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I'm Fed Up!! by solomon111(m): 3:19pm On Nov 27, 2013
I'm a chemical engineer,based in PH and i have a serious issue troubling me.
I don't want to sound conceited but the ladies i've dated can't cook and it's giving me serious cause for concern.
I'm a good cook myself,but unfortunately i don't have time as my job is so strenous that it sometimes requires me to shuttle between 3 states and i get home too tired to even take off my clothes, let alone cook.
I had to break up with the last woman in my life due to this same issue.
She asked me to give her N50,000 to stuff my kitchen which i did and that was after bragging to me how good a cook she was.
Unfortunately,i was repeatedly disappointed by the poor meals she prepares and i had to call it quit.
I've dated quite a few other ladies before her,yet they were all the same and a number of them have actually landed me at my company hospital due to runny stomach.
The few times i get to travel to see my mother,i end up taking away much food which has led to her asking me questions about the the women in my life.
Infact,i reduced the frequency of my visits to avoid those questions she asks me.
Nowadays,i come back home from work late and very tired and i just go straight to bed hungry despite having a significantly- stuffed kitchen.
I'm frustrated and i'm thinking of asking my mum to get me a good,educated wife that can cook.
I'm not one to delegate such sensitive matters to parents,but then it seems i've no choice.
I've been advised to get a maid,but the thing is i just don't trust them with my food and i don't want to put myself in compromising situations that may dent my reputation.
I want to know if there're people who have been in the same situation with me and how they solved it.
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by bellong: 3:24pm On Nov 27, 2013
Disregard my initial comment
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by lertee(f): 3:26pm On Nov 27, 2013
How comes you meet the same set of ladies always?
All the girls you have dated do not know how to cook?
One even asked you for 50k to buy food stuffs?
write something Else please.

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Re: I'm Fed Up!! by kingofpool: 4:20pm On Nov 27, 2013
lertee: How comes you meet the same set of ladies always?
All the girls you have dated do not know how to cook?
One even asked you for 50k to buy food stuffs?
write something Else please.
my dear dnt let sentiment blind fold u, there is a thread i read earlier asking if gals shud cook for dia boo or not nd hw guys feel if dia gal cook for dem............dey re si.lly posts some gals wrote dia on hw dey ll not cook for dia guy.......i guess the reason of dat is because dey cant cook........i can bet wit my dic.k dat even u cant cook a reasonable nd healthy food........i knw up to seven married woman in my neigborhood dat cant cook, dia husband's turn to fast food geek........dnt tell me u want the op to marry such a wife because if he did love her b4 marriage definately dey love ll vamoose wen he realise dat.......if u cant give advise gently nd jeje go marstubate ur life out
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by kingofpool: 4:24pm On Nov 27, 2013
lertee: How comes you meet the same set of ladies always?
All the girls you have dated do not know how to cook?
One even asked you for 50k to buy food stuffs?
write something Else please.
Ashawo i knw ur prayer is to get a fool dat ll be takin u to restaurant to eat cos i knw dat u cant cook......and if u cant give advise gently nd jejely go nd marstubate ur life out
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by twogood: 4:31pm On Nov 27, 2013
Mummy's boy undecided
Food is good and important but that's not in the top ten qualities of a wife material.
Ask those whose marriage is still waxing strong after 20 years.
Also ask divorced ladies who are great cooks
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by cherieb2(f): 4:42pm On Nov 27, 2013
One problem with most guys that think they know how τ̅☺ cook, they always find fault and hardly appreciate other people's food. Pls settle for one, and if cooking τ̅☺ your taste is her only fault, squeeze out time out of your busy schedule n teach her how τ̅☺ cook τ̅☺ your taste. Ȋ̝̊̅ guess she will be very willing τ̅☺ learn.
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by 2legit2qwt: 4:47pm On Nov 27, 2013
You're fed up twice?? grin grin
Re: I'm Fed Up!! by lertee(f): 5:33pm On Nov 27, 2013
king of pool: Ashawo i knw ur prayer is to get a fool dat ll be takin u to restaurant to eat cos i knw dat u cant cook......and if u cant give advise gently nd jejely go nd marstubate ur life out
king of pool: my dear dnt let sentiment blind fold u, there is a thread i read earlier asking if gals shud cook for dia boo or not nd hw guys feel if dia gal cook for dem............dey re si.lly posts some gals wrote dia on hw dey ll not cook for dia guy.......i guess the reason of dat is because dey cant cook........i can bet wit my dic.k dat even u cant cook a reasonable nd healthy food........i knw up to seven married woman in my neigborhood dat cant cook, dia husband's turn to fast food geek........dnt tell me u want the op to marry such a wife because if he did love her b4 marriage definately dey love ll vamoose wen he realise dat.......if u cant give advise gently nd jeje go marstubate ur life out
Do you understand english?

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