Efemena_xy: ^^ Jide, no matter what your differences might be, you DON'T spit on/at people. That's disgusting

jidegirl12:

you are a big fat Hypocrite! What a Joke!

jidegirl12:

But you saw all the names he's been calling me and my father ? I guess you didn't have nothing to say bout that but that's okay

maclatunji:

Hehehehe to shortsighted, ineffectual thinkers like you. Hide like a cockroach in the dark and don't get into the light. Objective reasoning is too much for you. I know you are hurting but I did warn you and you needed that wordlashing #Pele

Efemena_xy: I quit

When una two finish, do ping the rest of us - to let us know it's safe to come back...

Efemena_xy: Thanks Mac

uplawal: @Sis Zayhal,can you show me a narration that says wives of companions of the prophet worked after the verse was sent,or khadijat worked after the verse?thanks.Because you said,you came here too correct misconception.

[size=18pt]In Islam even if a woman wants to work it should never for once jeopadise the training of your kids islamically e.g learning arabic/tajweed,Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet and all other good things kids should know and do,their meals ontime,their sleep on time,their homework,laundry, etc ,husby's food ontime,his laundry[/size]ability to look beautiful for him cos its only Him Allah commanded a woman to show her beauty etc, giving your extended family time,and not failing to give a quality time to the worship of Allah,now tell me if a pious woman goes outthere to work her head off just as her husband is doing,who does all these,is it nanny?Its prefarably for one to own business fine,or work very few hours,like four hours in a dignified environment, i for one, i buy and sell islamic clothing,halal catering,and in near future inshaALLAH planning learning sewing halal wears,yet i don't contribute to bills,my husband will never ask me for a dime,cos its his responsibility to foot bills as Allah said,cos i have my responsibilities as a wife and mother too.

To the one that asked if am Alabodo,Its better to be Alabodo,who gets pockets money from her husband and meets all her needs without stress,which is accepted,than to be an overworked sadist stresfull face woman who pays bills with her husband or pay the full bills and the husband still KO (IBASUN TO KAN)Sour /hard*** to her,So tell me,is your husband not ripping you off?except he compensate you with the pepetual nappy changing,and guess what?when Your husby is tired of those stupid chores,He will just opt for a extra-marital or if hes bold enough,He will marry her and you will become everlasting sadist.

zayhal: @jidegirl

You're getting so many things wrong about Islam perhaps because you're using your home/experience to judge all Muslims. To start with, most of the muslim men around me are usually the first to apologise when they wrong their wives, in fact, I have one who jokes about the fact that whether he's the wrong or wronged, he's the one that apologises because his wife simply refuses to. Well, maybe I'm just lucky to have such one-in-a-million, exceptional muslim men around me.

On the topic, you emphasise that the Quran says the man must be responsible for everything in the home. You're not far from the truth. Each partner has clear stipulated responsibilities and roles to play in the home and the quran states these in no unclear terms. Interestingly, you will not find anywhere in same holy book that forbids the woman from helping her husband should the need arise.

If a man refuses his wife to work, it's a personal choice.[size=18pt]It is not prohibited for a woman to work and earn money in Islam as long as her work does not get in the way of her primary responsibility which is her home, hubby, kids.[/size] The Prophet's first wife was a successful business woman and she and her hubby (Prophet Muhammed) did business together. How about that? There's the history of many muslim companions of the Prophet whose wives were the breadwinners in their homes.

I guess maclatunji ignored uplawal's post because of her over-sentimental and aggressive approach to issues. I'd do same.