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Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Nobody: 7:18am On Sep 09, 2013 |
1) Give up the habit of waiting The way you spend your time defines who you are. You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when; you can only decide how you are going to live right now. Trust me, a year from now you will wish you had started today. Read The Now Habit. 2) Give up the excuses Sooner or later you will come to realize that it’s not what you lose along the way that counts; it’s what you do with what you still have. When you let go, forgive, and move on, you in no way change the past, you change the future. 3) Give up trying to be perfect Sometimes we try to show the world that we are flawless in hopes that we will be liked and accepted by everyone. But we can’t please everyone, and we shouldn’t try. The beauty of us lies in our vulnerability, our love, our. complex emotions – our authentic imperfections. When we embrace who we are and decide to be authentic, instead of perfect, we open ourselves up to real relationships, real happiness, and real success. There is no need to put on a mask. There is no need to pretend to be someone you’re not. You are perfectly imperfect just the way you are. 4) Give up doing things you know are wrong Nothing is more damaging to you than doing something that you believe is wrong. Your beliefs alone don’t help you grow and thrive, your behavior and actions do. So always do what you know in your heart is right, for you. 5) Give up feelings of entitlement. Nobody owes you anything. When you approach life with the false sense that you are owed things, you will naturally become less productive and constantly find yourself disappointed by reality. When you are grateful for what you have, and see positive things as bonuses, versus owed entitlements, you will earn great successes gradually as you grow. Read The Road Less Traveled. 6) Give up relationships that want you to be someone else The best kind of relationship is the one that makes you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself. 7) Give up letting others decide what you can and can’t do In order to live your own authentic life, you have to follow YOUR inner GPS, not someone else’s. When others say, “You can’t do it!” or “That’s impossible,” don’t lose hope. Just because they couldn’t doesn’t mean you can’t. 8.) Give up being a helpless victim Yes, it is unfortunate that sometimes bad things happen to the best of people. Life can be unfair, unkind and unjust. However, being stuck in a victim mentality does not nurture your ability to move onward and upward. You’ve got to stand back up and take positive steps to heal and grow. 9) Give up worrying about past failures Accept your past without regret, handle your presence with confidence, and face your future without fear. You are today where your thoughts and actions have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts and actions take you. Read How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. 10) Give up blaming everyone else Either you own your situation or it will own you. Either you take responsibility for your life, or someone else will. Blame is a scapegoat – it’s an easy way out of taking accountability for your own outcome. It’s a lot easier to point the finger at someone or something else instead of looking within. Blame is not constructive; it does not help you or anyone else – nobody wins in the blame game. The amount of energy and stress it takes to place blame elsewhere takes away from your ability to move forward and find a real solution. And remember, the road you are traveling may be the more challenging one, but don’t lose faith. Don’t listen to the doubters, don’t let setbacks keep you down, and most of all, don’t give up on yourself. It’s okay if you don’t know how much more you can handle. It’s fine if you don’t know exactly what to do next. Eventually you’ll let go of how things ‘should be’ and start to see all the great possibilities in front of you. This is your life – grab the wheel with both hands and keep steering yourself in the right direction. http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/06/04/10-things-you-must-give-up-to-be-successful/ 65 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by RINE1: 7:33am On Sep 09, 2013 |
Thumb up Op... These are the types of topics that are supposed to make front page. What an educative and informative write up!. Special request to mr. Seun, please some types of credits should be given to those Who in one way or the other have posted topics like this. Les i forget, first to comment. 12 Likes |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Nobody: 7:46am On Sep 09, 2013 |
very nice |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by braine(m): 8:04am On Sep 09, 2013 |
These are good tips for a Monday morning. |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by buchito1(m): 8:48am On Sep 09, 2013 |
Bluetoooth:k 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by pscott(m): 9:01am On Sep 09, 2013 |
second to comment...nice on OP.front page tins |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by pscott(m): 9:04am On Sep 09, 2013 |
buchito1: kjust to comment K. Is that why u quoted the whole tread.nonsense! 12 Likes |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by buchito1(m): 9:20am On Sep 09, 2013 |
p'scott:So y are u now quotin me again? ... Dnt i have my rights in NL? 5 Likes |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by israel007: 2:19pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Wow |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
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Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Dranatomy: 2:21pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
END TIME THINGS! 3 Likes |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Bantino(m): 2:22pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Good tips, but sometimes is not usually easy to follow up judiciously 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Lilaex: 2:22pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
The patient DOG get D fattest Bone Y shud I give up dat 1? 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by naijareferee: 2:23pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
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Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by enioladeran: 2:23pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Lilaex: The patient DOG get D fattest Bone Y shud I give up dat 1?on your one if you do |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by herbeytv(m): 2:24pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Ok |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by dopeJemi: 2:27pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Lilaex: The patient DOG get D fattest Bone Y shud I give up dat 1?The fastest Dog gets d fattest Bone hommie |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by KnightsTemplar(m): 2:27pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
11) Don't give up on GOD..... 7 Likes |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by cashkid18(m): 2:28pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
@op,n also gv up believin in end times cuz d world wil neva end 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by myOGAonTOP: 2:30pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
I think number ONE should have been : DONT GIVE UP LAYING ALL YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET. Sometimes waiting can be beneficial especially in situation you re sure of positive outcomes. But while waiting one should also sort out alternatives....... Not the best of explanations but smart gods will get my drift. 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by mauricerex: 2:31pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
And LYING just passing by |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by pxjosh(m): 2:34pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
buchito1: ku wise sha 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by dridowu: 2:34pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Ok |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by russianmob27: 2:37pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Dont be lazy, no food for lazy animal 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Erukuomoibadan: 2:41pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
buchito1: k. |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Erukuomoibadan: 2:42pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
RINE.:. |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by UjSizzle(f): 2:43pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Thank you!! |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by wman(m): 2:43pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
SimonAndal: Stop wanking to gay por.n. I mean stop wanking at all. Leeching without seeding is stinginess & not fair. Others seeded so u could get the shit u need. All the others are cool. 1 Like |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Erukuomoibadan: 2:44pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Bluetoooth:and 11.if I found out say u copy and paste ni ...I go ban dis thread .... |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Darius2000: 2:45pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
buchito1: k It takes wisdom to differentiate between when to appear funny and outright foolishness. |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Niyi11: 2:46pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
Nice one dude! |
Re: Things You Must Give-up To Be Successful by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
wman:_ No. 1 I'm gay, so what pörñ should I wäñk to? No. 2 I live in Nigeria so every kilobyte counts. Whenever I relocate to Canada I promise to seed 24/7, but for now, leeching without seeding it is. |
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