means

NeduLuiZ: proofs

your spending power does not match your statement

NeduLuiZ: average family ..not rich nor poor

Then you are so wrong

ENELDEE: I like your opinion on this. Getting a job doesn't suddenly make you bigger than a lady who's been through thick and thin with you. As long as she understands your goals and is willing to walk in line with your plans, you have to still stick with her. This is not a case of pity. It's a case of loyalty and maturity in handling yourself and your relationships. The wrong thing to do is to start spending your cash on new female acquisitions if you don't have any at that time. If you have a girlfriend whom you love before the windfall, I'd like to think they deserve to enjoy with you. Most men who ditched their loyal wives for somebody more balanced and attractive after stumbling unto wealth could not live to explain how heavy their fall were. It's a long tale.

You can go on writing and preaching long moral tales, a word is enough for wise ones

NobleAky: dear this is not a matter of pity! It's about emotion and companionship

Its pity man

NeduLuiZ: mentality of a broke nigga @ op

You are so right only if you come from a rich family hehe

ayogabriel: Talking from experience?

More like what I experience others go through

NobleAky: I choose to fault you a bit Op because there many ladies out there, who have been with you and have resigned to be with you no matter what and conscience wouldn't allow you to jilt her because she is poor and you just got a job!

My friend pity is not an ingredient for success

This is for those who freshly got a job, you better take heed and find a girl that comes from a family that can at least provide for her immediate needs, if not she'll run you down with her wanton unending needs.. Just a warning!

donfemo: If you actually believe this topic will not be in the jokes section. So even you sabi say na joke you dey joke

You too sabi

immortalcrown: What makes you think I don't believe in this country? I need to know the opposite of Amen.

Opposite of Amen is God forbid

immortalcrown: Please, can someone tell me the opposite of Amen?

we need to start believing in this country bro

I have a dream that one day Americans will be deported from Nigeria, that one day Europeans will be fighting for visa to come Nigeria and that one day Asians will look up to Nigeria as a source of innovation in technology. Can I get an Amen somebadi

ElFenomeno1: You can never learn... Your braincells are less power than that of a nematode.

How hard is it for you to get it that is is spelt DI-plomacy and DI-plomatic?!

Fu...cking dunce always missing the point as usual....... We are talking about spelling, this fu..cking pillock is talking about adjective and noun

Fu...cking disgrace................. Go and fix your spellings, enrol yourself in a adult school near you, daft toad!

I feel your pain now scumbag, you were right all the way, you jst need to point it out, you should take a lesson clarity but Lagos stays banned

ElFenomeno1: You are still here showing the world how daft and dumb you are?!

I pity your generation unborn

Lunkheads like you who roam forums to spread illiteracy and other nonsense should be circumvented and destroyed!

24 hours after you were corrected or flagged for spelling diplomacy incorrectly, you are still here arguing that you got it right

I blame your parents for passing on a rotten legacy

Fu..cking airhead!

delirious riffraff, do I need to enrol you into a correctional institution for u to know the difference between deplomatic and deplomacy? One is an adjective and the other a noun you f.cking analogue head

ElFenomeno1: STFU you bloody nuisance.... from someone who cant even spell diplomacy!

I dont even know why i bothered engaging a stark illiterate....

When you can spell correctly, get back at me.

Brainless twerp!

its deplomatic you moronic nitwit, check the dictionary to learn more about illiteracy. A candid advice

ElFenomeno1: You are a source of disgrace to the human race

Fu....cking tosspot!

you have intellect deformity so I understand why you cant decifer a diplomatic colloquy

ElFenomeno1: Ignorant toad!

you are a source of absolute ignominy