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Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by apache77(m): 11:50am On Mar 25, 2013
I am doing marriage counselling in one of the biggest 3 churches in Nigeria.My pastor who is counselling me and my wife to be has been teaching us on sex n marriage. and as one of the perks of marriage life and to keep the heat up, he says married couples can buy and watch 'mojo' or pornfilms to spice up the sex life and keep the fire burning.

I dont have a problem watching mojo, o- cos I do that once in a while, but I was wondering whether this was scriptural or spiritual and should be canvassed by counsellors of faith based, tongue talking, bible believing church.
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by UyiIredia(m): 11:59am On Mar 25, 2013
I don't think its permissible since most (if not all) porn involves acts of fornication. Not to talk of the possibility of arousing lust towards the actors and the susbsequent 'adultery in one's heart'.

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Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by Kaxmytex(m): 12:19pm On Mar 25, 2013
[size=28pt]bros,i fear dat pastor o...[/size]
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by enilove(m): 1:27pm On Mar 25, 2013
Pornographic is bad and it is a sin to watch such films.

Even those who are not godly can know in their inner mind that it is satanic and sure way to hell fire.

Make sure your wife stays clear of that pastor.

The only fire that needs to be kept burning is the fire of the Holy Ghost.Any contrary fire is hell fire

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Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by obyrich(m): 4:08pm On Mar 25, 2013
That pastor will 'mojorize' ur wife one day. Is pre-marriage counselling biblical?
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by okeyxyz(m): 10:00pm On Mar 25, 2013
According to true christianity, p.orn is not a sin, but since you are mainstream christian, p.orn is actually against your doctrines. So if you use p.ornography to spice up your sex life, then on what grounds do you stand to preach that fornication and prostitution are sins? By using, you become a participators in the same acts, of fornication(p.orn artist are actually performing sex without marriage) and of prostitution(p.orn artists perform sex acts for money).

Note that I'd defined fornication and prostitution according to your doctrines(thereby using p.orn becomes an offense to you) rather than according to true christian interpretation.

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Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by Snowwy: 11:49pm On Mar 25, 2013
@OP, According to the websters dictionary in today's English, ponography is:

1 (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement 2 : material (as books or a photograph) that depicts erotic behavior and is intended to cause sexual excitement
3 : the depiction of acts in a sensational manner so as to arouse a quick intense emotional reaction

Going by that definition above, the only pornography couples should be watching or reading is that created by themselves, meaning they are the ones that elicit such sexual excitement between themselves only.

Watching the known pornography triggers lust and expectations that most times cannot be met. Besides, most pornographic films are done by fornicators and/or adulterers. No one needs to tell you to flee all appearances of evil.
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by martinseme: 9:12am On Mar 26, 2013
not just that porn is bad but that pastor is even worst.he is dangerous to your soul and that of your wife and unborn kids.the kids because he may later teach them to watch porn too.run from that church it leads to hell fire.

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Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by kambo(m): 10:15pm On Mar 26, 2013
even if porn werent a sin (it is) it cud wreck d marraige union. Porn addiction is a real issue like drug addiction and the addicts seek stronger stimulant (more bizarrity ) to acheive desired states. In real life, the pressure wud b on one partner to perform to d standard of the porn actors. 2. Unrealistic xpctations:::::: like d man comparing his wife's body to those of the porn models and vice versa or xpcting the aging bodies of partners to look like what they see on screen. 3. Ruining d sex act itself. Porn parodies sex or over sensationalizes it. Not every man has an elbow lenght pool and not many women experience org.as.ms not to mention screaming ones. Actual sex is (always) not as racy and steaming as potrayed in porn so porn isnt out to educate. Any couple seekg an education by watchg porn may not knw where d line btw normal and perverse is- no thnks to porn. 4. Infedility. A partner views porn fantasizing sexually with a types of model actors. More of this and partner will seek out (or fantasize ) a session in real life.
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by tpia5: 10:32pm On Mar 26, 2013
there's enough christian literature which addresses the subject of sex.

if you want to watch p.ornography, leave Christ out of it and just say you want to watch p.orn.

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Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by God2man(m): 7:33am On Mar 27, 2013
martinseme: not just that porn is bad but that pastor is even worst.he is dangerous to your soul and that of your wife and unborn kids.the kids because he may later teach them to watch porn too.run from that church it leads to hell fire.

The bitter truth.
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by apache77(m): 4:57pm On Mar 27, 2013
For those trying to attack my church, When has Redeemed become a bad church? Or a church wit bad pastors?
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Mar 27, 2013
apache77: [b]

I dont have a problem watching mojo, o- cos I do that once in a while,
ol'boy you be strong man o. How do you maintain a disciplined walk with God?
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by tpia5: 5:29pm On Mar 27, 2013
did he say he's a christian?
Re: Is Pornography Permissible For Christian Couples? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Mar 27, 2013
tpia@:
did he say he's a christian?
yeah my bad, i actually mistook him for a christian.

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