1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure- it is so
disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a
mobile phone from morning to night, only to
raise it up to focus on television to watch
another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell
me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset
aside how to live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and
home chores just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing
the role of women in a family, and due to
excessive exposure to modern media that
promotes gender-equality­ in a destructive way
that’s aimed at destroying the unique African
family setting that made our previous African
marriages everlasting and envious to the
westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you
expect a African man to desire to marry when he
knows he is only buying more headache and
trouble than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have observed,
you will discover that most men dislike excessive
makeup, and more don’t even like it at all;
reason they often times discourage their true
loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of
a lady even though so many men will applaud
and complement you for looking like an Egyptian
mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are
out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded,­ except you are still living in
your high school life and not thinking towards
marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick &
Harry! No man would want to propose marriage
to a lady whose phone is always talking and
laughing with less serious calls. You may not be
a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and
will likely flee at the slightest chance or
disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of
Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best
friend married without contributing anything to
the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean
it will work for you that way. Think, work
towards equipping yourself so that you can be a
value and also add value to his life to convince
him that you are worth committing to. Adding
value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or
material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his
best friend, helping him attain his goals in life,
lending him moral, mental and spiritual support,
and by not just being a liability that only bring
requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you
expect to find a husband when you still allow
your clique of friends to be dictating which man
you meet is worthy of your love and which is
not? When will you wake up and face the fact
that those your best friends even though they
cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before
them or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a
single lady who has not been taken to the altar,
you need to reserve some things for your
husband to be, especially your body, respect it
and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men
rushed to marry to get certain things or
privileges they had been constantly denied while
being single. Such privileges include and not
limited to: constant sex and companionship,
good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a
single man gets even the best and of course
more of constant sex, good food and excellent
home-keeping more than his married
counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want
him to desire to marry you when you have given
him virtually everything he desires from a wife
while being his girlfriend? And the most painful
part of it all is that he knows that you are
prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking,
home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why
would he not want you to remain his girlfriend
for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you look more
whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable.
Your dressing style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If you dress high
school, only high school-thinking­ guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress excessively
sexy and provocative, only randy men will come
to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate
sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of
certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for
certain set of ladies you wouldn't like to be
associated with, be careful. Remember, not all
clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously
searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and
Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot
girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so
many men; both the good, and the bad, but
your inner beauty, your character and manner
are the things that will determine whether any
of those men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions. In order
words, do away with nagging, being possessive,
challenging with men in negative ways, the
mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can
do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and
destroy so many ladies today, please do away
with it.
You can add yours.

exactly, you are correct.

i agree wit no 4. n too ladies who want to enjoy demselves first n realise dat wen dere re ready no man is interested

ladies who date married man, forgetting dat on every sit out, sbdy get to noticed dem. indescent dressing, being too pompous, not accomodating, bad manner n lies n pretentious live

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