Wife's & mothers in the house, how do you feel if your husband/children don't eat your food @home?

elaborate please

achina boy: elaborate please

Bro anytym i dont eat @home, my mom will complain till heaven opens ''lol''. i just want to hear frm a woman's perspective how they feel

First thing first she cares about you. Another thing is the time and effort she puts into cooking not for only herself but for someone else, and you tell her you are not eating. Plus, there is also a chance the food get wasted. Another thing is if she stops cooking for you, the same you will complain. So my advise to you is even if you don't feel like it, eat a little bit rather than nothing.

sophy09: First thing first she cares about you. Another thing is the time and effort she puts into cooking not for only herself but for someone else, and you tell her you are not eating. Plus, there is also a chance the food get wasted. Another thing is if she stops cooking for you, the same you will complain. So my advise to you is even if you don't feel like it, eat a little bit rather than nothing.

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If you don't eat it means you're not hungry. I won't bother my head about it. If you do so consistently, I'll stop cooking for you. You can go into the kitchen yourself.

The only person I'll worry about not eating is my hubby. But for the kids, I'll gladly sit back and let them cook their meals. I'll even eat from their cooking. Why should I worry that my child isn't eating? When you're not a baby.

If my son is old enough to us the internet then he's old enough to take care of his meals. Shikena

madam Z, dt is partiality o.why would u care for ur husb and leave d kids out?if anything, he is less of a baby than those kids.
At OP,it hurts. especially when it gets incessant.Personally,i may not feel like eating at times,cos of time,mood,health,.....etc but i cook for others' sake dt might want to eat.Imagine such compromise nd u come back to say u aint eatin without reason,d least u get from me is a sneer.by d way,I'm not married,neither am I a mother,but I'm in charge of cooking when I'm wt my family.
I think telling aforehand will be nice for both parties.

zayhal: If you don't eat it means you're not hungry. I won't bother my head about it. If you do so consistently, I'll stop cooking for you. You can go into the kitchen yourself.

The only person I'll worry about not eating is my hubby. But for the kids, I'll gladly sit back and let them cook their meals. I'll even eat from their cooking. Why should I worry that my child isn't eating? When you're not a baby.

If my son is old enough to us the internet then he's old enough to take care of his meals. Shikena

well, i lyk ur kind. My mom dont wnt to knw if ur old enough,she will complain till my siblings will say jst manage and eat small.

bntY: madam Z, dt is partiality o.why would u care for ur husb and leave d kids out?if anything, he is less of a baby than those kids.
At OP,it hurts. especially when it gets incessant.Personally,i may not feel like eating at times,cos of time,mood,health,.....etc but i cook for others' sake dt might want to eat.Imagine such compromise nd u come back to say u aint eatin without reason,d least u get from me is a sneer.by d way,I'm not married,neither am I a mother,but I'm in charge of cooking when I'm wt my family.
I think telling aforehand will be nice for both parties.

yea i feel u on dis. D 'MOOD' tin matters alot.

Personally, i will feed bad if for no reason, one of d pple i prepare food for refuse to eat d food, it means such person do not appreciate d time and effort i put in, in d preparation of d food, in addition with d fact that d food rejected may be wasted, so, i will appreciate if im preinformed by whoever will not eat rather than preparing and somebody rejecting it.
If this happen constantly, i will cease to include d person in my meal plan.

@op, when you dont feel like eating, inform your mum b4 she prepares it, then dre wont be cause for disagreement and d two of u will benefit therof.
May God help us all.

greatgod2012: Personally, i will feed bad if for no reason, one of d pple i prepare food for refuse to eat d food, it means such person do not appreciate d time and effort i put in, in d preparation of d food, in addition with d fact that d food rejected may be wasted, so, i will appreciate if im preinformed by whoever will not eat rather than preparing and somebody rejecting it.
If this happen constantly, i will cease to include d person in my meal plan.

@op, when you dont feel like eating, inform your mum b4 she prepares it, then dre wont be cause for disagreement and d two of u will benefit therof.
May God help us all.

thanks for the advice, i realy appreciate u guy's; greatGod,chaircover and Debrief08.