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Just tell him to buy an iPhone or better still send you 250k

That was how I discharged one some months back

Mcslize:
I speak for everyone. Do not deny the fact that you girls take kind gestures from guys as equal to a guy being so into you whereas the guy is just being hospitable. When a guy treats a girl with too much niceness, it never ends well. That's why we guys have come to the realization that all that really do not make a girl like a guy. I will prepare food, serve you and then you will start misbehaving at the end thinking I did all that because of one thing called love.

I thank ubunja for all the miseductaions he dished out to guys. Trying to please a girl is the one very stvpid mistake a guy will ever make. Girls love to be handled with full dominance.

Even if I want to cook for a girl, not now again. If she wants to eat, she needs to buy the ingredients and cook it herself. When she is done, she should serve it and we eat together.

I have cooked for many girls over time. But does that really count? When quarrel burst, they will forget all those good things you've done in their lives and will make it looks like you've done nothing. Absolutely nothing! That's why I have changed never to treat a girl with any form of preferences. I will treat you just like how I treat a fellow guy like me.

I once told a girl that I see her as a guy so she should not expect me treating her like a Queen. After all we are all equal right? You girls have been clamoring for feminism and you are all equal to men.

Thus, we will treat you like we treat our fellow guys. We will talk to you like we talk to our fellow guys. Don't expect any preferential treatment from us. We are all equal now. If you can't cook, cooking for you won't make me be the best boyfriend to you in the world.

The moment quarrel burst, you forget all those good things the guy had done in your life. You see how you girls are wired?

I guess you have been meeting the wrong girls just as some girls have been meeting with wrong guys.

I have this to say to you...do not change who you are because of past experiences, do not become a bad person because some girl somewhere didn't appreciate your goodness or take you for granted. Don't stop being who you are because of some people who don't matter to you. What if you finally Miss that angel because of your new attitude.

Me sef if i should change based on past experience eeh that means my boo go suffer naa

The first day I visited him,he prepared a delicious jellof rice with fried fish, I didn't eat shaa, I just took a can malt.

Simplep:
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Speak for yourself please.And also change the kind of girls you move with.

gbam tell him...

Mini importation

thank you

gideon286:
If you are using google chrome, you click on English below the screen to change the language to English

Or follow these steps to change the language;

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Launch the Google Chrome app
Tap on the menu>settings.
Go to the "Advanced" section> "Site Settings".
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How to use the site on Uc Browser.
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please I'm still finding it hard to translate to English. I can't find 'Google Translate'

Please guys I need your help, I want to go into mini importation, I need guidelines. I want someone who is into it to teach or guide me... Thank you

Dear Lord please protect my family and friends in these ember months, I refuse to receive bad news... Amen

If you had seen this before entering, would it have stopped you So u even get mind snap her cm post for Nairaland and expect us to clap for you, well done...

But I Hope after that, you gave her some money to go get some new undies

This may sound funny but it's the truth, at least when there's an understanding before the relationship kicks off and before sombori starts falling, walking, skipping, dancing and sleeping in love, there won't be heartbreak

@ op are you a medical doctor

so sorry dear,these days people we love genuinely tend to love another person.

believe me you will be fine, if you have not experienced heartbreak then you have not started. concentrate on your exams, don't stop being the good girl you are, don't use this experience to treat the next guy badly in a bid to get back at guys, the one who truly loves you will come. Most importantly don't go and fail your exams or commit suicide ooo,the boy isn't Worth it

And the Ken is busy singing and releasing his village people's song

What the hell is going on It seems we have passed the era of suicide,we are now in the era of divorce

isn't it better to remain single instead of being married for few months, our society sees an unmarried person as a failure forgetting that it's not everyone that would get married.. Dear Lord when I get married,let the spirit of divorce not come close to me Amen

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Canye:
Please distinguished ladies of Nairaland this question is for you?

It's important that you give honest and candid answer because someones future happiness is at stake.

So here is a little background story, I joined this company and I've had the pleasure of working with a lovely lady who I have started having feelings for but I couldn't tell her because she has a boyfriend.

At some point in time this lady revels to me that she may probably leave this her BF because she can't wait for him forever to do the right thing (marriage). I saw this as an opportunity to tell her how I feel about her and she said she liked me too. Now she refers to me as the only one she knows, calling me honey pie and other sweet names in the office but I'm not comfortable yet with that because I know she is still with her BF.
So one day I decided to ask her if she is still with her BF and she said yes they are still together but in the office she acts like I'm her BF.
Most times when she starts calling me those sweet names I feel like telling her to stop it because I know she is still very much with her BF and probably just trying to use me and spoil other chances I may have with other ladies in the office.

So my question is this
Should I tell her to go focus on being with her guy and stop making me feel like we are dating when clearly we are not

Please you people should try and comment, this is an account I had to create for anonymity

ubunja zinny25 magnoliaa jessysparkles blackivy27 funmmyastic can you shed some light on this issue

well I think the lady is trying to be smart,since she really wants to settle down she has to keep both of you as she doesn't know who's gonna pop the question first. For her to have clearly tell you she's still with her boyfriend will justify her action if the boyfriend finally proposes, she will dump you and say after all you are aware that she has a boyfriend.
just define your relationship with her,if you ain't dating let it be clear to both of you.

Don't let someone use you as spare part...

frosbel2:
genuine pastors ? Where ?

at least I know one....My pastor

These demons are the ones giving genuine pastors bad name

Your husband is reaping what he sowed

who did he offend??

or did he enter into a covenant with thunder?

some people fast because they don't have food to eat

so instead of starving for nothing,they convert it to fasting

they will just end up rendering their brothers and sisters jobless.

isn't there a better way round this?

I thought there was a female among them...Tari Oliver, did she step down??

so people now rear snakes too,tufiakwa....u r lucky to have some snakes remaining, If I have my way I'll bomb ur snake farm, people rear chicken, goat,snail, fish ur own na snake.....

Igbo kwenu! I pray this union lasts shaaa

Igbo kwenu!!!
Congratulations to both of them, I pray it lasts for more than a year, Davido learn to keep your thing at home too

Is that pic up there the zlatan? What's attractive about that guy that my fellow girls will just be touching his thing...

If it were to be Peter okoye or 2 face or even small wizkid e for better

Am I still in this country How come I have never heard any of those songs

badfuckerz:
I have a girl I love and wanted to take things serious with her she also confess to love me but she can't double date and that her parent has warned her about the current relationship to the extent that the family has sort spiritual assistance base on the sign they are seeing from the guy in which all came out to say the guy is just wasting this girl time. I told her if she is in doubt I can arrange my family to meet her family since both of us are family friends. She said she can't leave the guy until the guy leave her .this relationship is a distant relationship in which they only see the themselves whenever she visited lag cos the guy is Lagos. she told me the guy has not been financially responsible for anything to her in which I have taken the burden on myself.even to the extent the guy was not in support of the girl to work for herself and yet he is not giving her anything. Now I observe that despite me calling her daily and even sending monthly data to her she only called or message me whenever she need my assistance for something. I just thought of it that I am been fooled and irrespective of how close I am to her I am cutting her off.

if a gal only calls you when she needs your assistance,it means she doesn't love you, she's only using you. Don't be surprised she May even be giving the other guy the money or data you send to her

pics first

let's start from there

pls nobody should mention me, I'm not feeling well

so somebody cannot open nairaland and read news in peace, who posted that dirty pic?? he should be banned

soon one of them will contest for a political position

RIP Damsel

No one knows the hour when Mr death will come knocking at the door, let's live everyday of our lives as if it's our last day on earth