991: Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position.
-Mohandas Gandhi

christians are the worst pretenders i've ever seen!!

Okija_juju: SIMPLE..

When I am tempted by the Spirit of Lust, fornication, immorality and sex,

I simply backslide, have sex, repent and return to default mode..

#Problem solved.

Thank God for the Blood of Jesus and Grace.. Sinning has never felt so good.

Tunisque:

Your story is incomplete. You never mentioned whether you fell or not. Be that as it may, i must tell you that you weren't wise enough to have gone to a sister's hostel not to talk of sitting on her bed. When we caution brothers against too much familiarity with sisters they think otherwise. The truth is that the flesh is not born again but the spirit, yes God's grace in Christ Jesus is sufficient but He warns us to be as wise as the serpent and gentle as the dove. Apostle Peter also emphasizes on the need for us be vigilant and sober for our adversary the devil as a roaring lion walketh about seeking whom he may devour. We all face temptation from the opposite sex every day and God gives us grace to say NO but we shouldn't take the grace of God for granted.

Well, all i said here are for those that are actually born again with the Spirit of God bearing witness with their spirit that they are child of God. God bless you.

tellwisdom:

Please give me her number ...Is she still in that hostel??

Okija_juju: SIMPLE..

When I am tempted by the Spirit of Lust, fornication, immorality and sex,

I simply backslide, have sex, repent and return to default mode..

#Problem solved.

Thank God for the Blood of Jesus and Grace.. Sinning has never felt so good.

jmoore: 1-Never be alone with the opposite sex.

2-Flee when the seduction starts

3-Selfcontrol. This will help you not to demand for premarital sex and to reject demands from the opposite sex

Afam4eva:
[color=#006600]How can you not be alone with the opposite sexx when there are loads of them in the world. It's not like there's a Male-Only country or something.

When the seduction starts, fleeing becomes difficult. That's whole idea of a seduction

If he had bulk of self-control, i don't think he would have opened this thread. We're humans and it's hard to self control ourselves when an external force is controlling us.

omo_abolade: There's no two way frm escapin ds kind of temptatn dn to RUN. In 2007, a single older lady trried luring me. It was my new station nd she was d only person i knew in d village. Dt day she took permision in d school she was teachin durin break, only for her to come to d health centre whr i work to seduce me. When she saw dt a nurse was present she invited me to her place for lunch. Bt i declined sensin her intentns by God's grace while promisin to visit her later. ds i did in d evenin when her room mates were back frm school.
Several yrs later, even afyer she got married, she still sent a romantic msg to me. One tin i ensured was dt we never ar never alone together.
All in all, IT HAS BEEN BY GOD'S GRACE

Wise-talk:
Useless comment! How does this statement connect to the topic? Even if u don't like christians is it a reason for judging everybody? Use ur brain.

Dreal1247: .
Onye a na-agwo ibi ọ na eto afọ, ị mara na o nwere umunna n'ajọ ọfịa. Ijiji enweghị onye ndumodu na eso ozu aba n'ili. Biko nwannen biko gbanwee edemede gị na Nairaland. Ihe dum nwere oge. Otu okwu ezuola onye maara ihe.(a word is enough 4 d wire). Ya gazie.