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How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by BCJAY(f): 9:07am On Oct 07, 2013 |
I have a set of identical twins 2years plus. The issue is Taiwo will always want to take what is with Kehinde, even with food she will leave the one given to her for her sisters. And kenny will just give in once Taiwo begins to shout or cry, she will say sister take how can i correct this early please thanx. |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by AnodaIT(m): 9:13am On Oct 07, 2013 |
You better find a way to stop that before she begins to snatch another girl's bf or husband 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by bellong: 9:17am On Oct 07, 2013 |
AnodaIT: You better find a way to stop that before she begins to snatch another girl's bf or husband This is harsh and why do you think she is here? It would have been better you offered her a way out than what you wrote... @Op, whenever she does that, stop her from doing it. Be firm in your decision and never mind her blackmail cry. Tell her what she is doing is bad and you will not condone it. When she sees your firmness with time she will adjust. Need I add that you add spanking once a while to let her know you are serious about it. 16 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by Agbgift(f): 9:34am On Oct 07, 2013 |
bellong: Nice one. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by AnodaIT(m): 9:35am On Oct 07, 2013 |
^ I did not complete it @OP , first step, teach her responsibility. (the two of them together) Give her something delicate (but disposable ) make a mark on it and tell her to hold it for you for some time (start with 5 mins) . tell them to make sure no one takes it from each of them. If it work for 5 mins, try another item and move the time up till it might be a whole day. When she knows that 'This is my thing and no one should take it from me' , she might well understand when someone else says 'This is my thing . .' If she get this going, the next thing will be to teach her giving and politely asking. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by write2obi(m): 9:40am On Oct 07, 2013 |
LAME. #No offence 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by bellong: 9:48am On Oct 07, 2013 |
AnodaIT: ^ I did not complete it This is better.... 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by amiskurie(m): 10:11am On Oct 07, 2013 |
: hw old them be? |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by Ninapha(f): 10:24am On Oct 07, 2013 |
She is just showing dominance trait. How can u stop her, stand firm and not just her even her twin. Insist she gives it back to her twin herself. Pls start now to teach them to hold hands, dance together, sing song of apprecition together, it helps enhance their bonds and reduce her dominace as well increase the others esteem. Dont fail to add force where necessary but be cautious. Welcome to the world of mama ejimas 14 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by Nobody: 11:48am On Oct 07, 2013 |
Ninapha: She is just showing dominance trait. How can u stop her, stand firm and not just her even her twin. Insist she gives it back to her twin herself. Pls start now to teach them to hold hands, dance together, sing song of apprecition together, it helps enhance their bonds and reduce her dominace as well increase the others esteem.Good point u hv here. Whenever she snatches anything from her sis, tell her sis to go take it back. Encourage her to fight for her right. Where u really need to work is on her sis. They r twins, so competition is always going to be there. She starts crying, completely ignore her and watch her sis, she want to mellow, tell her not to. She will get d message. As time goes on, her sis esteem will rise and she can be able to challenge her. Try putting food together for them and observe them. U can't change their personalities but let the calmer one be able to stand up to her this early stage cos its def coming. Somebody adviced they should be doing things together and u teach them how to ask for something politely. All good but also know that not all asking will be giving even if asked politely. Especially from d sis. Children r very smart. All d best. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by BCJAY(f): 11:08am On Oct 31, 2013 |
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Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by BCJAY(f): 6:29pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
amiskurie: : hw old them be?two years plus 4 months |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by BCJAY(f): 6:31pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
I really appreciate the comments i got and i will implement all thanks alot. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by olowolekan(m): 12:33am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Pray and God will answer you . |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by KanwuliaJara: 4:03am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Separate them! They can't play together until. . .the aggressor changes! Enroll her in 'behavior modification' classes. ONE ON ONE TUTORING. No violence necessary o. . . .since she does not need help in that department! |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by samyan12: 9:35am On Nov 30, 2014 |
I have 10 month old twin girls, and my Taiye bullies her sis like this too.she always takes her toys, scratches her face, pulls her hair.kenny is gentle, so she cries all the time, only lashing out back occasionally. They are too young for me to discipline i think.I am also at a loss to what to do. |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by systacee: 9:26pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
samyan12: Too young for you to discipline? I don't think so. It's not too early to express your displeasure at any bad behaviour. Scold, frown, brandish a cane and promise to use it next time - just don't let it pass. Keep correcting. With time, device measures appropriate for their age. Always let them know certain behaviours are ' no - no'. Parenting? Lord have mercy! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by samyan12: 6:58pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Brandish a cane at babies?? I do say no even yell when im stressed. Will continue trying to get her to stop the bullying. Thanks |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by mutter(f): 8:44pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
I think you should not worry about it. The one that appears more dominant may not even be the dominant one later. The important thing you need to know is that the other twin gives the things to her. They have a special bond and will relate to each other in a special way. I would just do as bellong advised and be firm so she learns not to take things from people without asking. Something about these children that appear to be so soft and give in to everything- they end up as totally hard core later on. Perhaps because they accepted so much when they were young. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by Agrika: 5:56pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
mutter:So true |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by SAMBARRY: 6:32pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
AnodaIT:etunde pelu isokuso todays the end of 2014.change! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by LordReed(m): 11:03am On Jan 01, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: There are such things for two year old human babies? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by KanwuliaJara: 9:19am On Jan 02, 2015 |
LordReed: Oh yes! The reason we have 'the black race' of no solutions. . . .And the WHITE RACE OF ALL SOLUTIONS!!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by 1miccza: 10:41am On Jan 02, 2015 |
systacee: Hmph *sighs* may God strenghten our parents and give them the wisdom to raise their kids right. |
Re: How Do I Curtail My Twin Girl Aggression by oweniwe(m): 11:10am On Jan 02, 2015 |
AnodaIT: E gbami oooo...... I don die....!!... |
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