lucabraski: U guys are just talking cos u have never experieneced d evil in most of dis so called house helps. They are EVIL. Have u ever experienced a situation wher ur 2yr old boy who has been walking suddenly starts to crawl, or ur very brilliant child becomes very dull? or ur kids always falling ill and no doctor can diagonize d problem?
How about taking ur child to church and whenever the name of Jesus is mentioned, he screams? All these have happened to many people just because d so called househelp is seeking promotion in d evil world.

It is just unfortunate dat an 8yr old child is involved hence d news. As for me, these hoosehelps deserve whatever dey get

wait wait wait are u normal,like seriously are u sure ure mentally ok,1st of all i am ashamed dat ure a woman,then am ashamed u came out from a womans womb,so because u had d priviledge of having a mother and father who trained u up to a level of self establishment u feel dat house helps droped from d sky and shouldnt b given their respect 1st as a human being,leme ask u a question so because a son is dull @ school,its d house help,ur daughter is always sick,its d house help,ur husband just lost his job,its d house help,everything househelp,what kind of disgraceful woman are u dat brings shame to other decent women out there,so a 14yr old househelp deserves hot water all over her body,now let me turn tables around,if a 14yr old gal poured water on ur ward,what will u do?beat her to death abi?anyway one good thing i am happy about is d fact dat girls are becomin more educated and enlightened,dey would rather learn skills dan to b slaves of ur whims and caprices consequently house helps have reduced to d bearest minimum except 4 sex starved matured 19-24 yr old gals who r lookin for a place to stay and will feign house help (am sure u wont employ gals of dose age because we all know d reasons).people like u are what makes gals avoid doing house maid as much as possible,by d way y should an under aged gal who is suposed to b in school slaving for a spoilt and indulgent kid?smh.2ndly how do u knw ur house help is posesed by demons,u suspect or u know,where r d facts?smh,u irritate,u make me sick and if i had my way,ill rather have u born as a swine (@ least those ones lack d capacity to think)

steph7: infact lemme put time line for u. 1) goes home, sees dead baby 2)applies for leave .... note i wasn't present for 1 and 2. 3) resumes work, 4) some other colleagues come to her table to console her and ask about the girl, she explains that got the girl after police arrested the girl's uncle that brought her. ....any further questions

Wow, she must have the worst collegues in the world. Her baby died in a freezer and they waited for her to resume mourning leave before coming to "ask what happened" wow.
When I fell into early labor, even though I was home before I got to the hospital some of my colleagues were there already.
These colleagues na wa oh, and Nigerian colleagues self, no be Oyibo, Na wa oh, so she lost a baby in such a violent manner, took leave to bury and mourn her baby and na when she resume work they come gather they ask. Nigerian colleagues self wey even if not for Sympathy for gossip they would have raced to the house tay tay.

steph7: @ debrief This going back and forth doesn't make sense, the fact that you have had gone experiences with maids and u treat them well doesn't mean everyone that has had a bad experience with them maltreated them. Same way it doesn't mean that they are all bad people. Lucrabraski would have his own reasons for his post, who know what he has been thru in the hands of a maid. No one here is even supporting having a child as a maid. I'm through, if u like pick holes in this one or interprete it any how .

I am not going back and forth steph, you are with your stories trying to justify the "wickedness" of maids. You come here with "stories" some of which you claimed to "experience" none of which you can totally defend or logically justify. I deal with these stories everyday, with women who try to justify slavery

