From the choristers to the ushers to the youths working fervently in the house of God... Are there any unmarried virgin sisters/brothers? ? ? OR are we all hypocrites?
Unmarried christian sisters/brothers on nairaland, are you still virgins?
Is your body still untouched and waiting for the the Lord's chosen?
Brothers, what experience do you have with christian sisters?

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From personal interactions with Christians in my university I have concluded that somenChristians (despite injunctions to the contrary and in violation of Biblical precedents) at the very least, casually engage in pre-marital sex and at worst see nothing wrong with it and encourage it.

Oh please, don't bring up the stories that go on in your university.. sad place..

musKeeto: Oh please, don't bring up the stories that go on in your university.. sad place..

Oh ! So you know the university I attend. I think I should bring up the stories. If Christians see (as potrayed in such stories) that a belief in God (or Christianity) doesn't stop people fron acting as they want they would beless prone to thinking it assures a moral high ground.

Uyi Iredia:

Oh ! So you know the university I attend. I think I should bring up the stories. If Christians see (as potrayed in such stories) that a belief in God (or Christianity) doesn't stop people fron acting as they want they would beless prone to thinking it assures a moral high ground.

I was there for a year, back in 05, I think..

musKeeto:
I was there for a year, back in 05, I think..

Your thoughts on the place ?

Uyi Iredia:

Your thoughts on the place ?

Ah.. no be talk for today o.. 'PRETENCE' is the watchword.. 'hypocrisy' the motto..

No wonder you guys are atheists!!!!!!
You've got no positive examples around you!

I.Joan:
No wonder you guys are atheists!!!!!!
You've got no positive examples around you!

Are you a virgin?

I.Joan:
No wonder you guys are atheists!!!!!!
You've got no positive examples around you!

I am not an atheist.

Alfa Seltzer:

Are you a virgin?

What do you think ?

Uyi Iredia:

I am not an atheist.

Okay!

Apart from d hypocrites in Church serving just for members to notice them, there are some pple in church dat serve God with a loyal heart. One can still be a virgin even if theyve had intercourse in the past so long theyve asked for forgiveness & are celibate. Im waiting for lords chosen

Mamacita007: Apart from d hypocrites in Church serving just for members to notice them, there are some pple in church dat serve God with a loyal heart. One can still be a virgin even if theyve had intercourse in the past so long theyve asked for forgiveness & are celibate. Im waiting for lords chosen

No. One can be chaste after being disvirgined. You can't recover your virginity once you've lost it.

Uyi Iredia: No. One can be chaste after being disvirgined. You can't recover your virginity once you've lost it.

why re u refering to me? pple can recover their virginity if their minds are pure and purged from sinful se,xual desires. celibates are just like virgins

Alfa Seltzer:

Are you a virgin?

Good question. She no even bother to reply you sef. Bloody hypocrite.

Mamacita007:

why re u refering to me? pple can recover their virginity if their minds are pure and purged from sinful se,xual desires. celibates are just like virgins

No. What you described is being chaste after disvirginity. Virginity can't be recovered once it's lost. The term 'second virginity' is misleading.

manmustwac: Good question. She no even bother to reply you sef. Bloody hypocrite.

Open your eyes very well o! My reply was just 4 posts above this!

I.Joan:

Open your eyes very well o! My reply was just 4 posts above this!

That wasn't a reply. It was just another question.

Yes or no. Are you a virgin?

Alfa Seltzer:

That wasn't a reply. It was just another question.

Yes or no. Are you a virgin?

Yes.

I.Joan:

Yes.

What's wrong with you?

Do you need help? Or prayers?

Alfa Seltzer:

What's wrong with you?

Do you need help? Or prayers?

Am a christian!

I.Joan:

Am a christian!

Ahh! That explains it. The rot is deep. You need Satanic cleansing. A virgin at your age means something is amiss. Guess what age Mary was when she has Jesus? Even the holy mother of your god didn't wait to make babies.

How many of your friends are still virgins? That should tell you there's something wrong somewhere.

And if you think your married life is going to be much better because you are bringing zero bedroom experience, better think again. Men are looking for wives that know what to do. Not immature ladies that mumu about in bed.

And stop listenning to pastors about your sex life. Would you take advice from a carpenter about your health? Or from a doctor about how to repair your car? Everybody has specialties and pastors are spiritual, not sex.

A word is enough for the wise. Time is running out. Your actions today define your future.

Alfa Seltzer: Ahh! That explains it. The rot is deep. You need Satanic cleansing. A virgin at your age means something is amiss. Guess what age Mary was when she has Jesus? Even the holy mother of your god didn't wait to make babies.

Alfa what you wrote here is unfair. as if her virginity isnt a good thing.

Mamacita007:

Alfa what you wrote here is unfair. as if her virginity isnt a good thing.

