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‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by majortele(m): 10:05am On Jan 27, 2013

The recent visit of the Global Fund on Fight HIV/AIDS, TB and malaria monitoring team led by Andrew Hurst was to Nigeria gave a detailed insight of the life commercial sex workers.
Behind Mass Park in Zuba, a satellite town in Abuja is Blessing Udeh, easily described as “your everyday type of woman.
There’s nothing in her gait or looks to suggest that she is in what many refer to asthe oldest profession in the world.
Probably in her late 40’s, she’s a widow with three children who seemingly had a good life with her husband until fate played a cruel one on her by snatching him away.
An indigene of Imo State, getting Udeh to talk took someeffort as she fought severally to control her emotions.

She stated: “My husband died and left no money for the family. So, I had to fend for myself by joining the business (prostitution) to keep body andsoul together.”

According to her, she had a fairly good life, as a full time housewife, with her husband who was in solely charge of thefamily’s upkeep until he died.

She also disclosed that it was as a result of the devastating effect of the demolition exercise carried out by the former minister of the Federal Capital, Mallam Nasir el- Rufai that claimed the life of her husband.

“The building my husband built in Karmo was demolished by El-Rufai. This affected my husband so much that he couldn’t rise up financially again after that. It was the effect ofthe demolition that affected him and he died eventually. After his death, my children and I were thrown into abject poverty.
There was no where we could start from and nobody or even relations were willing to help us. It got so bad that my children who had dropped out from school, and I were begging daily for sustenance.”

The mother of three, who claimed to have embraced the profession recently when all else failed, disclosed that life too in the fast lane is not as rosy as she thought.

She said that she makes between N500 and N2, 000 a night which is meagre compared to the amount they pay for lodgings at the brothel.

“We pay N5, 400 for accommodation weekly and I have not even gotten enough to pay this week’s rent,” she said as at the time of conducting this interview.

