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Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Osas79: 5:26am On May 13, 2013
Here is my unscientific theory, based on my relatively short - yet eventful - thirty-four years of life on earth. You can take it, read it thoroughly, and then throw whatever feedback you please my way.

Our women shy away from morally upright men that have preserved their virginity for marriage. I made a vow of abstinence when I was 19 and it was nothing but sincere and meaningful. There were times when I was definately tempted to break it, but in the end, I held out. The first and only person I would ever sleep with is my wife. I'm not asking you to understand my reasoning, I only ask that you recognize that not all virgins are losers.

Male virgins are not respected on nl, but females in their 30s are consoled for not finding husbands. A virgin girl would always find a husband. I've been searching endlessly for a true bride here but most of our women are defiled.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 6:01am On May 13, 2013
How can a man be a virgin?

Where in the bible was any man referred to as a virgin?

Only ladies can be virgins.

Virginity is a female virtue!
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Dumkele1: 6:54am On May 13, 2013
Dat's not totally true. I personally know some ladies who pray and desire virgin husbands and i rili pray they get their wish
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Osas79: 7:30am On May 13, 2013
Virgin Finder: How can a man be a virgin?

Where in the bible was any man referred to as a virgin?

Only ladies can be virgins.

Virginity is a female virtue!

Any man that has not penetrated is a virgin. Nothing unusual with me. I was always shy growing up, but came out of that several years ago. I've just never dated and kind of stuck to sports and myself. So, nothing is messed up with me. I'm just searching for a good girl.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Nobody: 7:55am On May 13, 2013
Osas~79:
I've been searching endlessly for a true bride HERE but most of our women are defiled.

On nairaland

U say most women are defiled. Are u seeking an undefiled person like u to complement ur person or what?
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Princesszoe: 11:44am On May 13, 2013
@ virgin finder who told you that a man being a virgin was never recommened? Revelation 14 vs 4 said that the one hundred and forty - four thousand men who were given the mark to make heaven from birth are all VIRGINS. Isaac was a virgin. John the beloved, one of the apostles, was a virgin and apparantly Jesus loved him more because of that. And so many of them. Who said that women don't pray to have such men as husbands? What a lie! Many women want such men as husbands. Infact it gives them peace of mind i.e having trust and security. @ op please don't mind the devil , keep your body for your wife. I hope you are not defiled? You know what i mean? Watching pornn regularly( avoid pornn entirely) , masturbation, excess lust(i.e having sex with a woman you see or the one you know, in your heart), romancing and kissing, MouthAction. These things defile. They are under one grand mother called sexual immorality. Please don't do them meanwhile congratulations on your virginity.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by BabaOyo(m): 12:13pm On May 13, 2013
Hmmm, a virgin guy looking for a virgin lady to marry at 34Yrs?
I believe nothing is impossible in life but I do hope you realise age is against you right now.
For a man to be thirty four and looking out for a virgin in this corrupt and morally bankrupt society of ours raises some red flags. I hope you get what you looking for sir, but try to be more objective and open minded. cheers

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Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 4:52pm On May 13, 2013
Princess zoe: @ virgin finder who told you that a man being a virgin was never recommened? Revelation 14 vs 4 said that the one hundred and forty - four thousand men who were given the mark to make heaven from birth are all VIRGINS. Isaac was a virgin. John the beloved, one of the apostles, was a virgin and apparantly Jesus loved him more because of that. And so many of them. Who said that women don't pray to have such men as husbands? What a lie! Many women want such men as husbands. Infact i

Wrong!

The 144,000 (from the ancient 12 tribes of Isreal) stated in revelation are a mystery we cant comprehend at the moment.

As regards the other characters you mentioned, did the Bible explicitly refer to them as virgins?
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by jmoore(m): 7:36pm On May 13, 2013
Virgin Finder: How can a man be a virgin?

Where in the bible was any man referred to as a virgin?

Only ladies can be virgins.

Virginity is a female virtue!

virgin means: A person who has never had sex

A man that has never h@d sex is a virgin man.

It is the meaning behind the word that matters. Besides, virgin is an English word. Other languages call it a different thing.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Princesszoe: 5:58am On May 14, 2013
@ virgin finder, what is mystery? Was that what you read in the bible? Who told you that those men mentioned by john the beloved in revelation has not being proved real yet? So you mean that the word of God is unauthentic? And as for those two i mentioned, yes there are. I would have loved to say that i will search for it in the scripture and get back to you but then, if you can call what the bible said about those men mentioned in revelation as a myth because that is what you are driving at, i guess i will need to pass. Anyone can take the good truth and pervert it because every body is not meant to accept the truth the way it is for it hurts and conflicts most times with human wants and desires. No arguments! I rest my case.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by babyme1(f): 11:14am On May 14, 2013
I'm worried about the op. Not bc he is a virgin, but he stated that he has not dated before and he's 34. He certainly has issues.

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Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by taryour(f): 12:51pm On May 14, 2013
baby.me:
I'm worried about the op. Not bc he is a virgin, but he stated that he has not dated before and he's 34. He certainly has issues.

