deb6: am just 17 n half i cnt marry nw.

then pls follow chuko's advice plus do more excercise and dont focus all your attention to it. it will, it is just matter of time. and for your age,i will say its kinda normal from the psycholohical point of view. read the scripture more often or stay glued to nairaland religious section. it will realy help. remember dat Jesus understands what ypu are passing through and that he will never tempt us abv wat we can bear. it is well dear.

I quite pity the youth of this generation, we go through lots of temptations, and some religiouse folks here are'nt helping matter either.
@OP See, there's nothing wrong with you that needed any deliverance for, it is just natural, it shows your sexual drive is high, there's nothing you can do about it else you're gonna live a depressed life, and you'll be vulnorable to falling into funication at any slightest temptation, i too do masturbate, i dont hide it cos i aint no hypocrate, most here too do, just that they aint bold to say it, masturbation to me aint sin cos if it were then God should have rendered to sexual hormone inactive till after marraige, cos my sexual drive is high and not doing it i might easily fall into furnication being that i'm in the university where temptation is all you eat and breath, if u feel guilty as i too do feel atimes, just ask the Lord to have mercy on you and believe he has forgiven you, sure he will, he understand your weaknesses and he aint looking for escusses to cast you into hell.
I'm just being sincere with you here, dont fight your nature, God gave it to you, he would'nt have given you if it were wrong to masturbate, and he would have stated it clearly in the bible which is supposed to be our guide.
Nough said already!

I know many religious biggots here are gonna crucify me for the above statement, but i aint gonna give a sh!t, truth is truth any day any time, you might take my advice as from an agent of satan to decieve you, but with time you're gonna come to term with me on this, i was once at this state till got the knowledge too...
All the best is what i wish you dear!

deb6: am just 17 n half i cnt marry nw.

Yet some damn facebook activists will tel us in the north not to taste them young...smh

joe4christ: I quite pity the youth of this generation, we go through lots of temptations, and some religiouse folks here are'nt helping matter either.
@OP See, there's nothing wrong with you that needed any deliverance for, it is just natural, it shows your sexual drive is high, there's nothing you can do about it else you're gonna live a depressed life, and you'll be vulnorable to falling into funication at any slightest temptation, i too do masturbate, i dont hide it cos i aint no hypocrate, most here too do, just that they aint bold to say it, masturbation to me aint sin cos if it were then God should have rendered to sexual hormone inactive till after marraige, cos my sexual drive is high and not doing it i might easily fall into furnication being that i'm in the university where temptation is all you eat and breath, if u feel guilty as i too do feel atimes, just ask the Lord to have mercy on you and believe he has forgiven you, sure he will, he understand your weaknesses and he aint looking for escusses to cast you into hell.
I'm just being sincere with you here, dont fight your nature, God gave it to you, he would'nt have given you if it were wrong to masturbate, and he would have stated it clearly in the bible which is supposed to be our guide.
Nough said already!

SMH. it is a sin cos it is an act of selfishness. if you read my post you will see i said it is normal for her age and besides it is good for ladies. but when you continue at an age that you are expected to stop then there is a problem.

deb6: am just 17 n half i cnt marry nw.

dont mind all thes agents of darkness


Wait till you are 18 then get a boyfriend





You got yourself into the mess by allowing your imagination get the better part of you.
Self service is disgusting....ewwww

musKeeto:
Get a bf. Even your Jesus had Mary Magdalene to service his needs.

may the Good LORD 4give You!.

deb6: I have try to stop masturbating but i can't.I have prayed, gone for deliverance but only to stop for sometime and it will still come back.What should i do? i really want to be a good christian and go to heaven.i need ur advice.thanks

Go to SCOAN as this is a spiritual thing and ONLY the right prophet can deliver you. May God help you.

Bélla3: dont mind all thes agents of darkness


Wait till you are 18 then get a boyfriend





You got yourself into the mess by allowing your imagination get the better part of you.
Self service is disgusting....ewwww

Don't encourage her to get a boyfriend when she gets to 18. She should seek the face of God. Let her go to SCOAN and she will be delivered.