She, however, appealed to the federal government, well-meaning and wealthy Nigerians to come to her aid.
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Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by mymadam(m): 10:22am On Jan 27, 2013
Nonsense! It's the same old story. Come on, there're jobs at construction sites all over the country, madam.... BUT once a prostitute, always a prostitute. I pity your children but definitely not you. God bless Nigeria.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by mike404(m): 10:26am On Jan 27, 2013
ODE embarassed
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by malele(m): 10:41am On Jan 27, 2013
Easterners pls come home and invest ur money
Nigeria is not one
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by mimima(f): 10:48am On Jan 27, 2013
YOU just want to ruin your life and that your innocent children.there are little biz that can assist you na like selling of satchet water,softdrinks,recharge cards etc
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by abouzaid: 11:33am On Jan 27, 2013
Her husband built a house in abuja instead of owerri? And she was a full time housewife then too? Ndi imo ana ezuzu ka, fa ana emeka ana wu otu, ibia ebea na ugwu hausa, o bụ etu a ka fa si biri ebea ju ina uno, ife nine fa nwere bụ na ugwu hausa ka odi, ụmụ fa anaro ana ụlọ, ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa anụko di ndi hausa an yoruba ebea. Ndi imo biko maru unu ife kwụsị imetọzi afa ndi igbo. Ọgwụ ka o ha mu na ọnụ. Ka udo chia.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 11:45am On Jan 27, 2013
She is from IMO STATE..........Reminds me of another thread.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jan 27, 2013
Everything was wrong. House in Abuja and none at village to fall back to.
Housewife in these days and times is suicidal
Marriage without laying solid foundation is dead by intention waiting for an El-Rufai to be blamed on.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by MrGlobe(m): 12:24pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: Her husband built a house in abuja instead of owerri? And she was a full time housewife then too? Ndi imo ana ezuzu ka, fa ana emeka ana wu otu, ibia ebea na ugwu hausa, o bụ etu a ka fa si biri ebea ju ina uno, ife nine fa nwere bụ na ugwu hausa ka odi, ụmụ fa anaro ana ụlọ, ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa anụko di ndi hausa an yoruba ebea. Ndi imo biko maru unu ife kwụsị imetọzi afa ndi igbo. Ọgwụ ka o ha mu na ọnụ. Ka udo chia.
WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! cool
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Flye: 12:33pm On Jan 27, 2013
Unacceptable excuse by lazy and fast money maker woman. There is something better that she can do in her state or anyother states besides abuja even in abuja there are business she can do besides prostitution. Aboki with 5 wives is cathering for his wives and children in Abuja yet his tomato and pepper business is not more than 100thausand naira.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 12:53pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: Her husband built a house in abuja instead of owerri? And she was a full time housewife then too? Ndi imo ana ezuzu ka, fa ana emeka ana wu otu, ibia ebea na ugwu hausa, o bụ etu a ka fa si biri ebea ju ina uno, ife nine fa nwere bụ na ugwu hausa ka odi, ụmụ fa anaro ana ụlọ, ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa anụko di ndi hausa an yoruba ebea. Ndi imo biko maru unu ife kwụsị imetọzi afa ndi igbo. Ọgwụ ka o ha mu na ọnụ. Ka udo chia.
nwanne biko mechionu! gini mere iji asi naani ndi imo na emetosi aha ndi igbo? obu naani ndi imo rugasiri ulo na ugwu awusa? kama i ga ekwu okwu ka o dabaa ndi igbo n'ile,gi na ata ndi imo uta. mara kwa otu i si ekwu okwu biko. angry angry angry
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by abouzaid: 1:13pm On Jan 27, 2013
Nwanne m, ike ndi imo agwụgo anyi na ugwu hausa ebea. Ifu nwa ada onye mbaise nuru di onye hausa ebea ụbọchị gara aga a? Okwa i bewe akwa? Nwata mara mma bia gụọ akwụkwọ ma nwekwa ezigbo aka ọrụ, mana o bụ di onye hausa ka o jere nụọ. Ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa nuru ndi hausa na akụsi isi na ala na ụka alakuba. Ọtụtụ nuru ndi yoruba na ata nnukwu afufu ebe a. Ọtụtụ muru ndi yoruba nwa, o ju inu fa. Ndi enugwu na anambra anaghị eme udi nzuzu a. Ho ha ọ na ewute mu.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: Nwanne m, ike ndi imo agwụgo anyi na ugwu hausa ebea. Ifu nwa ada onye mbaise nuru di onye hausa ebea ụbọchị gara aga a? Okwa i bewe akwa? Nwata mara mma bia gụọ akwụkwọ ma nwekwa ezigbo aka ọrụ, mana o bụ di onye hausa ka o jere nụọ. Ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa nuru ndi hausa na akụsi isi na ala na ụka alakuba. Ọtụtụ nuru ndi yoruba na ata nnukwu afufu ebe a. Ọtụtụ muru ndi yoruba nwa, o ju inu fa. Ndi enugwu na anambra anaghị eme udi nzuzu a. Ho ha ọ na ewute mu.
i have anambra friends who are married to ndi ugwu and they are living fine.i dont see any problem with that.pointing accusing fingers on ndi imo for all the crimes committed by ndi igbo is uncalled for.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by slimming: 4:05pm On Jan 27, 2013
The same excuse for success is equal to failure.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by chiozor: 4:58pm On Jan 27, 2013
Yeye angry women having excuse for their idiotic attitude all the time!
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by redsun(m): 5:04pm On Jan 27, 2013
Nigeria has no privisions for the fallen at all.Imagine the faith of this woman,destroyed by the wicked system and left with no choice but to expose her self to the dangers if HIV.

It is truly a dog eat dog world.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by abouzaid: 5:09pm On Jan 27, 2013
berem: [b][/b]
bia, ọ gini mere iji suwa bekee? Biko pia modify aka, fichasia ife a i dere tupu ndi mmanu ejiri ya koba ndi igbo ọnụ.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 27, 2013
Same old story.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by abouzaid: 5:20pm On Jan 27, 2013
redsun: Nigeria has no privisions for the fallen at all.Imagine the faith of this woman,destroyed by the wicked system and left with no choice but to expose her self to the dangers if HIV.

It is truly a dog eat dog world.
that is one of the evils of capitalism. If she was in a socialist state like sweden, her family will be entitled to social programs like free or low cost housing,free health services, free education to phd level etc. Infact this services are offered to everybody in that country regardless of financial statues.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by redsun(m): 5:20pm On Jan 27, 2013
Life is ruthless in nigeria,in a society where the everyday citizens are invincible. Prostitution is the least vice helpless women can get into,minus the health hazard.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jan 27, 2013
Very interesting that virtually everybody that has commented seems to criticise and judge the victim rather than the perpetrator of the crime against her.

It is not possible to judge anybody unless you have walked a mile in their shoes i.e. you do not know her exact circumstances.

