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How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by vivianc(f): 8:55am On Nov 13, 2012 |
Pls, I need new ideas cos I have run out of one. My 2 teen sisters are driving me crazy.......and I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 13, 2012 |
They are at a stage when they feel they know it all, want to do and see it all. All you should do now is to seek to understand them and manage this transition well. I have a teenage neice in my house believe me it took so much wisdom, tact and a reminder from my own sisters about my teeange years before I calmed down and made peace with the situation. Shouting and constantly punishing them will only push them further to rebelion, sit and talk with them, listen to them! Why do they act out? Who are they trying to impress? If you don't manage them well at this stage it goes very wrong. Remember your own teenage years and all you had to go through multiply it by 10 because now we have "the kardashians" teaching them all sorts of rubbish, we phones, facebook and chat groups, so manage them well, if you shout and scream without talking all they need is 100 naira for internet cafe. Stop punishing and start listening 6 Likes |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 13, 2012 |
Help them develop a healthy esteem and their own identity. Its the follow the crowd mentality that causes rebelion at this age 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by ngmart(m): 9:34am On Nov 13, 2012 |
First of all take away their phone to deprive them from 2go because 2go is possess it has the tendency to lead people astray 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by otokx(m): 1:35pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
vivian chinaza: Pls, I need new ideas cos I have run out of one. My 2 teen sisters are driving me crazy.......and I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest. just reason with them and understand em, not sure you were much different from them when you were at that age. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by dilbert100: 1:36pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
take away the phone.....always works ! 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by nikkyshyne(f): 1:40pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
How much are u selling? |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by 5much(m): 1:42pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
youthful exoberance nd band wagon effect at work.u really need wisdom to handle this.have one on one talk with them.do the talking one person at a time. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by iamswizz(m): 1:43pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Seek God first and every other thing shall be....... 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by greatgod2012(f): 1:48pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
How about collecting their phones, monitor the way they dress and restrict their outgoings. Always advise them, and u will definately see some changes. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by iamswizz(m): 1:49pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
5much: youthful exoberance nd band wagon effect at work.u really need wisdom to handle this.have one on one talk with them.do the talking one person at a time. 'Exuberance' not *exoberance*.... Quit the grandiloquence.... 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Sijo01(f): 1:55pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Hmmm, very sensitive stage of human development! |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by KINGwax(m): 1:55pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
nikkyshyne: How much are u selling?just about my thought! |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Omogbhollahorn(m): 1:56pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
I dont really have one but i think advice and patience can do the magic and b4 i forget prayer keep praying for them,i do have a teenage bro he makes me wanna kill him but i just go to my room and keep myself busy 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Shieldjnr: 2:07pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Seat them down and have heart to heart talk with them.shear your experiences with them from there they will learn to change |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by feminineA: 2:09pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Rather than screaming, shouting or even beating them when they misbehave why not calmly as questions,listen and at the end calmly tell them their punishment. Withholding some privileges will surely help but don't overdo it 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by femiseun1: 2:12pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
@ vivian chinaza Pictures Pls |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Imoobot(m): 2:13pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Give them only rice no chiken, let them watch only cattoon network no African Magic. however, if there is no changes over time, just sale them. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by floriana(m): 2:20pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Post full pictures please. We cannot offer any useful or valid advice on what we cannot see. Doing so will be grossly preposterous. Sincerely! |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by sundaybam(m): 2:23pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Best u can do is 2 relate well with them. So dat they can tell u anything bodring them. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Welder(m): 2:45pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
floriana: Post full pictures please. We cannot offer any useful or valid advice on what we cannot see . Doing so will be grossly preposterous. Sincerely! Bad guy, you mean buy shei... |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by lastpage: 3:00pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
I have daughters and the method l used is to "be their best friend from a very early age"! Not easy but "firmness when needed" and being extremely accommodating and open with them ensures that they feel "easy" in my presence. I smack my children a lot at around the age of "6 - 10 years" (thats when we "set" the "ground rules" in our father/child relationship).... l also endeavor to be very close to them (by constant reassurance and open display of love, giving gifts, outdoor activities together, like cycling, football, e.t.c) around that period. E noor easy o but l can tell you It works. Now, when l just "frown my face", they already know someone has CROSSED A RED LINE! ( over the years, l have "designed" a special type of FROWN that can even kill a Gorilla" ) I dont even need to say ANYTHING, talkless of shouting! Its better if our kids can be our "friend" instead of being "afraid" of us,,,,,, ...cos they would outgrow that "fear" one day.... and what would you have left? Lastpage! 12 Likes |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by ocelot2006(m): 3:01pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Uhmmm...ban them from shopping? |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Benite: 3:08pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Bring them to my house make i use my thing teach them lesson by destroying (boring big hole in) their em... with my rod. Make u see if them no go change and start they fear the thing. Or Madam call sokoto governor make him come flog them bulala if them no go change |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Ogb21(m): 3:20pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Spare not de rod nd spoil de child. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Jalal(m): 3:26pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Make i place my bid, d 2 for 10 naira. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by NEGZY(f): 3:29pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Come down to their level and interact with them(and making them remember u can still spank dem wen dey go wild). Encourage them by buying them useful literature that will help them. Collecting their phones will not even help cos they'd always find a way to do whatever they want to. Don't compare them with pple and help them to stay positive minded,making them know they can do better than d next person. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by ngmart(m): 3:30pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Practice all you have been told and give us feedback
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Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
Lol my parents used to take all of my entertainment (tv, dvd player, computer, game console; etc) out of my room i would get my portable cd player back on weekends lmao. |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by ITbomb(m): 3:35pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
vivian chinaza: Pls, I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest.Interested Here is my proof of past successful deals. 2 Likes
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Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
First of all, how are older are you than they? |
Re: How Do You Punish Your Teenage Girls When They Misbehave? by jude33084(m): 3:52pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
vivian chinaza: Pls, I need new ideas cos I have run out of one. My 2 teen sisters are driving me crazy.......and I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest. Are they up to blowing age? |
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