When you arrogate to yourself the wisdom and all knowing power of God, this is what happens.

Hope now a simple family issue that could have easily been resolved by the family has been blown up by Mr. sabi-sabi Falana, I hope he is happy. I hope tearing the family apart gives him joy.

he is just doing his work

So to the op, what they had was marriage?

Which one be ASSUNDER kwa.....e be lyk u wan speak grammar shey

wablet: So to th op, what they had was marriage?

Every family have issues, marriage is all about conflict resolution.

Who knows, worst things could be happening in the holier than thou Falana's marriage

A woman is held against her wish in her own matrimonial home and you call that a "simple family issue"? I guess OP is also of the view that if a woman is subjected to psychological and physical assault, she should stay in the marriage as it is a simple family issue

Ezeibe: he is just doing his work

The OP must have forgotten that the woman was the one who cried for help when she was tired of staying in her hell of a marriage

Mynd_44:
The OP must have forgotten that the woman was the one who cried for help when she was tired of staying in her hell of a marriage

yeah, he forgot

Mynd_44:
The OP must have forgotten that the woman was the one who cried for help when she was tired of staying in her hell of a marriage

May be The op family are one of those who like to subject their women to maltreatment. most of their women who eventually become widow, suffer more hell than this, It could be their culture.

CAN YOU SHUT YOUR DAMN MOUTH UP!! Smh

Its the 4 year old I pity in all this. The poor kid will have no idea what's happening

The 'marriage' was just an unwritten contract that both parties violated.

Another foolish post from a "civically" illiterate .
In a saner world,
The governor would be on his way to prison.

Falana the self appointed watch dog is nigerian biggest hypocrite and a very big fool, sometimes I wonder how people thrive on in hypocrisy, was he not there when obasanjo was busy truncating th tenure of governors, when Chris ngige was abducted by Chris Uba, when a serving minister was held captive by militants now it is a domestic family issue involving a governor and his wife that he is interested in.
Chime should have kept quiet and allowed the fool to step into enugu , his case would have been worse than dino melaye because enugu boys would have taught him how not to be meddlesome

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kettykin: Falana the self appointed watch dog is nigerian biggest hypocrite and a very big fool, sometimes I wonder how people thrive on in hypocrisy, was he not there when obasanjo was busy truncating th tenure of governors, when Chris ngige was abducted by Chris Uba, when a serving minister was held captive by militants now it is a domestic family issue involving a governor and his wife that he is interested in.
Chime should have kept quiet and allowed the fool to step into enugu , his case would have been worse than dino melaye because enugu boys would have taught him how not to be meddlesome

Then u enugu boys must be even dumber than you look. The man is chancing you broke mofos of all the fine fine babes with your state money, then dashing u 4k of your money on top to harass people who could shame him into doing better for you.

Bunch of jokers.

kettykin: Falana the self appointed watch dog is nigerian biggest hypocrite and a very big fool, sometimes I wonder how people thrive on in hypocrisy, was he not there when obasanjo was busy truncating th tenure of governors, when Chris ngige was abducted by Chris Uba, when a serving minister was held captive by militants now it is a domestic family issue involving a governor and his wife that he is interested in.
Chime should have kept quiet and allowed the fool to step into enugu , his case would have been worse than dino melaye because enugu boys would have taught him how not to be meddlesome

Did you type this while awake? So after the woman wrote to him and called out for help he should have stayed in his house and not bother about her?

If that's how callous you are towards people who ask for your help, not everyone is

oyb:

Then u enugu boys must be even dumber than you look. The man is chancing you broke mofos of all the fine fine babes with your state money, then dashing u 4k of your money on top to harass people who could shame him into doing better for you.

Bunch of jokers.

Was it not under the nose of Falana that a sitting traditional ruler raped a youth Corp member, was it not under his watch that N2b tax payers money was used to organise the birthday of an exconvict tinubu by fashola, was it not under his watch a whopping N80m was used to host a porn actress for 45 minutes by fashola, was it not under his nose that retired police boss threw the wife from a 2 storey building, was it not under his watch that a banker Eremole murdered his wife and up till now he is still walking around a free man. Enugu boys will not spare a hypocrite.

Mynd_44:
Did you type this while awake? So after the woman wrote to him and called out for help he should have stayed in his house and not bother about her?

If that's how callous you are towards people who ask for your help, not everyone is

How many of such issues has this hypocrite resolved, was he called upon when the issues of Aviation bullet proof cars were burning

kettykin:
How many of such issues has this hypocrite resolved, was he called upon when the issues of Aviation bullet proof cars were burning

I'm sorry to interrupt, so sad I'm reading the garbage you writes..pls do read what u write before submit, you makes absolute no sense!!

Mynd_44: A woman is held against her wish in her own matrimonial home and you call that a "simple family issue"? I guess OP is also of the view that if a woman is subjected to psychological and physical assault, she should stay in the marriage as it is a simple family issue

Are you surprised? By their comments we shall know them nah.

davuvid: yeah, he forgot

I don't think he forgot. He is just a mischief maker high on weeds.

fkaz:

May be The op family are one of those who like to subject their women to maltreatment. most of their women who eventually become widow, suffer more hell than this, It could be their culture.

You are absolutely right.