It is very sad that Nigerians seem to be so confused they can not seem to recognise their enemies.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: bia, ọ gini mere iji suwa bekee? Biko pia modify aka, fichasia ife a i dere tupu ndi mmanu ejiri ya koba ndi igbo ọnụ.
ohooo ! ima chakwa na a ga eji okwu a ako ndi igbo onu,I na akpari ndi imo state. mba! agahi m a agbanwe okwu m dere. maka gini? grin
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 5:48pm On Jan 27, 2013
biko, translate the igbo writing.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jan 27, 2013
GenBuhari: biko, translate the igbo writing.

don't worry about the translation. nothing do you General. cool
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: Nwanne m, ike ndi imo agwụgo anyi na ugwu hausa ebea. Ifu nwa ada onye mbaise nuru di onye hausa ebea ụbọchị gara aga a? Okwa i bewe akwa? Nwata mara mma bia gụọ akwụkwọ ma nwekwa ezigbo aka ọrụ, mana o bụ di onye hausa ka o jere nụọ. Ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa nuru ndi hausa na akụsi isi na ala na ụka alakuba. Ọtụtụ nuru ndi yoruba na ata nnukwu afufu ebe a. Ọtụtụ muru ndi yoruba nwa, o ju inu fa. Ndi enugwu na anambra anaghị eme udi nzuzu a. Ho ha ọ na ewute mu.

In as much as I hate to admit it, you're right.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Abagworo(m): 7:18pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: Nwanne m, ike ndi imo agwụgo anyi na ugwu hausa ebea. Ifu nwa ada onye mbaise nuru di onye hausa ebea ụbọchị gara aga a? Okwa i bewe akwa? Nwata mara mma bia gụọ akwụkwọ ma nwekwa ezigbo aka ọrụ, mana o bụ di onye hausa ka o jere nụọ. Ọtụtụ ụmụ nwanyi fa nuru ndi hausa na akụsi isi na ala na ụka alakuba. Ọtụtụ nuru ndi yoruba na ata nnukwu afufu ebe a. Ọtụtụ muru ndi yoruba nwa, o ju inu fa. Ndi enugwu na anambra anaghị eme udi nzuzu a. Ho ha ọ na ewute mu.

My brother we are tired of these Imo people in the North. If you see a beautiful Mbaise girl that got married to a Northerner, you'll cry. She's beautiful, educated and well employed but still went ahead to marry a Northerner. Many of their women that married muslims now worship at the mosques. Many of their women married poor Yorubas while others had children out of wedlock with Yorubas. Enugu and Anambra people are not that stupid. It really pains me.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by seanet01: 7:21pm On Jan 27, 2013
Billyonaire: Everything was wrong. House in Abuja and none at village to fall back to.
Housewife in these days and times is suicidal
Marriage without laying solid foundation is dead by intention waiting for an El-Rufai to be blamed on.
GBAM!
The woman no get brain.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Abagworo(m): 7:24pm On Jan 27, 2013
abouzaid: My brother we are tired of these Imo people in the North.
If you see a beautiful Mbaise girl that got married to a
Northerner, you'll cry. She's beautiful, educated and well
employed but still went ahead to marry a Northerner.
Many of their women that married muslims now worship
at the mosques. Many of their women married poor
Yorubas while others had children out of wedlock with
Yorubas. Enugu and Anambra people are not that silly. It
really pains me.

Just like in any thread that has any negative news associated with anything Imo, they'll swarm like bees aiming to sting.
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jan 27, 2013
Abagworo:

Just like in any thread that has any negative news associated with anything Imo, they'll swarm like bees aiming to sting.

Must you translate it? Wetin dey worry you sef!
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 27, 2013
Abagworo:

My brother we are tired of these Imo people in the North. If you see a beautiful Mbaise girl that got married to a Northerner, you'll cry. She's beautiful, educated and well employed but still went ahead to marry a Northerner. Many of their women that married muslims now worship at the mosques. Many of their women married poor Yorubas while others had children out of wedlock with Yorubas. Enugu and Anambra people are not that stupid. It really pains me.
why did you translate? mtscheeew!
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Abagworo(m): 7:40pm On Jan 27, 2013
berem: why did you translate? mtscheeew!

Why shouldn't I translate?
Re: ‘my Husband’s Death, El-rufai’s Demolition Forced Me Into Prostitution’ by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 27, 2013
Abagworo:

Why shouldn't I translate?
a na m aju gi ajuju, i ji ajuju na aza m? African mentality. grin

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