iv been having nightmares over d issue of marriage.
e don reach my turn nw n i have a gurl am committed to.
is it normal to be afraid of walking down d aisle?

sejour: iv been having nightmares over d issue of marriage.
e don reach my turn nw n i have a gurl am committed to.
is it normal to be afraid of walking down d aisle?

yes it's normal cos its a lifetime commitment that is gonna change your attitude towards life so being a little bit scared is normal. Best of luck

I am not scared of getting married and staying married. But am scared of whom the gods will bless or curse me with.
After the Fear of God, the fear of Women is the continuation of wisdom.

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With all the crappy violence ridden Nigerian marriages we see around these days, it is only normal to feel scared. You are not alone.

It is very normal to be scared, its a normal feeling, its a lifetime commitment, so, its normal.

How to cope, what ifs,(so many ifs) my inlaws, my family members, my friends, balance btwn work life and family life, the marital vow, raising the kids, many how questions (like how to be a good husband, how to be a good father, how to........)e.t.c, are some of the things that can make one to be scared.
So, as you are going in, go in with positive mindset and proper preparation, endeavour to be the right partner, do only what you can accept to the other partner, plan how you are going to balance btwn family and work love your spouse sincerely, (perfect love cast out fear), plan your finances, and very importantly, be prayerful, these and some other things are what you can do to overcome the fear.
May God help us all.

Its normal to be scared,the only words that consoled me is this"its not a do or die affair".