chaircover:

That your female colleague married the wrong man, and she mistakenly thought that all men/marriages are like that.

If she had married the right man, it is the man who will even be reminding her to "not to forget to let US send money to aunty lagbaja o!"

It is in your own best interest not to listen to people like that

As if there is not enough war in Syria, some people bring unnecessary fights into their homes. . . meanwhile that kind of colleague will be the type that snoops on her husbands statements and payslips to see how much he is earning. A case of do as I say, but dont do as as I do

jay bee: If you trust your man/woman and the love between the two is genuine then surely there is absolutely no reason to start hiding things

chaircover:

Ha! he is committing bribery and corruption ni

He wants to bamboozle me into retracting what I said about him in one thread where they were toasting kulyie for him . . I ive told him, I am not retracting anything until I get a credit alert from my bank

chaircover: It depends on the job you do. If you are a daily paid biz man/woman then your partner may not know the exact amount of money you made today, but they will have a fair idea of what you earn from your biz each month/quarter.

If you are an employee with a payslip, then yes its very easy to know how much your partner earns. its even easier if you have a joint account where salaries are paid into.

meanwhile this hiding of "salary" is not always beneficial. . . if you are married to a good woman it can actually work to your advantage, because the woman actually knows how much you do have and therefore she knows where she can come in to help where need be without you even having to ask.

Each to their own . . .obviously it works for the colleague, but she should not assume that everyone should be like her.

chaircover:

Ha! he is committing bribery and corruption ni

He wants to bamboozle me into retracting what I said about him in one thread where they were toasting kulyie for him . . I ive told him, I am not retracting anything until I get a credit alert from my bank

jidegirl12: What's with RR and these fugly blue smilies

chaircover:


HA!!!!!!!!!!!! Im going to report you to Kulyie

chaircover:

How do we even know that you are a twin sef. For all we know it could be a toasting line. Kulyie shine your eyes o! no enter royonechance o! i don talk my own . . . I dont want to see a thread saying "roy the singleton duped me"

chaircover:

That your female colleague married the wrong man, and she mistakenly thought that all men/marriages are like that.

If she had married the right man, it is the man who will even be reminding her to "not to forget to let US send money to aunty lagbaja o!"

It is in your own best interest not to listen to people like that

As if there is not enough war in Syria, some people bring unnecessary fights into their homes. . . meanwhile that kind of colleague will be the type that snoops on her husbands statements and payslips to see how much he is earning. A case of do as I say, but dont do as as I do

Osama10: If you can't trust your spouse, why did you even marry in the first place.

Royal Roy:

Your husband is definitely a blessed man!!