Seconded
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 6:13pm On May 14, 2013
jmoore:

virgin means: A person who has never had sex

A man that has never h@d sex is a virgin man.

It is the meaning behind the word that matters. Besides, virgin is an English word. Other languages call it a different thing.

Thank God you said 'virgin man'.

The word 'virgin' when used alone refers to a lady.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by jmoore(m): 6:19pm On May 14, 2013
Virgin Finder:

Thank God you said 'virgin man'.

The word 'virgin' when used alone refers to a lady.

Seriously? This is not open for debate. You don't even have any proof for your claims.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 6:26pm On May 14, 2013
Princess zoe: @ virgin finder, what is mystery? Was that what you read in the bible? Who told you that those men mentioned by john the beloved in revelation has not being proved real yet? So you mean that the word of God is unauthentic? And as for those two i mentioned, yes there are. I would have loved to say that i will search for it in the scripture and get back to you but then, if you can call what the bible said about those men mentioned in revelation as a myth because that is what you a

I never said it was a myth. All I said is that we can't fully comprehend their existence at this time cos some people believe that only them are going to make heaven.

As regards the other point, I can tell you categorically that no man named in the bible was referred to as a virgin no matter how evident e.g Jesus Christ, John the Baptist, John the beloved etc
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 6:42pm On May 14, 2013
jmoore:

Seriously? This is not open for debate. You don't even have any proof for your claims.

Ok. I saw it in an old standard English dictionary.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by jmoore(m): 6:50pm On May 14, 2013
Virgin Finder:

Ok. I saw it in an old standard English dictionary.

I can't see it in my own dictionary, it is a general term for both male and female. Is English the only language in the world? Digest my earlier post "It is the meaning behind the word that matters. Besides, virgin is an English word. Other languages call it a different thing. "
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by BabaOyo(m): 6:50pm On May 14, 2013
Baba Oyo: Hmmm, a virgin guy looking for a virgin lady to marry at 34Yrs?
I believe nothing is impossible in life but I do hope you realise age is against you right now.
For a man to be thirty four and looking out for a virgin in this corrupt and morally bankrupt society of ours raises some red flags. I hope you get what you looking for sir, but try to be more objective and open minded. cheers
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by dayokanu(m): 11:23pm On May 14, 2013
Op do you w@nk?

Then you are not a virgin Cos a girl who uses Love Machine too cant be called a virginn
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 11:53am On May 16, 2013
jmoore:

I can't see it in my own dictionary, it is a general term for both male and female. Is English the only language in the world? Digest my earlier post "It is the meaning behind the word that matters. Besides, virgin is an English word. Other languages call it a different thing. "

My point is that it is offensive to call a man a virgin.

Even the bible never referred to any of its male characters as such no matter how glaring.

A man's virginity should never be up for discourse, debate or deliberate exposure.

My fiancee has never dared ask me explicitly if I am a virgin or not.
But I know the in and out of her sexxual life.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by jmoore(m): 2:03pm On May 16, 2013
Virgin Finder:

My point is that it is offensive to call a man a virgin.

Even the bible never referred to any of its male characters as such no matter how glaring.

A man's virginity should never be up for discourse, debate or deliberate exposure.

My fiancee has never dared ask me explicitly if I am a virgin or not.
But I know the in and out of her sexxual life.

what the hell? offensive to call a man a virgin? Which planet are you from?

And you keep deviating from the point I made clear . "It is the meaning behind the word that matters. Besides, virgin is an English word. Other languages call it a different thing. "

I'm out of here.
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by VirginFinder: 12:16am On May 17, 2013
jmoore:

what the hell? offensive to call a man a virgin? Which planet are you from?

And you keep deviating from the point I made clear . "It is the meaning behind the word that matters. Besides, virgin is an English word. Other languages call it a different thing. "

I'm out of here.

Do men bear Joy, Peace, Precious, Patience etc as names?

Goodbye Mr virgin!
Re: Why Do Our Ladies Reject Virgin Men? by Atlantean(m): 9:02pm On Mar 21, 2015
Princesszoe:
@ virgin finder who told you that a man being a virgin was never recommened? Revelation 14 vs 4 said that the one hundred and forty - four thousand men who were given the mark to make heaven from birth are all VIRGINS. Isaac was a virgin. John the beloved, one of the apostles, was a virgin and apparantly Jesus loved him more because of that. And so many of them. Who said that women don't pray to have such men as husbands? What a lie! Many women want such men as husbands. Infact it gives them peace of mind i.e having trust and security. @ op please don't mind the devil , keep your body for your wife. I hope you are not defiled? You know what i mean? Watching pornn regularly( avoid pornn entirely) , masturbation, excess lust(i.e having sex with a woman you see or the one you know, in your heart), romancing and kissing, MouthAction. These things defile. They are under one grand mother called sexual immorality. Please don't do them meanwhile congratulations on your virginity.
a man who has yet to engage in intercourse is like a wolf desiring to kill his first prey. Sex will most likely be among his thoughts on a daily basis.

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