Duke_Nija: Op, are you in anyway related to a certain Denrele Edun

They likes of you need not write anything. you could have just read through the thread and pass on. or you just want to follow the thread and did not find any better comment to make

andromida:


I don't see anything wrong with calling a loved one everyday after work. I would not call you needy or clingy there is nothing wrong with you, keep being yourself. I would prefer you talk to her though and tell her you enjoy discussing issues with her and will appreciate if when she sees your missed call she sends a text to tell you she is available or to return your call and i don't think its fair on you that she ignores you. If you call her thrice everyday and want to spend 30 mins on phone per call, well this will be killing.

Why not call her after work only and reduce the time you spend on phone.

Thanks for your concern

i just read through this thread and am wondering whether the women that are responding there and the ones responding here are from different planets

https://www.nairaland.com/1239520/married-women-male-friends

chyseth: Gentleman thanks for your concern, one of the few things i have learnt from this forum is that some people don't need to understand your post to reply, all they need is to find the closest derogatory word to fire at you. to such people i just smile and get over them.
Meanwhile i wasn't advocating work time discussions on issues that are not work related. Personally i don't like using office time to discuss non office related issues. what i just want is after work hello hi which am asking whether it's such a clingy demand

Moreso, i don't know how these people suddenly tagged me a talkative, please that is not how i pick up my phone to call every tom, dick and harry just because i have an itching mouth.

I am a lady not a gentleman.

nat138:

I am a lady not a gentleman.

Highly noted my dear

Don't mind the harsh words, op.. There r ladies , that wishes to share their daily experience with their loved ones, and it's more caring and bonding sharing it with yur bf...I love to gist with my bf after work, but he doesn't like it... ... Sometimes, he bone my calls...then give excuses later... Even bb chats , takes him longer hrs to reply...av resolved to move on, when I eventually see my kind of guy, who likes companionship , than being in a mechanical relationship... .....be who u are.

Amelian: Don't mind the harsh words, op.. There r ladies , that wishes to share their daily experience with their loved ones, and it's more caring and bonding sharing it with yur bf...I love to gist with my bf after work, but he doesn't like it... ... Sometimes, he bone my calls...then give excuses later... Even bb chats , takes him longer hrs to reply...av resolved to move on, when I eventually see my kind of guy, who likes companionship , than being in a mechanical relationship... .....be who u are.

Thanks my dear, i have been wondering what it is that caught the fancy of the ghost that kept liking all those abuses. one thing i believe is, if you truly love somebody, you will make out time for them, unless you are in between relationships for which you are already making up your mind for the other person.

There is no need living in self delusion

Exactly.

chyseth:

Thanks my dear, i have been wondering what it is that caught the fancy of the ghost that kept liking all those abuses. one thing i believe is, if you truly love somebody, you will make out time for them, unless you are in between relationships for which you are already making up your mind for the other person.

There is no need living in self delusion

you answered your own question. The same woman who says she is too busy to answer your calls is probably spending hrs with another man without getting tired. She is simply not interested in you. move on.

An advise for you from a woman: since she thinks you are disturbing her with your calls just stay for atleast one week without calling her. When she calls talk normally with her and don't sound like you are angry with her. Girls don, t like easy going relationships, u are certainly boring her with the numerous calls, when you stop she'll start missing those same calls she is hating now. Come back and share the result.

You would'nt have said it any better

davidylan:

you answered your own question. The same woman who says she is too busy to answer your calls is probably spending hrs with another man without getting tired. She is simply not interested in you. move on.

Your suggestion is on point, however am not always patient with relationships. Am already thinking of giving up on the whole thing. All I need is what makes me happy and am sure I will find it not long from now. If we cannot relate as friends now, there is no assurance that we will make best of couples when we eventually marry

tessybaby: An advise for you from a woman: since she thinks you are disturbing her with your calls just stay for atleast one week without calling her. When she calls talk normally with her and don't sound like you are angry with her. Girls don, t like easy going relationships, u are certainly boring her with the numerous calls, when you stop she'll start missing those same calls she is hating now. Come back and share the result.