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| Problem Shared Half Solved by haryor1986(m): 3:13pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Gd NL, am 27yrs old graduate looking unto God 4 job.The issue is dat my fiancee is living wit me @ our family house close to 3yrs due to her place of work. So I decided that she shld cum and stayed wit me but my family don't like her @ all saying that am not available 4 dem anymore. Cos we have our own room, and as an adults we suppose 2 have our privacy but my family member don't want that @ all, all they want is that I shall b available for them all d time. As dis pressure is on me nw, I have decided to her dat she shld go and stay in her frnd's house 4 nw. Meanwhile,dis lady was there 4 me truout my tertiary inst. and my nysc program. I need ur advice |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Are you paying rent in your family house? No? Then the only problem I see here is the fact that your family allowed her to stay with you (privately for that matter) for 3 yrs! So you two were doing me and my wife the entire time eh? If you want to control who can stay with you at any time and behave how you like, you must go get your own place! Also, she is not your wife, therefore she alone can be bounced at any time! |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by bellong: 3:48pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Can you be explicit with the type of advice you need? As much as you want to repay the kindness of your fiancee, you can't use the repayment to the inconvenience of your folks. They allowed her for three years with no trouble but you did not state what went wrong before they grew cold towards you. Your girlfriend can stay with her friend which is the best thing to do not cohabiting with you. If you really love the girl as described, you will be concerned for her peace and rest of mind, hence you wouldn't bring her to stay with you in a family house. I pray that God grant you an open doors for jobs so you can do the needful. Hold no grudge against your people, they do not owe the girl anything 1 Like |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by Nobody: 4:16pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Poster,what kind of work is she doin that she can't pay for a room? Even in face me I slap u? And u, stop believing God for work, u r plain lazy! Ur galfreind works, u guys don't pay house rent and still she can't lend u money to start something small? Man earn ur respect back from ur folks! U lost it d day u decide to cohabit three yrs ago under their roof! What is this world turning into  |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by haryor1986(m): 10:23am On Dec 11, 2013 |
Pls more advice |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by Kanwulia: 1:58pm On Dec 11, 2013 |
Absolutely correct!  The reason I have A HUSBAND and A BOYFRIEND! |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by ifyalways(f): 2:11pm On Dec 11, 2013 |
Wonderment  Nld is another world,I swear on Musiwa's map. I would have never believed a family would allow an unemployed son/brother bring in his GF to live with them in the family house. Abeg, appreciate your family ooh, such gestures is hard to find. Back to your "problem", you and your GF should,do whatever it takes to get your own place. You want privacy? Pay for it- go get your own place. |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by Nobody: 2:12pm On Dec 11, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Absolutely correct! Lmao  I tire for Kanwulia oo Besides, I miss ur Olivia Pope siggy...  |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by Kanwulia: 2:26pm On Dec 11, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Awwwwwwwww!!!! Sorry dear!  *Kei!!!!! 7:30AM. . . .time for hotel room continental FREEEEEEEE breakfast. one more night to work, then off for 7 days! time for another vacation* |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by Miner13: 2:46pm On Dec 11, 2013 |
Kanwulia: Absolutely correct! Han han! Mummy dis ur reply get k-leg oo. U b big mummy |
| Re: Problem Shared Half Solved by haryor1986(m): 5:40am On Dec 13, 2013 |
Dey don't want me to move out of our house. |
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