mofolorunshoabi: My dear familylanders! Quiet sometime now that we have communicated last. I have been trying to redirect the course of my journey. Now if u can recollect my last post, I told u he had taken me to court and we are still on the matter. The issue now is that he is sending a trusted friend of his to me saying he wants me to come and enjoy the largese he is currently enjoying with this "rich and matured" widow. Now he travels more often overseas, he changes cars and has even bought house in london. Going back to his marriage with me means going back to poverty. How can the lure of money make a man sacrifice his children and wife( that started life with u when you had nothing) for things money can buy? I have told the friend to tell him to pls go ahead and enjoy life with his 'mummy and adopted' children. As long as God is still on the throne, we will never lack! Pls pray for us.

mofolorunshoabi: My dear familylanders! Quiet sometime now that we have communicated last. I have been trying to redirect the course of my journey. Now if u can recollect my last post, I told u he had taken me to court and we are still on the matter. The issue now is that he is sending a trusted friend of his to me saying he wants me to come and enjoy the largese he is currently enjoying with this "rich and matured" widow. Now he travels more often overseas, he changes cars and has even bought house in london. Going back to his marriage with me means going back to poverty. How can the lure of money make a man sacrifice his children and wife( that started life with u when you had nothing) for things money can buy? I have told the friend to tell him to pls go ahead and enjoy life with his 'mummy and adopted' children. As long as God is still on the throne, we will never lack! Pls pray for us.

mofolorunshoabi: My dear Cameleon, infact the mistakes I did in my marriage out of naiveity, I pray my girls don't fall prey. Its better to marry when you are psychologically ready!

mofolorunshoabi: My dear familylanders! Quiet sometime now that we have communicated last. I have been trying to redirect the course of my journey. Now if u can recollect my last post, I told u he had taken me to court and we are still on the matter. The issue now is that he is sending a trusted friend of his to me saying he wants me to come and enjoy the largese he is currently enjoying with this "rich and matured" widow. Now he travels more often overseas, he changes cars and has even bought house in london. Going back to his marriage with me means going back to poverty. How can the lure of money make a man sacrifice his children and wife( that started life with u when you had nothing) for things money can buy? I have told the friend to tell him to pls go ahead and enjoy life with his 'mummy and adopted' children. As long as God is still on the throne, we will never lack! Pls pray for us.

Dear Poster, God will see you through this victoriously. You need to be strong, calm and collected. This is the time to remain focus on your objective - Win the Custody of your children
All your thoughts ans actions towards this divorce case should be focus on this objective.

What your 'husband' is trying to do by sending a 'mediator' to you during a divorce case center on children custody is just to spite you and weaken your defence (by the Mediator telling you story of riches!) Do not give in please!

mofolorunshoabi: My dear familylanders! Quiet sometime now that we have communicated last. I have been trying to redirect the course of my journey. Now if u can recollect my last post, I told u he had taken me to court and we are still on the matter. The issue now is that he is sending a trusted friend of his to me saying he wants me to come and enjoy the largese he is currently enjoying with this "rich and matured" widow. Now he travels more often overseas, he changes cars and has even bought house in london. Going back to his marriage with me means going back to poverty. How can the lure of money make a man sacrifice his children and wife( that started life with u when you had nothing) for things money can buy? I have told the friend to tell him to pls go ahead and enjoy life with his 'mummy and adopted' children. As long as God is still on the throne, we will never lack! Pls pray for us.

mofolorunshoabi: I got married at 23 to a 34yr old man. The marriage has produced 3 lovely kids. The relationship was based on pure love as my husband had nothing then. As time went on I was made to realise that while am married to my husband, he is married to his family, especially his mother. Am a lagosian while he is from the eastern part. All the quarells we had is over issues like his friend advising him to change kids sch saying its too expensive etc. It got so bad that anytime we quarel, his mother and sister will tell him to send me away. He did at one time and his sister started staying with him for over one year. The issue was reconciled and I went back. We have 2girls and a son but I decided to put a hold on having kids for now because he gives us 3,000 for feeding weekly which was grossly inadequaate. I pay for lesson teacher, pay for dstv, augment feeding allowance weekly, give our first child in boarding sch pocket money and buy her provisions, bought most of the gadgets at home on lease and pay thru my salary. My sin with my in-laws is that I refused to have another son but none of them cared to know how we are managing as a family. For almost 2yrs now that he chased us out after a qarrel, we have been staying with my parents and I have been responsible for the kids welfare and others. He has thus relocated to another part of town and living with a widow of 4 kids; a lady he had dated while they were in university in the east. He has filed for a divorce now saying he wants to take the kids to his mum in the east so they will learn his language. The matter is up for hearing now but the twist to the story now is that we are still romantically involved. We meet often in an hotel and he tells me it was a mistake that we both made especially on my not having more male children. He wants to get an appartment for me yet he is asking the court for dissolution of the marraige so he can marry the wodow of 4. Pls advice me, I love him so much and he was the one that disvirgined me.

