Me for one I wont lie I was really feeling the guy until I got to the line he said he wants a woman that will shower him with gifts , he is mad he probably needs a man not a woman how can a guy say that if he is not gay

Secondly he asked for too much from a woman without stating much of what the lady gets in return I think he is a 419 just looking for someone to pamper him …….also “ready to face challenges ” what does that mean challenges like what , if I see him with another woman I should stand firm or what ??/

As earlier said I will delete the message . if he had said I need a loving and caring woman to be with for the rest of my life I think I would have applied but with all these qualities he obviously is ugly because fine people don’t say they are fine …, dishonest, NOTGod fearing, NOT a decent guy ….got a bad heart,, and he probably is a drop out

SoReal:

Hey sistas,what is it with callin him a joker and a loser and bla,bla,bla. I really don't understand what it is with us humans (girls especially) that gives us d impression that someone is going to h8 u if u get real. What exactly is wrong with what the brother asked for?

Meanwhile as for all u girls acting like he is asking for smthin that is out of d world,,
I am so sure that some of d chics who came up here dissing his mails.would have sent him a "PLS ADD ME" IM.

I brought up your name cos i was replying to wat u said.

SoReal:

Moreover, I was talkin more to the peeps that were condemnin d contents of the mail and making it seem like there was a problem with a guy asking for the qualities he was asking for.

If you do not see anything wrong in the qualities the guy asked for (although dat beats me), then dats your perogative. No need rubbishing other people's opinion. As they say, "One man's meat is another man's poison."

And the question i asked was, "what would your reaction be?"

lilnaomi:

lmao vinna. girl take it easy oo

Like I told a sweet lady like you earlier, it takes far more than all these to make me loose ma temper. So don't you worry your pretty head. I'm Cool, Calm and Collected.

emmeno:

Well, i'll just organize a deliverance service for him and make sure after that he's taken to a psychatric hospital for further treatment.

i'll second you on that, but in a reverse order

U gots not to listen to that crab, His a ghost.

Hmm, shey someone said she received same mail. Wel, i got this exact mail in my yahoo mailbox on saturday n he said he got my email add 4m nairaland. Didnt think much of it cos i dnt appreciate things like ds n moreso i knew he didnt send it to jst me.

dominobaby:

Hmm, shey someone said she received same mail. Wel, i got this exact mail in my yahoo mailbox on saturday n he said he got my email add 4m nairaland. Didnt think much of it because i dnt appreciate things like ds n moreso i knew he didnt send it to jst me.

Same thing i was gon say, it was quite funny tho.

yeah the guy is a looser, sure nothing wrong with what he said about his women, Mr. Perfect ya that's a really great name for him, cause he is really one of those wana bee's.

I mean, the way he expressed himself, he's looking for a perfect women, just as he is perfect, anyways good luck bro for the hunt of your Miss perfect.

but me, i'm not even moved by your words.

ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS,

wow, amazing. this sounds interesting. if u ask me siiiissttteerrss, i sincerly think this sounds more like a job interview. the basic requirements are outstanding!!!!!!!!!
the guy shouldnt be at the recieving end, love is reciprocal.

You know, now that i think about it, i wont be shocked if this were a joke email prepared by a girl and sent out to other girls on nairaland cos the tone of that mail sounds so feminine that it would be hard for a guy to come up with such

cry ass baby Poo

just delete the fxcking email and don't pay any more attention to the crap

_{*** comes in, reads ALL the posts, shakes his bald head (not really!), takes his seat at the council of elders with his bottle of palmwine. time to counsel his 'children' *****}

Hmmmmm, first things first. The guy who sent the emails must be going nuts, is that the new style of "finding" a wife?

Secondly, hmmmm. Going by the inputs of 90% of the females on this forum, hmmm,  what can a man say.
The "requirements" the guy gave in the email are not completely out of this world as majority of the females are making it out to be. Most of them would gladly turn to full time housewives if only to keep that boyfriend of theirs they "love" so much. Fronting has always been a girl thing, it did not start last week.
Yes we can diss the guy on an anonymous forum, but are his demands REALLY so outlandish?

As for the guys, hmmm,  Some say he's mad for asking to be showered with gifts by their women. Really? 

Secondly he asked for too much from a woman without stating much of what the lady gets in return

Hmmm, when did marriage become a give and take? i thot it was a sharing? Do you demand too much if your wife simply says "i love you" often, sends you surprise notes and little gifts once in a while? Is it mad if she buys you stuff?
Has marriage become a commercial enterprise?

hmmm,

I dont believe this is still going on and on, Must be serious

seems to me as someone in search of someone to worship him.

ill not make it 24hrs in such a relationship

i beg soreal i feel you you dey 4real, the thing is the way he went about the mail may be wrong but most guys are also guilt of the crime (dating sites) but what he said he wanted was not wrong, how many women would want the same thing from there guys, if you can ask for it we also can ask for it.

Infact, if a man sends this kind of mail to me, I will definitely delete it from my box because he is not my type. Besides he is not serious he is a joker, also I don't think I can worship my fellow human been as he required.

do u know this guy? how did he get your e-mail address??

Misslady(ur name is funny, no offence sha), he says he got my email add 4m ds same nairaland.

Na waoh!!! for you sisters. I can't believe you all speakng like this. See I'm a guy and I know that any medium could be employed to express one's desires to any one no matter who is involved. the fact that it happened to a sister from a broda does not mean that it is out of place. can any one of you here claim tht you have never been chaiked b/4 through this means? the sister simply requested for a simple advice and you are letting the whole hell loose. Easy o please!!!!

hey i think the guy is looking for who will come and carry his cross for him, a woman that cater for the family

most of you lack imagination, cause the guy they talk like that you think that is what he means, lets put it this way most of you don't qualify to be his chic i don't even blame most of the ladies replying this thread most of ya all are a bunch of children 16,17,18,19 and you think you are old enough to understand when a man is talking.

he sent u too? i thought it was only to me and hotangel!
well i ignored mine, so should u!

jus so y'all dont think am fibbing

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ah nothing to say again oh

That guy needs deliverance! He's asking for toooo much!

dat guys a fat p*ssy lol

if he find me he will be a lucky man

r u pretty or sumn?

Efani:

r u pretty or sumn?

Perverts dont care if u r pretty.

lol

I'ld just wish him goodluck, cos he'ld need it.