I have never gotten along with my Mother In Law from the word go.. every little thing i do to try and bridge the gap between as always landed me in worse trouble with my husband and MIL.So now, i don't even bother myself trying to please her anymore. My husband is not even making it better, cos i recently found out that my husband doesn't even take my side which really makes it worse. .......
i have tried Eye service .... but its not working for me(i am a tell it as it is person and not cut out for eye service) .

please what do i do?? i know this cant go on for long.... what can i do to make things better,......please help

Be yourself. Don`t try to impress people becos you want them to accept you based on their terms. They should accept you as you are. With time they `ll come around. But your hubby needs to behave and play his role except he`s mummy`s boy that will make it tough.
Keep a cheerful face and never let them see you hurting when they do hurt you.
All the best.

breathless: Be yourself. Don`t try to impress people becos you want them to accept you based on their terms. They should accept you as you are. With time they `ll come around. But your hubby needs to behave and play his role except he`s mummy`s boy that will make it tough.
Keep a cheerful face and never let them see you hurting when they do hurt you.
All the best.

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You have done everything doable with no result. Why not be yourself and stop play acting with her. I wouldn't what went wrong between you two and what she doesn't like about you.

Have you ever discussed this with your husband to know where you went wrong against your MIL? DO not live your life seeking to please people. Do what is fair and right to all. Please your God and conscience.

A still tongue they say keeps a wise head. Stop saying it "as it is" - as we grow older we learn to bite our tongues.

Rather than doing eye-service, why not actually do things whole-heartedly?

It is pointless advising you to be yourself if you have a nasty attitude.
Look inwards and ask yourself are there changes I can make?
Your hubby not supporting you, why do you think that is?
If you are truly innocent and your mother-in-law just does not like you, it is a conversation to have with your hubby because there must be something about you that she detest

Good luck

Treat her like ur mum. Period.