₦airaland Forum

anambra 1 case?? where do you come from? who born you? what you do?? who you? Don't worry oduhaeje is coming for you

they wouldn't have made the video public,now they are facing the consequences of their stupid actions

I hv been wondering,how are they able to give this figures, how are they able to know where the coronavirus patients are

my friend took in that same wedding night,or at most 2 days after, cos she put to bed exactly after 9 months. Got married in April,gave birth Dec

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i was just smiling as I was reading these comments.

I miss my dad so much, he's the best dad ever. I only lived with him for 15 years then death came calling. I miss his funny jokes, no dull moments with him.

for my mum, those days while we were still growing up,she can send you on errands so many times at the same location. Instead of her to list all she wants you to buy, she will be sending you one by one

I don't wear it.

but I think they wear it for:
1. fashion
2. to keep their weight in check
3. to show you that they belong to marine kingdom or some other covens

people are asked to stay home yet bomb blast meets them in their homes. Dear Lord protect your children,nowhere is safe again in this country.

as the days go by more cases will be recorded because more than 50% of Nigerians are already infected it's just that they have not been discovered yet.


Even those states that are yet to record any case should be careful because the chances of having carriers in those states are there

this is the first time the presidency will be reacting to a purported rumour .... this clearly confirms to us that our dear president is not in the country. We Nigerians are wiser now oooo. for dir mind he's working, working on what exactly

we just Hope and pray she truly isolated herself when she got back, if not the number of cases in Rivers State will increase. All we need is God's mercy

More than 50% of Nigerians already contracted the virus. we just need God's Mercy so it doesn't become a community infection

research has shown that coronavirus came through snakes or bats yet you people keep touching and eating them

crackkhaus:
If not for the fact that these pastors, reverends, and priests love to see themselves as authorities, what stops your priest from joining you and your intended in the presence of only parents and siblings?

This could be done in the church still, or in an open space.

A large gathering of so-called faithfuls/believers serves no purpose beyond fanfare.

do you think the intending couples will like this type of marriage?? it's not just about the pastors and priests

I heard their government provide basic things for them like food, money etc. how true is this

enjoy ooo

but I hope you people will be screened when you get back, you people shouldn't bring Corona when coming back

ghettokid1:
Good! Sanusi 4 President 2023!

exactly my thoughts,these people know what they are doing

MadeINchenzen2:
zinny25 and freedomest


what's ur take on the topic?

there's nothing wrong with a single girl living alone as long as she has a genuine source of income to take care of her bills.

indeed, legends are born in March. Proud to be March Born, happy birthday sir

Let me break nairalanders table: if your gf is not born in March,my brother you are still single

funny... what so many girls are looking for, what so many guys are taking drugs just to have.


inside life

so true,my sis is having the same issue

Recruiting SARs officers is just like recruiting 'agberos' to carry guns

She should be a grandma now, I remember when she gave her daughter out in marriage

DukeNija:
Love and respect are not mutually exclusive. Do you love your boss? Don’t you respect him? Did you love your lecturers? Didn’t you respect them? Use your head.

that's different, there are people you need to respect whether you love them or not as you have highlighted. What I mean is if I decide to go into a relationship with a guy I don't love, despite him loving me, I won't respect him. Use your head too

why Lagos distance has become a barrier now, I'm in Port Harcourt.

they're not the first, neither would they be the last

knowyaself2:
you can't talk about love in isolation. You must associate it with such things as beauty, kindness, intelligence, passion, etc. So, you may be right if you say 'I can't fall in love with a stingy man' or 'I don't love him because he's too ugly' for example, which is understandable. That way, when you marry your ideal man, the chances of falling out of love will be small.

The problem is that people think love just happens and that what brings it about is inexplicable. Thats stupidity.

That said, a good person will stick to his/her spouse even if those attractive qualities change, especially, if this is no fault of their spouse , and try to make it work. And, trust me, they always change, nothing is certain in this life. Thats probably why your church pastors make you take those oaths on your wedding day.

your first paragraph explains everything, truly something should make me love someone,when I don't find any, how am I supposed to Love

ityP:
Love is based on knowledge and choice. I might not be attracted to someone, but if I get married to the person and I see how wonderful a person she is, love don start be that. I then make a conscious choice to stick. It doesn't matter who I get married to. As long as she doesn't have serious character flaws, I MUST love her. That's the mentality people should have going into marriage. OP clearly doesn't want to love her husband, it's not that she doesn't love him. When she sees marriage in this light, she would stick and make her marriage a success. And she would be happy too

it doesn't work for everyone... I can't respect a man I don't love, I won't even appreciate what you are doing. I won't even let you touch me. I'll feel irritated, I'll only pity you not love you. there should be love from both parties. I can't marry a man I don't love E.O.D.

ityP:
Zinny25, this clearly explains what love is and how a wise individual makes his or her marriage work

it would be difficult to respect a man I don't love

ityP:
If marriage na about love, divorce for no plenty d way e plenty now. You see, spark of love dey quench. If you aren't committed and if you don't take vows seriously, even if Una love pass Romeo and Juliet own, it will still end in tears.

Love is kind,love is patient,love keeps no record of bad done,love is understanding etc. Genuine love stands the test of time. when you genuinely love a person, you make sacrifices, you adjust your ways, just to make that person happy and so your relationship would work. Once there's no love, your relationship is headed for The rocks