A Woman Who Smiles (more powerful than you might realize)

A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence, warmth and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the wrong impression, they frequently guard their smiles. If the only knew that smiling is one of the things men can’t resist. While this approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the wrong message that she is someone who is overly cautious because she has been hurt. In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need some signal that it is safe to approach a woman before they’re willing to risk introducing themselves (unless they are intoxicated).

A Woman Who Listens (instead of dominating the conversation)

Women are generally perceived as rarely really listening to men, at least not beyond a few minutes. Most of the time, a few minutes is all men really need. But since most men hate to be rejected, it is easier for them to keep conversations superficial. Men expect most women to want to talk, rather than be willing to listen. If they happen to meet a woman who listens with her eyes (looks at him while he’s talking) as well as her ears, they are intrigued. If she continues to listen and not take over the conversation, she’s the kind of woman that men can’t resist and want to spend more time getting to know her better. If fact, this is one of the best things you can do on a first date.

A Woman Who Dresses Feminine (men are really visual)

Everyone knows that men are visual. However, women often forget just how helpless men are to what they see. The right visual stimulation can hypnotize any man. Unfortunately, women hear this and often become fearful. They mistakenly believe that men only notice perfect women. Forget perfect! In spite of what you read about in magazines, men don’t expect a woman to be perfect. If you really want to be noticed by men, think colors, dresses which highlight your curves. Men basically like any woman who has that adorable quality that men can’t resist. It isn’t that men don’t find women attractive in pants or when they are dressed comfortably – they just don’t notice them as easily. It doesn’t catch their eye like sparkly earrings, pretty colors or flowing dresses and long hair does. Conversely, a powerfully dressed woman (think lots of red) makes most men think of s*x, or not notice her at all. She may have a soft side, but if men can’t see it, they often don’t know it exists. The more feminine (softer) a woman dresses, the more men she will attract.





what do u think guys?

Real cool.
My girlfriend needs to read this.especially the second point. If she can stop interrupting me when i talk,we can become even better partners.

eddy1977: Real cool.
My girlfriend needs to read this.especially the second point. If she can stop interrupting me when i talk,we can become even better partners.

I am also guilty

@kenyattaMoore:


I am also guilty

Lol.
I need to find a way to tell her.

jimino:
A Woman Who Dresses Feminine (men are really visual)

Everyone knows that men are visual.
The more feminine (softer) a woman dresses, the more men she will attract.





what do u think guys?

I am attracted to natural beauty and fresh body, when I see an over painted and padded body, it irritates me. Not to talk of heavy tatoos on a lady , urgggg

Reality is that men most times are attracted by the physical. If a woman dresses "smartly" and not too "trashy" she gets my attention. Trashly dressed ladies wl surly get a second look....but only for the wrong reasons. They are the type you don't even want other people seeing you chatting them up!!
If only they knew!!!

ITbomb:

I am attracted to natural beauty and fresh body, when I see an over painted and padded body, it irritates me. Not to talk of heavy tatoos on a lady , urgggg

What do you mean by padded body pls?

eddy1977:

Lol.
I need to find a way to tell her .

Won't be an easy task lol,try and talk to her in a loving way. Women!! sometimes we just don't behave right

Royal Roy: Reality is that men most times are attracted by the physical. If a woman dresses "smartly" and not too "trashy" she gets my attention. Trashly dressed ladies wl surly get a second look....but only for the wrong reasons. They are the type you don't even want other people seeing you chatting them up!!
If only they knew!!!

sometimes it doesnt matter if the "reason" is right or wrong, depends on what the lady wants ie her reason for the dressing, which may be simply to entrap you.

^^Duh!!
You better read the write-up and learn to smile and do all those other things so you can grab a man before you hair starts falling off!...

@kenyattaMoore:


What do you mean by padded body pls?

Padded , I mean any material use on top of the natural body, could be ur overfill Brazilian hair or pan cake face or long coloured padi and manicures over natural nails or even when u r overdressed covering so much of the natural body

Yaaaaay!

ITbomb:
Padded , I mean any material use on top of the natural body, could be ur overfill Brazilian hair or pan cake face or long coloured padi and manicures over natural nails or even when u r overdressed covering so much of the natural body

Does that woman you have just described exist anymore?lol

@kenyattaMoore:


Does that woman you have just described exist anymore?lol

Don't tempt me to post her beautiful pix here pls

ITbomb:
Don't tempt me to post her beautiful pix here pls

Please do ,because I don't really believe that kind of woman does exist .

So nice. Especially, d aspect of listening more during communication, very important, makes communicatin more effective.
May God help us all

@kenyattaMoore:



Please do ,because I don't really believe that kind of woman does exist .

Check ur pm , I'll post it to u

2 all d ladies especially does searching 4 der hubby, try 2 adopt dis method if u hv nt being doing dis b4, it may help

I'm a great listener. I'd even listen 2 d ones U haven't told me yet.

But I find it difficult 2 listen properly when talking wt guys who speak slowly. I tend 2 want 2 hasten them up. Fast-forward, so we can get 2 d 'koko' of d 'ọrọ́'.

So I find myself saying stuff like..
"Ok, ok, I understand. What now happened after dat?"

Usually I get d whole picture, bt I'm nt usually patient enough 2 not try 2 'fast-foward' d slow narration.