I like a woman that already has a child, and i don't what to do. The child thing bothers me, what do u guys think?

Can You Marry A Lady That Has A Child

Why would i Wanna marry a lady that has a child when there are tons of ladies with no kids out there?

®Th£ Sly®:

Why would i Wanna marry a lady that has a child when there are tons of ladies with no kids out there?

but the ones with kids have a heart too u know, and they deserve to get married. what if u actually meet one that u really like?

leirop:

but the ones with kids have a heart too u know, and they deserve to get married. what if u actually meet one that u really like?

Yeah i know they deserve to get married for sure. . . .
Having a baby doesn't mean they wouldn't be a good wife so there is absolutely nothing stopping you from marrying one.

®Th£ Sly®:

Why would i Wanna marry a lady that has a child when there are tons of ladies with no kids out there?

what if ur heart only beat for lady with a child? to me it does not matter, what matter is the love.

rokiatu:

what if your heart only beat for lady with a child? to me it does not matter, what matter is the love.

Marriage is not PS3. . . .its a life commitment. . .
I don't have anything against single mums. . . but to marry one. . . errh maybe!. . but i dont really think so.

Single moms are human too.

its like putting the blame on the child. it could have happened to anyone.

®Th£ Sly®:

but to marry one. . . errh maybe!. . but i don't really think so.

God! what's so bad about them?

If u love her,go ahead. Aint nothin wrong wit it.

rokiatu:

God! what's so bad about them?

Nothing . . . . .Absolutely Nothing!. . .

SLy. . . u again?
wateva happened to ya?

Tell me if i am wrong ladies, but i think it is a little easier if the man has a child than if the woman has one. In most cases, the child is with the mom anyway, so if u marry a guy that has a child, u will probably not really be in the childs life

Look, if this woman's child bothers you, then please do not marry her. Let her and her child find a man who will love and want them both.

leirop:

In most cases, the child is with the mom anyway, so if u marry a guy that has a child, u will probably not really be in the childs life

If I met a father who was not very actively involved in his child's life, I would leave him so fast, you wouldn't even see me running away! What am I going to do with a deadbeat lowlife like that?

amber_ella:

Look, if this woman's child bothers you, then please do not marry her. Let her and her child find a man who will love and want them both.

thanks, i will consider ur advice

amber_ella:

If I met a father who was not very actively involved in his child's life, I would leave him so fast, you wouldn't even see me running away! What am I going to do with a deadbeat lowlife like that?

u missed the point, was not talking about the childs dad

@ amber ella

are u nigerian?

leirop:

u missed the point, was not talking about the childs dad

Sorry, that post was hypothetical, in response to the other poster, and wasn't directed at you.

No, I'm not Nigerian. Is it so obvious?

®Th£ Sly®:

Nothing . . . . .Absolutely Nothing!. . .

then why wouldn't u marry one?

amber_ella:

No, I'm not Nigerian. Is it so obvious?

not really, was just wondering. i used to live in brampton and then calgary, those were cold days.

leirop:

not really, was just wondering. i used to live in brampton and then calgary, those were cold days.

Why do you think I married an African? He's my ticket away from the snow! lol,

@poster

If you ready to marry a lady with a child then you should be ready for the consequences of a father.

@sly

I don't see anything wrong in him marry a single mother, as long there is understanding and love.

These days, it not advisable to go for a lady with a child; there are so many disadvantages

The father of the child might show up in future and start asking for his baby; and this might lead to problems because biologically, he’s the father and you wouldn’t want to give up a child you’ve just like that. I’ve seen so many cases like that.

There also the family issue; many families wouldn’t want a grand-child who isn’t their blood; this can also lead to family problems and maybe a breakup in such relationships or marriages.

well i see nothing wrong in marrying someone that has child, that is if she doesn't go divorcing you and having custody of child #2 afterwards.

rokiatu:

then why wouldn't u marry one?

1. . . .because i am not under any obligation to marry one.
2. . . because there are many single women without kids out there which i prefer. . . They are human too.

buzyDiva:

SLy. . . u again?
whatever happened to ya?

Yes. . .Its me again o. . . .Buzydamsel, . . .

Well. . .I got tired of the old handle. . . so i decided to sell it on eBay

amber_ella:

Look, if this woman's child bothers you, then please do not marry her. Let her and her child find a man who will love and want them both.

Exactly!

The child is part of the package, so take it or leave it.

@Poster

Was it not a man like you that impregnated her?  If most men have not assisted in committing abortions left, right and center. . .most would have had kids too!

So how many have you killed or how many do you have that you do not know about?  Surely, someone will marry you with all the sins you have committed too.

there is nothing bad in marring a lady with a child if the child is young is OK, but when the child is more than 12 run away there may be problem all the time .

What about a single lady of say 35 years old, with 2 children both from different men?

I no fit marry single mother o. Plenty girls dey town.
Why should a young man be the one to marry a single mother with all the attachments? make she sef go find single father to marry