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A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Enegod(m): 8:26pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
1.Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. 2.Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/ she is 2years old. Learn to excuse yourself. 3.If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well. 4.Never allow any adult refer to your new born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'. 5.Never tempt your husband with your younger sister. (Else he'd say its hers and the devil's fault). 6.Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead him into temptation. 7.Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves. 8.Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you might need to patiently ask alot of questions from your child. 9.If you don't teach your children about sex, the society will teach them the wrong values. 10.It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. 11.Teach your 3year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you. (remember, charity begins at home and with you) 12.Blacklist some materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child (that includes music, movies and musicians).They let them understand the value of standing out of the crowd. 13.Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them always! 2 Likes |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 8:44pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
one more thing,when your girl child attains the age of 7-8,carryout virginity test on her every six month and let her know how disappointed you will be if she losses her virginity for any reason other than marriage. |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by ogunteluwo(m): 8:47pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
Hmmmm.... Interesting. |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 8:56pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 8:59pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
chaircover:This is not a joke |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 9:01pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
Intriguing |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Enegod(m): 10:16pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
mascot87: one more thing,when your girl child attains the age of 7-8,carryout virginity test on her every six month and let her know how disappointed you will be if she losses her virginity for any reason other than marriage.√√ |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by taryour(f): 10:22pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
mascot87: one more thing,when your girl child attains the age of 7-8,carryout virginity test on her every six month and let her know how disappointed you will be if she losses her virginity for any reason other than marriage. You just joking right |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 10:24pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
taryour:I am not joking please,I mean it. |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 10:30pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
mascot87 go hear wen on this thread. So how is this virginity test done if I may ask?? ** thinking** Gettout of my head jor 1 Like |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 10:38pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
jidegirl12: mascot87 go hear wen on this thread.Very simple,you take her to a female medical doctor to check her virginity. Let her get used to it while she is still young and while she is growing up, she will not see anything wrong in it.It is very important,if many parents can be doing this for there children,immorality would reduce in our society. The fear of her parents checking her virginity every six months to confirm her status is the fear of her having s3x |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 10:53pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
I honestly thought you're kidding before I checked it out, but see.... Virginity testing has become a relatively new trend in many countries, especially those that are highly concerned with women's honor or serious diseases such as AIDS. Virginity testing is seen as a way to curb women's sexual activity before marriage and keeping them "pure" until then. There is much controversy and debate as to whether or not this infringes upon women's human rights, even if they are willing participants. In some countries, people do a visual check of girls to see if their hymen is still intact. If it is, then it's pretty much guaranteed that she is still a virgin. However, if her hymen is damaged, it's not an indication that she's had sexual intercourse. 4 Likes |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 10:53pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
mascot87: one more thing,when your girl child attains the age of 7-8,carryout virginity test on her every six month and let her know how disappointed you will be if she losses her virginity for any reason other than marriage. Gross. . . |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 11:02pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
Higher % of girls use Tampons during their monthly cycle.... Tampon stretch the hymen. So should we now stop them from using Tampons?? A Gymnast , Dancers ( esp Ballet & Hip hop) has high possibility to break her Hymen with the vigorous exercise and jumps they usually do... So should we stop them from doing what they love because of Hymen?? I could go on with many daily physical routine most girls do ... What happened to one word calked TRUST?? 2 Likes |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 11:14pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
Phema:Adjective,verb, noun or verb phrase |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 11:22pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Higher % of girls use Tampons during their monthly cycle.... Tampon stretch the hymen. So should we now stop them from using Tampons??I feel like sleeping now, we will talk on this tomorrow. Cheers |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by armyofone(m): 11:25pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
damn it . mascot87: one more thing,when your girl child attains the age of 7-8,carryout virginity test on her every six month and let her know how disappointed you will be if she losses her virginity for any reason other than marriage. in some part of the north, I heard they use something on baby girl's to widen it for potential suitor. Life of a gal is uphill battle. |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 11:39pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
