Don't know if am weird but heard a guy commenting on AIT about his late wife and he said they have never argued. Also watz d difference between an arguement and a misunderstanding?

Its not possible expect 2 things:

1) They were pretending to each other throughout the period of their marriage.

2) By arguement he meant real quarrel that results in physical

Even siblings argue and fight among themselves talk less of some1 you just met.

Abi? But iv been thinkn abt it n dat necessitated my 2nd question, d diff btw arguement n misunderstanding.My spouse keeps sayn its possible to have a misunderstanding without arguing. I think misunderstanding lead to arguing so how on earth can dat guy say them neva argue before? I will like dat kind of marriage o!

There are actually women that are too docile to argue,they take their husbands utterances as the gospel.Yes,it is possible for a couple not to argue but the combo must consist of a dumbass and a smartAss.

Yes an arguement doesn't necessarily have to be hostile,it can be a light hearted conversation with opposite ideas.A misunderstanding can arise in form of a wife misinterpreting the motives behind her hubby's action,thus resorting to the silent treatment to punish him.You see,misunderstanding doesn't necessarily need speech.I don't think people can argue without speech.

Just my humble opinion from my lay man understanding.

If your argument means physical abuse or fighting......then no!
But misunderstanding.........i have had series of that.
May God help us all.

[quote author=byvan]Yes,it is possible for a couple not to argue but the combo must consist of a dumbass and a smartAss.

Dis rily made me laugh!

@greatgod2012; no, i don't mean that arguement shld be physical abuse but some sort of verbal exchange. You talk ur own I talk my own.

Misunderstandings can lead to arguments.
Arguments can lead to misunderstandings.

Arguments are theories or beliefs used to convince or intimidate others, when you do not agree with them or you have different perspectives on ideas and concepts from theirs.

Misunderstandings are misconceptions based on lack of knowledge or ignorance.

byvan: There are actually women that are too docile to argue,they take their husbands utterances as the gospel.Yes,it is possible for a couple not to argue but the combo must consist of a dumbass and a smartAss.

Yes an arguement doesn't necessarily have to be hostile,it can be a light hearted conversation with opposite ideas.A misunderstanding can arise in form of a wife misinterpreting the motives behind her hubby's action,thus resorting to the silent treatment to punish him.You see,misunderstanding doesn't necessarily need speech.I don't think people can argue without speech.

Just my humble opinion from my lay man understanding.

Better you have a docile/dumb woman than a smart wisenker who will try to form a parrarrel government and ruin your home.

7842I:

Better you have a docile/dumb woman than a smart wisenker who will try to form a parrarrel government and ruin your home.

It takes a very dumb man to marry a dumb woman with his hard earned money.Imagine a wife calling you to ask for guidance in a situation an average mind can handle.Marrying a dumb man or woman is like marrying a kid.Smart people are attracted to people that can stimulate their intellect.

I don't in any way endorse women forming over sabi for their husband but you can gently bring a new perspective to a situation without coming off as over sabi.Most smart men can't marry a dumb wife,dumb men love dumb women so they can effectively shroud their dumbness in the guise of manhood without being countered.

Your mind will be at rest when you have a smart wife at home.A dumb woman can still ruin her home with her dumbness or don't you know dumbness can cost a life

Why won't we have arguement,are we dolls ni? It is part of relationship,and it makes each person's stand to be known,and respected.

chaircover:

Even my daughters bratz and barbie dolls fight . . . or so she tells me

lol,don't mind the op,ma.

7842I:
Better you have a docile/dumb woman than a smart wisenker who will try to form a parrarrel government and ruin your home.

It's true.
Better to have an empty headed imbëcile as a wife so that she will be too dumb to say anything that goes contrary to what you say.
Afterall we all know that women are not allowed to have opinions or minds of their own. They must be lorded over by their husbands at all times.

fellis:

It's true.
Better to have an empty headed imbëcile as a wife so that she will be too dumb to say anything that goes contrary to what you say.
Afterall we all know that women are not allowed to have opinions or minds of their own. They must be lorded over by their husbands at all times.

what you have at home shouldn't be called wife,but home property. Imagine having a wife that can't argue with you,nawa for you ooo. Some men sha. I can't date a woman that's so dumb to check my excesses at times. Arguement at times can be for positive resons.

7842I:

Better you have a docile/dumb woman than a smart wisenker who will try to form a parrarrel government and ruin your home.

are you for real? So you prefer to marry a dumb,who can't use her brain at all? Such attitude is called egocentric. A wife is a partner,and not slave.

Yomieluv: are you for real? So you prefer to marry a dumb,who can't use her brain at all? Such attitude is called egocentric. A wife is a partner,and not slave.

What are you talking about? The Bible says a woman should submit to her husband and he should rule over her. Nothing like equality or partnership for inside there.

People who has never been there always talks as if they know what they are talking about. Imagine not arguing or misunderstanding on issues then surely somebody is dying of depression in there.

fellis:

What are you talking about? The Bible says a woman should submit to her husband and he should rule over her. Nothing like equality or partnership for inside there.

so submission is the same as being dumb? Go get a life,u must have been a bully to ur wife.

Yomieluv: so submission is the same as being dumb? Go get a life,u must have been a bully to ur wife.

I didn't say submission is the same thing as being dumb. You were the one that said women were supposed to be partners instead of inferior subordinates and I was correcting your mistake.

When people dey argue and debate with themselves (case study :nairaland) na him you dey ask whether couples argue?

Is it possible not to disagree or sometimes have a diff world view from someone you met as an adult,has a diff upbringing maybe even traditions? .
We dont have arguments as someone i know will say we have 'heated fellowship' .Not possible not to with me and my i have researched it self. .Hubby sef asks if i am ok when i say am not in the mood to argue.

byvan: There are actually women that are too docile to argue,they take their husbands utterances as the gospel.Yes,it is possible for a couple not to argue but the combo must consist of a dumbass and a smartAss.

Yes an arguement doesn't necessarily have to be hostile,it can be a light hearted conversation with opposite ideas.A misunderstanding can arise in form of a wife misinterpreting the motives behind her hubby's action,thus resorting to the silent treatment to punish him.You see,misunderstanding doesn't necessarily need speech.I don't think people can argue without speech.

Just my humble opinion from my lay man understanding.

agreed abt the docile type of girlies, bt there will be one outta those days she's gonna talk. I'm talkin from experience