No, it's not. Not at her age.

Alfa Seltzer:

Ahh! That explains it. The rot is deep. You need Satanic cleansing. A virgin at your age means something is amiss. Guess what age Mary was when she has Jesus? Even the holy mother of your god didn't wait to make babies.

How many of your friends are still virgins? That should tell you there's something wrong somewhere.

And if you think your married life is going to be much better because you are bringing zero bedroom experience, better think again. Men are looking for wives that know what to do. Not immature ladies that mumu about in bed.

And stop listenning to pastors about your sex life. Would you take advice from a carpenter about your health? Or from a doctor about how to repair your car? Everybody has specialties and pastors are spiritual, not sex.

A word is enough for the wise. Time is running out. Your actions today define your future.

This epistle of yours really got me laughing!

No one dictates my sex life.
It is my choice!!!
If you need a woman with skills in bedmatics! Feel free to get a prostitute!!! There are many of them on the streets these days!!!
Basically, your advice here is "Others are doing it, you should do it too"
Does that sound smart? ? ? ?
The only 'stars' that boast about their bed skills are 'porn stars' and even you in all your hatred for me would not want me to be one!
Maturity has nothing to do with bedroom experience!!!!

Signing in
Please do not turn this into a virgin thread.
I personally hate virgins
They put all their mind on that bloody trap and forget to develop other virtues that her husband would need

ITbomb: Signing in
Please do not turn this into a virgin thread.
I personally hate virgins
They put all their mind on that bloody trap and forget to develop other virtues that her husband would need

What's with the stereotype?

There is no inkling of truth in this statement of yours.

I.Joan:

What's with the stereotype?

There is no inkling of truth in this statement of yours.

I sincerely hope that I am wrong

I.Joan:


This epistle of yours really got me laughing!

No one dictates my sex life.
It is my choice!!!
If you need a woman with skills in bedmatics! Feel free to get a prostitute!!! There are many of them on the streets these days!!!
Basically, your advice here is "Others are doing it, you should do it too"
Does that sound smart? ? ? ?
The only 'stars' that boast about their bed skills are 'porn stars' and even you in all your hatred for me would not want me to be one!
Maturity has nothing to do with bedroom experience!!!!

You are now lying to yourself. "it is my choice" is the lame excuse of people like you. It is not true, otherwise you wouldn't have opened the op the way you did. Your op shows that you remainning a virgin, far from being a choice, is a result of religious indoctrination.
Infact, what you were trying to do in the op is spew out the same nonsense you may have heard your pastors and priests spew out from the pulpit.
Listen to your self: "waiting for the Lord's chosen"! How is that a choice? You are forced to wait.
You don't need to be a porn star to know how to satisfy a man in bed. I don't hate you. I only pity you and if you want to be a IndecentStar, that would be a choice. And you wont find me condemning genuine choices like that.
Your answer that I coloured in red shows a certain mental disfunction. Imagine telling a man looking for a wife this: "If you need a woman with skills in the kitchen! Feel free to get a cook!!!" or "If you need a woman with skills in children upbringing! Feel free to get a pediatrician!!!"
There are certain skills expected of a wife and if you are lacking, your husband will either have a sad life or look elsewhere for satisfaction.

Alfa Seltzer:

You are now lying to yourself. "it is my choice" is the lame excuse of people like you. It is not true, otherwise you wouldn't have opened the op the way you did. Your op shows that you remainning a virgin, far from being a choice, is a result of religious indoctrination.
Infact, what you were trying to do in the op is spew out the same nonsense you may have heard your pastors and priests spew out from the pulpit.
Listen to your self: "waiting for the Lord's chosen"! How is that a choice? You are forced to wait.
You don't need to be a porn star to know how to satisfy a man in bed. I don't hate you. I only pity you and if you want to be a IndecentStar, that would be a choice. And you wont find me condemning genuine choices like that.
Your answer that I coloured in red shows a certain mental disfunction. Imagine telling a man looking for a wife this: "If you need a woman with skills in the kitchen! Feel free to get a cook!!!" or "If you need a woman with skills in children upbringing! Feel free to get a pediatrician!!!"
There are certain skills expected of a wife and if you are lacking, your husband will either have a sad life or look elsewhere for satisfaction.

Everything in Life is a choice, mister!
Man is blessed with free-will!
The number of baby-mamas I see everyday is enough reason for me to take the vow of chastity!
I opened this thread to inquire of my fellow Christians if they made this choice and how they are fairing as a result of this choice(not very well with people like you in the world)
How many men do I have to sleep with to effectively master the bedroom skills?
I am not being forced to wait for the Lord's chosen,I chose to allow God choose for me after experiencing the effects of the choices He has made for me!
Please, keep your pity for someone more deserving of it!

@ Joan: You're doing a good thing. Great decision!