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Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by oluchijud(f): 5:08pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
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Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by vivaciousvivi(f): 5:10pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
My body 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by nikdam: 5:30pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
yetundeadio@yah:my dear, trust me i know the feeling. But it is well sha 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by naijajock(m): 5:31pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
It used to be my height cos I'm a short a$$, but with maturity and a lot of confidence I 've outgrown it. |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by turl(m): 5:36pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
vivacious vivi: My bodynot looking bad from what I see. @OP my nystagmus..sometimes anyway..used to be teased about it as a kid but it ended up being the reason I've made a lot positive moves in my life, career-wise and whatnot. |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by mustaphagreens(m): 5:46pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
hypersensitivity to criticism, fear of being envied by friends nd colleagues for my intelligence, my avoidant personality disorder( i think that says it all) 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 5:47pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
mustaphagreens: hypersensitivity to criticism, fear of being envied by friends nd colleagues for my intelligence, my avoidant personality disorder( i think that says it all)are we twins? 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by mustaphagreens(m): 5:51pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
vivacious vivi: My bodywhat about your body makes u feel insecure? 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by mustaphagreens(m): 5:54pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
BushyA55.Banger:maybe! But from different parents i guess *smiles* |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Cathaliya: 5:58pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
I fear that am gonna be too strict on my kids.....I have changed a lot ever since my nysc primary assignment in a secondary school. Insecurities and fears arent same sha. |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Ejisz: 6:02pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Rizstar: bokoharam kidnapping ritualist are my insecuritiesMate, seems lyk ur own is national insecuties eh.. Or is ur middle name nigeria?? Rizstar: bokoharam kidnapping ritualist are my insecuritiesMate, seems lyk ur own is national insecuties eh.. Or is ur middle name nigeria?? 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by benny4wax(m): 6:03pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
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Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Zeinymira(f): 6:43pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
My complexion people whisper a lot 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
BushyA55.Banger: i see that as a blessing, silence is golden. Haven't u noticed that whenever u open ur mouth people paused and wanted to tap from u. The listen whenever u speaks. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
nikdam: my dear, trust me i know the feeling. But it is well sha Unemploymment is a state of mind, make everyday count |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
oluchi jud: my height?.. Probably short people dey wicked o. |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 7:14pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
My Financial Status and also my look/age ( pple think am older) - neva ad a gf!! All my close female frends r way older than me and they wont believe.. The fear that my wife might b older than me.. ( 4 semi- gf, 2yrs older minimum) 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
I am shy to talk about my insecurities 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Cathaliya: 7:29pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
OP, so, after spilling insecurities from every angle, how do you help them out? cus am sure many people dont know what to do about their insecurities. you need to proffer solutions to them somehow, anyhow. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by ifebosco: 7:32pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
after 20years abroad going back to nigeria to open and manage a small scale company.next year 2014 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
redcliff: 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Adaeze003(f): 7:50pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
@cathaliya, the only way out is to accept yourself fully. The only reason we have insecurities is that we have used others as a standard to rate ourselves. People from the media especially(when it comes to stature boobs weight and all that). The only way it'll go away is when you see yourself as the best there is. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Cathaliya: OP,I think that has been covered by all the feel good psychologists of our generation. An insecurity is a mental state, you have the ability to change it by focusing on other things that you are good at. Most of our insecurities can be dealt with by adjusting the mind set of the individual to dwell on positive and productive thoughts. I have accepted my weaknesses and I strive not to live by them, but at times I could be in a gathering of people and I go missing, everyone is talking but am just listening to them without commenting, and I am okay with it because that's just me, however I make conscious efforts to improve myself. |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Afodot0022(m): 8:03pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
my body. my health. being around pple. demon. and d future..... |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by misskenny(f): 8:11pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
My insecurity is nt learning enough, and smtyms short of words. |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by leo2008: 8:12pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
my financial status, Not as if i plan on spending money on ladies or dating a materialistic lady, but i just dont have that confidence to ask a woman out when i know i have just enough to feed myself, 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
If you feel people are always talking about you or laughing at you when you are around.... its all in your mind, its a feature of the melancholy temperament. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
its also a state of mind, I have been there in the past. leo2008: my financial status, Not as if i plan on spending money on ladies or dating a materialistic lady, but i just dont have that confidence to ask a woman out when i know i have just enough to feed myself, |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by leo2008: 8:24pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
lari03: its also a state of mind, I have been there in the past.i hope this phase pass soon, cos have been single for about a year because of this insecurity, i know there are a lot of ladies out dere who dont give a damn about my present financial status so far i have prospects,i know the problem is me..... i never had this issue when i was an undergraduate |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by badmeat(m): 8:30pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Zeinymira: My complexionI think u look cute!don't let dem make u feel less,just believe in ur self, 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by slimthugchimee(m): 8:30pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Shyneshyne007: dis means u might probably say yes 2 all sexual advanceswat is this one talking about |
Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
BushyA55.Banger:are we triplets? |
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