I 've got folks up here in NL laughing over this issue and it hurts. This girl is nice and this could happen to any one. I really need some good encouragement, advice or experiences, but definitely not laughter

I really like this girl and She's a devoted christain, but this weeing thing is something i didnt bargain for and folks up here are llaughing already.

@eddy tells
read my comment,i empathize with u, only a few laughed, but i did think u got some good answers too, but wot? did u expect people not to have different emotions about your topic?

My candid advice is for you to support her to overcome this problem. I do not see any spiritual coloration here, it happens like that some times. Help her build the confidence to stop
1. She should eat early at night and not eat and drink anything thereafter.
2 . Be patient with her and encourage her
3. Put an impermeable material between the mattress and sheets
4. Wake here up ever so often at night to go and pee.
if Maintain absolute discipline on the above, you will notice the a gradual reduction in the number of these incidences and within a year if could wraped up for good.

Am so grateful for all your advise.

You all have been most helpful, even with the laughter. Though embarrasing but helpful too.

@Kajad, i intend to do as u've said. She said it doesnt occur so much though. It could happen like thrice a year and that all through last year, it never occurred even once. so it really freaked her out when it occurred this wkend.

I think am going to stick with her through this.

normally such thing can be spiritual. am so sorry for her. she must be going through alot. try and stay with her so that she would know that there are still some good men out there. what you help her do is let her stop drinking much water the moment 6.00pm has passed, and atimes people do not notice it but alcohol do cause bed wet.VERY SAD INDEED

Go for it man! I think you are doing just great!

Her case is even easier than I thought; twice and thrice a year is nothing to be alarmed at. If you take a closer look you will observe it happened when she took a little more liquid late at night or when she feel happy/secure. _{Sweet dream can separate her from reality}

Sit her down and ask her to truely tell you what's up.
Maybe there's something she's not telling.

lol

What do you think she could be hiding from him?

2 or 3 times aint alarming bt stil bad, though. She shd follow dose steps mentioned religiously, esp. nt drinking water late @ nite.

I know, it really is bad. Am not always with her at night so i may have to get an alarm set for her. Hopefully that would help her get up at 2pm every night.

I just pray it works.

@eddy

I can really see you like this girl. Your really concerned about this her situation.
I'll check up some health website and see if i come up with anything.

Perhaps you should indulge a medical professional.

yeah lioness, i really do like her

bedwetting at 30, that must be a spiritual problem.

stand by her and find a solution to it

@ Eddy

How far? What steps have you taken?

Well, i looked at her medicals lastnite and i really dont think any comprehensive examination was done. So we had to make another medical appointment for 3 wks.

At the meantime though, am trying to put things into prayers and encouraging her and "myself"

Eddy Tells:

Well, i looked at her medicals lastnite and i really don't think any comprehensive examination was done. So we had to make another medical appointment for 3 wks.

At the meantime though, am trying to put things into prayers and encouraging her and "myself"

happy to hear that

Kip it up Eddy. There aint nofn as gud as havin a friend stick 2 u in tyms lik dese

Good! That's da spirit!

eddie keep it up and God will continue to give you the strenght and support you need. be strong and have faith. there is nothing like knowing what you want and going for it no matter the odds.