Dis story reminds me of one of our former neighbours dat had one insolent and over pampered ten yr old kid and dis kid always beat d 12 yr old house help if food is not ready on tym,slaps d gal anyhow like theres no tomorow even in d presence of d boys mom and of which neighbours always tel her to stop d way her and her son bullies dis gal she will say people should live her and her son,dey are jealous of her and of course everybody stoped talkin to her and minded their buisness,anyway dis gal ran away 2 yrs later because d inhuman treatment was just to much like givin her spoilt beans to eat,sleepin on d bare floor in d kitchen,@ least i av seen dat myself twice and so many other wicked things like dat,apparently dis woman wasnt bothered and didnt care to look for her,unfortunatly for d woman she didnt tel her son mary has ran away,d boy came back from boarding school one day went to d mother in d kitchen and asked for mary,d mother ignored him and continued with d food she was cooking (4 reasons best known to her) d boy faced d mom and said mumy is it not u am talkin to,y r u behaving as if ure deaf,d mother then slapped d boy,unfortunatly dis slap annoyed d boy who eventually dragged d moms wrapper out of her waist,locked d dorr to d kitchen,kicked her til she fell on d floor and started breaking everything he could lay his hands on on her,he broke plates on her,flung pots on her,punched her wel, poured d hot stew dat was stil on d stove all over her face,turned d kitchen upside down etc meanwhile d woman was screaming for help and dis attracted neighbours,by d tym dey got to d kitchen dey saw it was already locked and begged d boy to open d door,by d tym he opened d door,he fled while dey rushed d mom to d hospital,see jesting and mockings by d mebos me and my son,live us alone etc until d doctor drove away dose people,i heard d boy sef has ran to lagos and he is doing agbero there,pursuing commercial bus drivers with sticks for 2o naira and smokin hemp with d money so u useless and unfortunate women dat know how to spoil ur kids rotten and bully ur house help,continue,dis days God is a God of quick judgement,he doesnt waste tym again like d days of old,d way u treat ur kids and house help will either make or mar u,so those ones dat know how to subject househelps to their horrors continue,u will meet ur propert where u left it like tope alabi will say.mshewwwwww

Watched Ellen Degeneress Show this morning, those 2 cute girls Sopiha Grace and Rosie were saying they have a secret life as mermaids. , People were laughing but if they were in Nigeria and poor, we for don carry them go deliverance. The big one says sometimes she turns into a mermaid , the small one said as a baby she was a mermaid, always in water. .
My own son believes he has secret powers, always threatening to make his brother disappear. Poor man pickin wey dey stay with somebody say that one na witch abi wizard

debrief08: Watched Ellen Degeneress Show this morning, those 2 cute girls Sopiha Grace and Rosie were saying they have a secret life as mermaids. , People were laughing but if they were in Nigeria and poor, we for don carry them go deliverance. The big one says sometimes she turns into a mermaid , the small one said as a baby she was a mermaid, always in water. .
My own son believes he has secret powers, always threatening to make his brother disappear. Poor man pickin wey dey stay with somebody say that one na witch abi wizard

Awww bless!!! A poor child's imagination is witchcraft and an ajebo child's imagination is fantasy and creativity. You never jam

I am not going back and forth steph, you are with your stories trying to justify the "wickedness" of maids. You come here with "stories" some of which you claimed to "experience" none of which you can totally defend or logically justify. I deal with these stories everyday, with women who try to justify slavery[/quote]
How I'm I justifying the wickedness of maids, all I am saying is that some of them are mean, which is the same situation u would have with any stranger coming to live with u and ur family, whether the person is rich or poor. So ur telling me if your own colleague lost someone , and takes leave to mourn / bury the person , when she resumes work you won't go and  how the person is doing, even though you went to visit during the leave. Na wa for you oh

steph7: I am not going back and forth steph, you are with your stories trying to justify the "wickedness" of maids. You come here with "stories" some of which you claimed to "experience" none of which you can totally defend or logically justify. I deal with these stories everyday, with women who try to justify slavery
How I'm I justifying the wickedness of maids, all I am saying is that some of them are mean, which is the same situation u would have with any stranger coming to live with u and ur family, whether the person is rich or poor. So ur telling me if your own colleague lost someone , and takes leave to mourn / bury the person , when she resumes work you won't go and  how the person is doing, even though you went to visit during the leave. Na wa for you oh

No dear, I wouldnt because I would have visited and consoled and called regularly, colleague oh, no be stranger wey I hear her gist, Person pickin die, na house I go visit hear and console, no be when she come back to work I go come dey ask how far? I would have heard all the details visiting her.
please oh, workers help me out, will you wait for a colleague to resume after loosing a baby in such a gruesome manner before you start asking "how far?'

They never employ 'housemaids' who are big enough to return their slaps! They only employ the ones they and their children can beat and their husbands molest!