Humm

If you r nt a christian (born again ) . I dnt thnk prayer and all tht will wrk consistently,but God is merciful.so i cant say.

But if u are, set ur heart to overcome it. Pray fervently against it. Eventually you'll beginng to xperience some victory.
Also begin exercsg ur will power.
All d prayer and bible readg wont wrk if u dont exercse. Like u cant learn to ride a bike by readg a book so exercise ur will as you pray against it.

[quote author=kambo] i am now born again n i ve overcome dat. thank u

POPE II: Humm

why humm?

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Saying you are now born again is 1 thing, overcoming the act completely is another thing, wish you the best all the same.

Well if you call is "self servicing" then that's surely something everybody should be doing, servicing themselves no?

deb6: I have try to stop masturbating but i can't.I have prayed, gone for deliverance but only to stop for sometime and it will still come back.What should i do? i really want to be a good christian and go to heaven.i need ur advice.thanks

ur contact please

McLove: ur contact please

What for?

deb6: What for?

I think I should be able to help

ifeness:

Your hormones are working well. Nothing is wrong with you......step up and get a Love Machine.... No one will judge you. Ignore the hypocrites who will quote bible pages to you,all of them do it. Infact i just did it now.

but u are not quoting the bible naauuuu.

[quote author=McLove] I think I should be able to help [/quot Hmm no

deb6: still 17

Hmm 17?
You feels guilty after you do it! Good that you acknowledged, it is wrong....
Hmm, I too battles with it, though I am 19yrs now, but by God's grace, all is well.....
Mine became worst and more addictive when I started watching Por.nograp.hy.......
It wasn't easy at all!
That doesn't mean you aren't a good Christian...
Every Man has his own CHALLENGE....
NOTE: I want you to know that it is a challenge given to you and you Must overcome it by God's grace.
Give thanks and Glory to God for every situation you find yourself..... (Thank God for things yet undone.)
Do not condem yourself so that you won't give in to Depression....
Jesus Christ will set you free.......

I pray all will be well Sister, it is a Challenge!!

[quote author=Macelliot]
Thanks

Err, I'm confused here. When you masturbate, who do you harm?

wiegraf: Err, I'm confused here. When you masturbate, who do you harm?

No one but yourself..

Other than wasting time (and that varies), how does it harm you?

wiegraf: Other than wasting time (and that varies), how does it harm you?

It makes me feel guilty and i do throw up(vomit) after doing it..

deb6: It makes me feel guilty and i do throw up(vomit) after doing it..

Yes, and my question is; why do you feel guilty over doing something that is 100% natural? Especially when you're clearly not harming anyone, including yourself? It is completely safe unlike say random s.ex with some stranger, yes?

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Yes, and my question is; why do you feel guilty over doing something that is 100% natural? Itz a sin n very normal to feel guilty after commiting such act..

deb6: Itz a sin

According to a 2000 collection of fables that claims a donkey talked, yes it is

deb6: very normal to feel guilty after commiting such act..

No, actually, most people feel really good both during and after. That's why you keep doing it over and over again, no?

wiegraf:

According to a 2000 collection of fables that claims a donkey talked, yes it is
Are you an Atheist?


No, actually, most people feel really good both during and after. That's why you keep doing it over and over again, no?

No, i personally don't feel good after that. It just like an addiction u don't like what u r doing but finds it difficult to stop..

Aaaannnddd, you still haven't answered anything, while also being wrong. Here's the fact; most people enjoy masturbating, just as you do. A lot. In fact any dude that tells you he doesn't beat the monkey is lying. Take that to the bank. You get older, the law of diminishing kicks in and it becomes less and less frequent, but unless you physically get rid of your pipi, it will get self-serviced every so often. It is perfectly natural. Your god created hormones, no? You should watch bonobos at it if you think humans take it far. And most don't feel any guilt or whatever because, again, clearly they aren't harming anyone. Do note that the only people that make a big deal out of this are those obsessed with the 2000 year old fable book and its cousins.

The part you haven't answered though is; this 'addiction', who is it harming?

Does it, for instance, get in the way of your work? Since you're already anonymous, tell me, how frequently do you indulge in it?

Hmm once in a week.