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Courtship In Islam by Juwonesho(f): 1:38pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Salam alaikum waramotulah. I have some courtship-related issues I'd really like for us to discuss: * I know "dating" is prohibited in Islam but I used to think that except it's an arranged marriage whereby your Wali or a relative would have done a proper investigation about whom they deem good for you as a spouse; it's just logical to get to know your intended spouse at least enough to know s/he will make a good wife/husband and good mother/father for your kids. Now my question is "what makes a pre-marriage relationship halal?" How d'u go about fully knowing your intended without 'courting' them, which is seen as haram * Is there a stated or likely duration between you meeting someone you want to marry and the time you tie the knot (i.e like a courtship period)? * What are the halal ways( effective ones o!) for a muslimah to search for a marriage partner; is it even allowed? I really want to be cleared on these issues. Jazakumullah |
Re: Courtship In Islam by tbaba1234: 2:09pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Wa aleikum salam, * Dating is prohibited , you are right... But You are allowed to get to know your spouse. I wrote this earlier When i say pre marital affairs, i mean boyfriend-girlfriend affair.. You are either married or you are not. In Surah maidah, Allah says (rough translation): *There is no duration but it is better,both of you reach reach your decision quickly. * It is allowed for a sister to propose marriage to a brother, if she thinks he fits the bill. 2 Likes |
Re: Courtship In Islam by Juwonesho(f): 3:56pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
tbaba1234: Wa aleikum salam, Jazakallah. the last(3rd) issue in the post has two parts; are there halal (& effective) ways she can search for a marriage partner? Like, suggestions? |
Re: Courtship In Islam by maclatunji: 4:45pm On Dec 12, 2012 |
Like putting the word out that she wants to get married to a man with certain criteria spelt-out. You can also look at trustworthy Muslim leaders doing the search for you based on your criteria- this will only work in your favour if they don't have vested interests. There are also a few Islamic forums/events where matchmaking is done. 2 Likes |
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