mofolorunshoabi: Hello my dear nairalanders! It's been quiet a while. I had to patiently wait all this long. It has been a long, emotional and traumatic wait but eventually JUDGEMENT was given this morning! My husbands petition was dismissed by the court for lack of credible evidence and all his pleadings were struck out. However, nothing was said concerning the children who are still with me. I want to say a big thank you to everybody that has been with me and supported me both spiritually and otherwise. May the Good Lord be with you all. Thanks once again.

mofolorunshoabi: The divorse petition was thrown out (dismissed) and no mention was made on custody.

mofolorunshoabi: The divorse petition was thrown out (dismissed) and no mention was made on custody.

mofolorunshoabi: It is over! My only joy is this outcome. When a man concocts so much lies just to have his way, it is this kind of result that you get. Thanks

mofolorunshoabi: It is over! My only joy is this outcome. When a man concocts so much lies just to have his way, it is this kind of result that you get. Thanks

mofolorunshoabi: I got married at 23 to a 34yr old man. The marriage has produced 3 lovely kids. The relationship was based on pure love as my husband had nothing then. As time went on I was made to realise that while am married to my husband, he is married to his family, especially his mother. Am a lagosian while he is from the eastern part. All the quarells we had is over issues like his friend advising him to change kids sch saying its too expensive etc. It got so bad that anytime we quarel, his mother and sister will tell him to send me away. He did at one time and his sister started staying with him for over one year. The issue was reconciled and I went back. We have 2girls and a son but I decided to put a hold on having kids for now because he gives us 3,000 for feeding weekly which was grossly inadequaate. I pay for lesson teacher, pay for dstv, augment feeding allowance weekly, give our first child in boarding sch pocket money and buy her provisions, bought most of the gadgets at home on lease and pay thru my salary. My sin with my in-laws is that I refused to have another son but none of them cared to know how we are managing as a family. For almost 2yrs now that he chased us out after a qarrel, we have been staying with my parents and I have been responsible for the kids welfare and others. He has thus relocated to another part of town and living with a widow of 4 kids; a lady he had dated while they were in university in the east. He has filed for a divorce now saying he wants to take the kids to his mum in the east so they will learn his language. The matter is up for hearing now but the twist to the story now is that we are still romantically involved. We meet often in an hotel and he tells me it was a mistake that we both made especially on my not having more male children. He wants to get an appartment for me yet he is asking the court for dissolution of the marraige so he can marry the wodow of 4. Pls advice me, I love him so much and he was the one that disvirgined me.

Monicasque: i doubt the 4 kids from the widow are not his, why would he lv his own kids for kids who are not his? its either you stole this man from someone and now she is claiming him back or you just need to move on. Stop meeting him at hotels coz it makes u sound like a hooooo. If he wants to take the kids let him , provided you are allowed visiting rights but if you want your babies, fight till the last drop of your blodd for you kids but honey this man is treating you like a side thing

mofolorunshoabi: It is over! My only joy is this outcome. When a man concocts so much lies just to have his way, it is this kind of result that you get. Thanks

jidegirl12: Well I'm still gonna cry over spilled milk;

When you tell these Yoruba girls to wait for their time, they'll say sebi you don marry, this rush rush marriage sef tire me jare ,
Even the story is unreal and grossly presented( I believe her tho ), that's why they call Yoruba girls names, can you imagine how gullible she sounds? And you go school o?
The guy prefers his own culture even after 4! In a long run, there's nothing like somebody you understand to spend the rest of your life with.

@baby, she will never listen, they will rob her and continue to chance/ take advantage of her hardwork till eternity. I'm very irritated.