Considering the rate of infidelities in our society, especially coming from a woman that can be described as happily married, with a loving husband, and having everything, yet end up sleeping with another man say her boss in the office. One will begin to ask the important question, what are the things that can make a happily married woman sleep with another man? I believe knowing some of these things will help us to take necessary corrections and save our homes.

Obviously anyone who goes outside of marriage to seek sex, or emotional fulfillment is NOT HAPPY . . . get it? There really isn't a happily married woman or man who cheats. What you have is what SEEMS like a happy marriage to the person outside-looking-in.

Perhaps greed!!!

Like Richy would say. . . Its all the other spouse's fault. So @OP, here goes :
Oga is not doing his husbandly kpekus duties well. He needs to work on his pot belly, research deeply on the internet on how to keep the fire burning and glowing, he also needs to invest in "sexy" men thongs et all.
Oga is stingy.he has refused to spend on madam so she's banging outside for money and contracts.

Seriously,cheats do so for very varying and stoopid reasons. Sometimes for no reason at all.

Alcohol

Lucy001: Perhaps greed!!!

U know book!

Some people always want more of everything and because they are not satisfied, they don't mind cheating to get what they want.

I feel your definition of happily married is questionable. If she's happy then she's content with whatever her husband has to offer her even if its a bit below her expectation!

ifyalways: Like Richy would say. . . Its all the other spouse's fault. So @OP, here goes :
Oga is not doing his husbandly kpekus duties well. He needs to work on his pot belly, research deeply on the internet on how to keep the fire burning and glowing, he also needs to invest in "sexy" men thongs et all.
Oga is stingy.he has refused to spend on madam so she's banging outside for money and contracts.

Seriously,cheats do so for very varying and stoopid reasons. Sometimes for no reason at all.

LOL. Shaking my head.

@ Topic
1) Variety is the spice of life
2)(Wo)Man can not live by bread alone
3) No two men are the same even if they are identical twins
4) Abnormally high hormone levels
5) Adventuresome

. . . .I can go on but I am sure you get the idea. Besides, being happily married does not have anything to do with having an affair. A woman can love her husband and still have affairs. There is a misconception that sex equals love but that's not always the case, for some people. . .It's just a physical thing.

I sure hope I am not missing anything else ooh. . .Lemme go reread the cliffsnote I made from the wonderful men on this section.

BRB!

SOME women will cheat because they are unhappy.

on the other hand, some women will cheat JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN. There are a lot of women/men who havent cheated but given the perfect circumstance WILL. Only a personal principle can stop someone from cheating.

manosteel: Considering the rate of infidelities in our society, especially coming from a woman that can be described as happily married, with a loving husband, and having everything, yet end up sleeping with another man say her boss in the office. One will begin to ask the important question, what are the things that can make a happily married woman sleep with another man? I believe knowing some of these things will help us to take necessary corrections and save our homes.

possibly the same things that make happily married men end up in someone else's bed ...

loneliness.

A HAPPILY married woman does not cheat - simple.

A married woman that cheats is not HAPPY - simple.

Kobojunkie: Obviously anyone who goes outside of marriage to seek sex, or emotional fulfillment is NOT HAPPY . . . get it? There really isn't a happily married woman or man who cheats. What you have is what SEEMS like a happy marriage to the person outside-looking-in.

Haaaa!!!
Is this KoboJunkie??
For Once..For Once

..if she is seeking satisfaction from anyone other than her hubby,then she ain't happily married..someone that has all she needs will not b lookin outside..

..well,there's another way to look at it..some people get bored easily and once they notice that the marriage is all hearts & flowers,it looses spice to them and then they do whatever they can to sabotage that happiness..just to add excitement to d relationship..

One word 'Revenge!

Women are polygamous in nature too just like men

"happily married"

back to question....
The answer lies in what makes a "happily married" man sleep with another woman.

manosteel:
Considering the rate of infidelities in our society, especially coming from a woman that can be described as happily married, with a loving husband, and having everything, yet end up sleeping with another man say her boss in the office. One will begin to ask the important question, what are the things that can make a happily married woman sleep with another man? I believe knowing some of these things will help us to take necessary corrections and save our homes.

Infidelity is not just a woman thing, it is vice-versa and it is not good for either party. There is no reason that can justify extra marital affairs, it does nobody any good. To answer directly, any happily married woman that engaged in infidelity is the bane of the marriage and the marriage may not recover. These are some of things that can lead to this.
Indecent dressing and too much makeup
covetouness, greed
Too much talking, too much friends.
Involving third party in affairs of the home
excessive alcohol, too much partying, Too much BBM, wassup etc
Pornography
expecting too much from and contributing little or nothing to the marriage.
indiscipline and lack moral upbringing.

Sometimes from the husband like:
abandoning your wife unnecessarily
lack of security and irresponsibility
sexual and emotional starvation.
barrenness etc.

However, we are in charge of our lives and we live to face the consequences of our action, there is nothing your spouse would do or do not that can be an enough excuse. We sin not only to our spouse but to God if we
engage in it. Infidelity is a thing of the mind, renew your mind, resist it and it is gone.

Probably the same thing that make happily married men sleep with other women.

byvan03:
Probably the same thing that make happily married men sleep with other women.

Some Men just do shamelessly for no reason other than it is a Man's world.

bjcole:


Some Men just do shamelessly for no reason other than it is a Man's world.

I think that should be same reason for women too, because they want to and can. There is never a reason to cheat except than one chose to.

manosteel:
Considering the rate of infidelities in our society, especially coming from a woman that can be described as happily married, with a loving husband, and having everything, yet end up sleeping with another man say her boss in the office. One will begin to ask the important question, what are the things that can make a happily married woman sleep with another man? I believe knowing some of these things will help us to take necessary corrections and save our homes.

If she's happy,she wunt go out bt if she despite bein api went out,den she's GREEDY

kentzz:

If she's happy,she wunt go out bt if she despite bein api went out,den she's GREEDY

Even if she is not happy, she doesn't have to go out. What she will get outside is just momentarily happiness, she will still come back to square one or worse off.

byvan03:


I think that should be same reason for women too, because they want to and can. There is never a reason to cheat except than one chose to.

I don't completely agree with you, Some women cheat because they want and can but majority don't, infidelity is even more prevalent in men, Some married men even drag some married women into the act. Women still think more with their head more than men in case of infidelities.

bjcole:


I don't completely agree with you, Some women cheat because they want and can but majority don't, infidelity is even more prevalent in men, Some married men even drag some married women into the act. Women still think more with their head more than men in case of infidelities.

I don't know the exact cheating figures from both gender, all I know is that it is a deliberate action whether committed by a man or woman. No one can drag anyone into infidelity if they don't want to cheat too. I think women seem to think more with their heads because the society is unforgiving when they are caught, otherwise the ability to think is 50-50.

lack of contentment

byvan03:



I don't know the exact cheating figures from both gender, all I know is that it is a deliberate action whether committed by a man or woman. No one can drag anyone into infidelity if they don't want to cheat too. I think women seem to think more with their heads because the society is unforgiving when they are caught, otherwise the ability to think is 50-50.

Well said, Infidelity would be greatly reduced if we can keep our emotions and thoughts in right place. I see every act of infidelity as foolishness and ignorance. It's just like seeing fire and deliberately putting hand in it. Every Spouse should deliberately and consistently act in ways that would discourage infidelity too.