Aiit,let me put it like this.I av this gf that told me her parents av been carrying out virginity test on her & her sis since age 12.she did d recent one two months ago and she is stil a virgin.she is now 21.The mother also talks to her frequently on s3x education and why she should wait until she gets married before intimacy. I can tell you the words of her mum combined with d virginity test always done on her are deeply rooted in her. I asked her how d virginity test is done and she told me, there are no instrument used at all by the female doctor and I concluded that all that is done is just to scare her but it really works. That fear in her is still the reason why she is still a virgin till date |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 11:53pm On Aug 18, 2013 |
armyofone: damn it . |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 1:47am On Aug 19, 2013 |
mascot87: Aiit,let me put it like this.I av this gf that told me her parents av been carrying out virginity test on her & her sis since age 12.she did d recent one two months ago and she is stil a virgin.she is now 21.The mother also talks to her frequently on s3x education and why she should wait until she gets married before intimacy. I can tell you the words of her mum combined with d virginity test always done on her are deeply rooted in her. I asked her how d virginity test is done and she told me, there are no instrument used at all by the female doctor and I concluded that all that is done is just to scare her but it really works. That fear in her is still the reason why she is still a virgin till date There is no point keeping the hymen because of some st*pid bullshit fear. The girl could be doing numerous things, probably even nastier than penetrating that hymen, anywayz. At 21, she should know if she wants to keep her hymen or not, not being co-erced into keeping it. This is just sooooooooo annoying, virginity test kor, purity investigation nih. DISCLAIMER: I'm nt usually this rude, i just lost it. That concept of virginity test every 6 months is totally annoying. I'm sorry, dear mascot. 1 Like |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 1:47am On Aug 19, 2013 |
mascot87: Aiit,let me put it like this.I av this gf that told me her parents av been carrying out virginity test on her & her sis since age 12.she did d recent one two months ago and she is stil a virgin.she is now 21.The mother also talks to her frequently on s3x education and why she should wait until she gets married before intimacy. I can tell you the words of her mum combined with d virginity test always done on her are deeply rooted in her. I asked her how d virginity test is done and she told me, there are no instrument used at all by the female doctor and I concluded that all that is done is just to scare her but it really works. That fear in her is still the reason why she is still a virgin till date There is no point keeping the hymen because of some st*pid bullshit fear. The girl could be doing numerous things, probably even nastier than penetrating that hymen, anywayz. At 21, she should know if she wants to keep her hymen or not, not being co-erced into keeping it. This is just sooooooooo annoying, virginity test kor, purity investigation nih. DISCLAIMER: I'm nt usually this rude, i just lost it. That concept of virginity test every 6 months is totally annoying. I'm sorry, dear mascot. |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 2:48am On Aug 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Virginity test. That's one today! At Post, Nice one! |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 2:59am On Aug 19, 2013 |
Chillisauce: THANKS! |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 3:36am On Aug 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua:Well you are entitled to your opinion.But you might have a contrary opinion if you find yourself in her own shoes, now what do I mean? Remember your parents are your first teacher and if what your parents discuss with you most of the time s3x education and you started receiving this lecture from them while you are still very young (for her around 11-12 years of age) and they keep hammering on "do not have s3x before marriage" and also telling you of so many dangers of not listening to them and most especially backing there claims with biblical verse of "do not fornicate for your body is the temple of the holy spirit"what do you want to do? and if your parents continue to tell you that anybody that tells you anything contrary to that is lying and you should stay away from them.I could remember she one said her mum cursed that if she ever get defiled before her wedding so many evil thing would happen to her and she would never forgive her for life. Some people still carry this thing on there head as life and death. I don't think it would be easy for you to make this statement you made if you are in her shoes |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by armyofone(m): 4:52am On Aug 19, 2013 |
that wasn't your initial reply anyway make I go hit my sack bo. mascot87: |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by PassingShot(m): 6:24am On Aug 19, 2013 |
Nice one OP. Copied for record and reference in guiding my 3 year old queen. |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mascot87(m): 7:07am On Aug 19, 2013 |
armyofone: that wasn't your initial reply |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Nobody: 7:31am On Aug 19, 2013 |
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Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by mysticgal(f): 8:42am On Aug 19, 2013 |
unfortunately the people replying this thread are mostly not married nor thinking of getting married now,and the virginity stuff is just too overhyped |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Monicasque(f): 8:50am On Aug 19, 2013 |
i love most of the things stated here but i am just worried about the house help being tested for HIV? I just wana ask. So what if the person is HIV , does that mean they do not get the job? if your answer is yes. I disagree with u |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Tejufemi(f): 9:37am On Aug 19, 2013 |
Monicasque: i love most of the things stated here but i am just worried about the house help being tested for HIV? I just wana ask. So what if the person is HIV , does that mean they do not get the job? if your answer is yes. I disagree with ume i agree 100 times,because if d person is cut by the general knife d whole house use,what's d assurance that d virus won't b contracted if d househelp has d virus |
Re: A Must Read For The Married Couples And Those Who Will Marry Soon by Monicasque(f): 9:54am On Aug 19, 2013 |
Tejufemi: wow. SO there are people who still think like this. Tell me when last did u check your hiv status? You brother? sister? cousin? uncle? or your lover? Let me ask u, what would happen if your cousin contracted the deases? would u never allow them in your house? Would u never eat their food? What if by some mistake u end up in hospital and they accidentally inject you with the wrong needle and gues wat u contract the deases? would u resign, kick yourself out of your home and never eat your own food? |
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