baby_123: I don't think she doesn't like sex, maybe the guy wants sex at a time when she wants to sleep or is asleep. She also hinted that he likes it like food. Everyday.lmao. People with serious responsibilities and a healthy sex life don't have sex everyday and numerous times during the day. . The husband probably knew they were sexually incompatible now. Maybe he thought he could teach her. OP, relax and just go along. Proposw the workout thing, just tell him you will like to see him fit for you in bed

Abukenzy: I need your candid advice.....I've been thinking of how to improve on my sexual life cos my hubby love it soo much like his meal, but i dnt like it.

jennykadry: Was he always like this or did he develop this appetite after marriage?

dayokanu:



She said she doesnt like sex. I wonder what she thinks Married people do? Or whats the purpose of getting married then

If the guy start to do outside runs they would call him a goat



Could it be that the girl conned him into marriage Like "Dont lets have sex before marriage", "When we get married you would have sex as much as you want", "I can only do it when married", "My conscience is worrying me that I cant enjoy it until we are married" and those typical excuses

Baba Oyo:
Hmmmm.....you really need to expantiate more madam!!!
What don't you like about it?
Is it the timing? Is it his style? Do u have few days u make the move yourself? Have u enjoyed with some of ur ex before? Do u think of it at all? Have u ever tried to please ur man the few times u do it? Are your kids demanding more from you- timewise & energy wise?
Let us know more!!! Don't be shy dear....the cabal women will understand. And Baba Oyo will do the rest!!!
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Adura wa a Gba o.....Ase e

Abukenzy: Thanks to you all for ur comments. I lov sex, i'm alwys stressd up by my kids i've a 3yr nd a 12wks old baby, at times my huby do understand but u knw dat thing wulent understand wen h's ready. He do asist me wen i had my first son,but his so buzy now. Baby wil suck al tru d night he too wil be waiting for his turn.

Baba Oyo:
Hmmmm.....you really need to expantiate more madam!!!
What don't you like about it?
Is it the timing? Is it his style? Do u have few days u make the move yourself? Have u enjoyed with some of ur ex before? Do u think of it at all? Have u ever tried to please ur man the few times u do it? Are your kids demanding more from you- timewise & energy wise?
Let us know more!!! Don't be shy dear....the cabal women will understand. And Baba Oyo will do the rest!!!
.
Adura wa a Gba o.....Ase e

Abukenzy: Thanks to you all for ur comments. I lov sex, i'm alwys stressd up by my kids i've a 3yr nd a 12wks old baby, at times my huby do understand but u knw dat thing wulent understand wen h's ready. He do asist me wen i had my first son,but his so buzy now. Baby wil suck al tru d night he too wil be waiting for his turn.

Abukenzy: Thanks to you all for ur comments. I lov sex, i'm alwys stressd up by my kids i've a 3yr nd a 12wks old baby, at times my huby do understand but u knw dat thing wulent understand wen h's ready. He do asist me wen i had my first son,but his so buzy now. Baby wil suck al tru d night he too wil be waiting for his turn.

jidegirl12:

I thot as much too it has to be kids related stress... Anyways do your best and leave the rest, you don't have to get everything done in one day clean freak it not. Believe it or not , you'll always have chores to do as long as they're still toddlers. I've stopped my OCD behaviour when I realized I'm having a nervous breakdown ( coupled with my 24/7 work schedule) and I could die, the guy is Kuku trying his best, but I'd rather do some things myself rather than letting him do it and eventually do it all over again. what's the point.* sigh* overlook small messes and don't kill yourself ! Your hubby needs you too.

As per se x( the koko) , I already suggested you pack the kids to your mom / trusted close relative and have a one on one time with him say 2ce a week and go crazy with yourselves, twice a week sex filled with wild adventures is far more better than 5 days a week quikies .... I know it's sometimes hard to do, but before you know it, it's 2 months without s ex and body no be wood Abeg.

they are not always the bad guys you know, they just need attention too, it's part if the contract you signed and as long as he pitches in around the house I don't have any reason to ridicule him.

I hope you get off that couch and start planning your next date

Go to adult stores and get some whips and cuffs and many more I assure you he will be all over you and doing whatever you ask him like a puppy because he's looking forward to D-Day speaking from experience oh...I rest my case here

ileobatojo:

Well, you can either wait for supernatural strength or you can give him more to do around the house and with the baby so you can get some rest and not die of exhaustion. If you are out of gas at the end of the day and he is up and rearing to go, that means the work equation is not balanced between the two of you. Instead of him waiting for baby to suck so he can come do his own, you can pump your milk ahead of time and let him feed the baby to sleep while you take a relaxing, soaking bath in preparation for action. Abi na die?

Abukenzy: He ;Dwill not baby sit, not even at night.its only when he wants to go jerusalem that his are open.

Abukenzy: Thanks@jidegirl12,twice in a week sex should be enough, if no be say I say I tire he can ask for it every day

ileobatojo:
Just make sure you are using protection or else you will soon be juggling 3 kids with your new 50 shades of grey lifestyle!

jidegirl12:

If your jabs happened to be for me I've got this for you; I don't have any regrets having my 3 amazing kids you person because they're all planned. and yes I juggle my kids with my career like every other responsible hard working career woman and a wife.

Continue to let your Imagination bout my 50 shades of grey lifestyle wild sex life take over your brain until you turn purple in the face and eventually convulse

But if your jabs aren't meant for moi which I doubt then disregard that^^

ileobatojo:


Disregarded!


*Wishing I had actually intended it as a jab to her. Could have made for a fun evening. Oh well, there's always next time!*

jidegirl12:

You betcha!