Toaskarity:

I'm sorry to interrupt, so sad I'm reading the garbage you writes..pls do read what u write before submit, you makes absolute no sense!!

I think you shud just ignore this guy, don't you think he is high on weeds this morning?

naija2dabone:

Every family have issues, marriage is all about conflict resolution.

Who knows, worst things could be happening in the holier than thou Falana's marriage

u these people....whatever logic did to u to abandon u in such a sorry state is legendary!

If u are not a masochist by default, a woman as rich and comfortable as her wanted out of a marriage! Isn't that enuff to tell u she can't bear the agonies no more?

So, until she turned stoical and ingratiate, u won't be happy?

And i knw all u wanted is free food wen she finally dies and the govnr bragging abt immunity throws an elaborate funeral!!

Am against broken homes. The ripple effect on the society is better imagined.

No marriage is perfect. All Falana needed to do as a father and an elder is to fine a way to amicably resolve the contending issues and not to scandalize the whole thing. By over dramatizing the whole stuff, he has deprived a 4 year old of the much need paren care of both parent.

And for those calling me names..................hope that makes you happy

naija2dabone: Am against broken homes. The ripple effect on the society is better imagined.

No marriage is perfect. All Falana needed to do as a father and an elder is to fine a way to amicably resolve the contending issues and not to scandalize the whole thing. By over dramatizing the whole stuff, he has deprived a 4 year old of the much need paren care of both parent.

And for those calling me names..................hope that makes you happy

Do you know that it is better for a child to live in an environment where everyone is happy even though the parents are separated than for him to continue to see pains and anguish on the face of his parent(s) on a regular basis.

It can make such child angry at society of the parent he suspects of causing this.

It will definitely affect his self esteem

he might lose concentration in everything and become a social recluse

depression is not far from that child

might become suicidal

he might think he is the cause and do something stupid.

All these might lead that child into criminality or drug abuse as a way of easing his/her pains

Mynd_44:
Do you know that it is better for a child to live in an environment where everyone is happy even though the parents are separated than for him to continue to see pains and anguish on the face of his parent(s) on a regular basis.

It can make such child angry at society of the parent he suspects of causing this.

It will definitely affect his self esteem

he might lose concentration in everything and become a social recluse

depression is not far from that child

might become suicidal

he might think he is the cause and do something stupid.

All these might lead that child into criminality or drug abuse as a way of easing his/her pains

All these your assumptions are premised on another assumption that the dispute in the family is irreconcilable. And that is the point which I absolutely disagree with you. Its sad that no one open the channel of resolving the conflict simply because Falana wanted to make political case out of a non political issue.

From account of yesterday, it was obvious that leaving her home wasn't her goal

naija2dabone:

All these your assumptions are premised on another assumption that the dispute in the family is irreconcilable. And that is the point which I absolutely disagree with you. Its sad that no one open the channel of resolving the conflict simply because Falana wanted to make political case out of a non political issue.

From account of yesterday, it was obvious that leaving her home wasn't her goal

You are missing the point. How are you going to reconcile when one of the parties is being held against her wish? Can you reconcile with your kidnappers while they are holding you captive?

How else can reconciliation start if both parties are not given a level playing field.

The hurried press conference sef gave more insight on this issue.

Mynd_44:
You are missing the point. How are you going to reconcile when one of the parties is being held against her wish? Can you reconcile with your kidnappers while they are holding you captive?

How else can reconciliation start if both parties are not given a level playing field.

The hurried press conference sef gave more insight on this issue.

the house must have been one shouting match after another , with the worst kind of insults flowing freely
and children see everything - the boy would have seen the army of girls of no virtue his dad carried around,
he would have heard that his mum was essentially a former call girl made good,
he would have seen relatives more concerned with money than peace of mind
he might even have met his brother/cousin the son of his aunty and his father

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poor kid

what a mess

kettykin: Falana the self appointed watch dog is nigerian biggest hypocrite and a very big fool, sometimes I wonder how people thrive on in hypocrisy, was he not there when obasanjo was busy truncating th tenure of governors, when Chris ngige was abducted by Chris Uba, when a serving minister was held captive by militants now it is a domestic family issue involving a governor and his wife that he is interested in.
Chime should have kept quiet and allowed the fool to step into enugu , his case would have been worse than dino melaye because enugu boys would have taught him how not to be meddlesome

It seems you have forgotten what Yorubas did to you btw 1967 and 1970. Go and ask your elders.

offtopic

Nnamdi Chime and Nneoma Atueyi



his son and this hot babe were married in april

she better hope the apple has fallen faaar from the tree

Most of you thinking you can gain some political score from this are childish! Every family has issues. Most of you typing are even from failed families and broken homes. Family issues are private issues. There is nothing like holding a woman against her wish. If you are a man, you dont wake up in the morning and just allow you wife to walk out. If you do, you are not fit to get married. I dont blame some of you kids who sleep around with multiple girlfriends and come here to comment about a marriage and a family. You are simply ignorant. Falana has only succeeded in destroying a family and if you think the woman is better off, then you know nothing. A divorce is not something a woman wants to experience. Only few women ever get themselves back after a divorce. Most live a sad life ever after. Marriage is something families must find a way to sort out. It is not something for the press to sensationalize. The woman is the bigger loser in all this. This is Africa, not the USA