Have YOU ever been cheated on?

Did you ever discover the reasons why your BF/GF/Spouse cheated on you?
Did you forgive him/her for cheating on you and move on?
If you chose to stay in the relationship/marriage, did the two of you work things out or not?
Did the experience of being cheated on change your opinion of the opposite s-x and/or affect your future relationships?
What lessons did you learn about yourself and the opposite s-x from being cheated on?

Have YOU cheated on someone?

Did you ever discover the reason/s why you cheated on your BF/GF/Spouse?
Did the person you cheated on forgive you and move on?
If the person chose to stay in the relationship/marriage, did the two of you work things out or not?
Did the experience of being a cheater change your opinion of the opposite s-x and/or affect your future relationships?
What lessons did you learn about yourself and the opposite s-x from being a cheater?

Would you like to share your experiences as a Cheatee or Cheater?

Someone going through this or actively cheating may benefit from your experiences and gain some valuable insight into the dynamics of cheating and life after cheating.

Thanks for your contributions, in advance!

I have never cheated on any girl,it wz d ladies that actually cheated on me
The first got pregnant 4 anoda guy while proclaiming heaven and earth 4 me,d second left me 4 an a.b.o.k.I.,chai!!!I felt insulted,she did nt even think of going 4 sumbody beta thn me,nd d third left me bcus of 5k,how I wish she knows how much am worth today,anyway
LIFE GOES ON

[quote
author=edozie04]I have never cheated on any girl,it wz d ladies that
actually cheated on me
The first got pregnant 4 anoda guy while proclaiming heaven and earth 4
me,d second left me 4 an aboki,chai!!!I felt insulted,she did nt even
think of going 4 sumbody beta thn me,nd d third left me bcus of 5k,how I
wish she knows how much am worth today,anyway
LIFE GOES ON [/quote]what a fortunate life you've got.

[quote
author=edozie04]I have never cheated on any girl,it wz d ladies that
actually cheated on me
The first got pregnant 4 anoda guy while proclaiming heaven and earth 4
me,d second left me 4 an aboki,chai!!!I felt insulted,she did nt even
think of going 4 sumbody beta thn me,nd d third left me bcus of 5k,how I
wish she knows how much am worth today,anyway
LIFE GOES ON [/quote]A.B.O.K.I must have promised your Babe 40 truckloads of SOKOTO sugarCANE.

ahnie: A.B.O.K.I must have promised your Babe 40 truckloads of SOKOTO sugarCANE.

Lol,that 1 concern them

ahnie: what a fortunate life you've got.

My life aint fortunate,am blessed,The love of God and the love of my family is sufficient for me

Why does it have to be in a Heartbreak Hotel?
Why not in a Heartbreak Church?

You're inviting a serial cheater like me to meet at a hotel, and you say you trying to help me...
Zboyd you're not to be trusted

The word cheating is used when one is married, for single people like me we don't care because we aint married yet.

3cycle: The word cheating is used when one is married, for single people like me we don't care because we aint married yet.

So why did you tell me you're taken, you don't fear God?

Op roftl






you remind me of Whitney Houstons song "heart break hotel"

crackhaus:
So why did you tell me you're taken, you don't fear God?

Single but not searching

3cycle:
Single but not searching

Until you met me

[quote
author=edozie04]My life aint fortunate,am blessed,The love of God and
the love of my family is sufficient for me [/quote]okay,you ha blessed n
highly favoured.

edozie04: Lol,that 1 concern them

i find it mind disturbing that,even an a.b.o.k.i get liver to snatch your damsel.ab.okis are really stepping up.

i smell Love btw crackhaus and tricycle.happy loving

crackhaus:
Until you met me

3cycle: The word cheating is used when one is married, for single people like me we don't care because we aint married yet.

On the contrary, You should care more when you are single because this is when you can decide to stay with the person. A person who isnt faithful in little wont be faithful in much.
One who cheats while single will cheat more and recklessly when married.
When you still have a choice decide the kind of spouse you want

ahnie: i find it mind disturbing that,even an a.b.o.k.i get liver to snatch your damsel.ab.okis are really stepping up.

lolzz,they are really stepping up,2 me ladies prefer picking stones than diamonds

ahnie: i smell Love btw crackhaus and tricycle.happy loving

Hehehe...are you sure of what you smelling?

hey i just nominated you on nairaland hall of fame.

crackhaus:
Hehehe...are you sure of what you smelling?

yes never bn xo sure.betting a wager on it.

ahnie: hey i just nominated you on nairaland hall of fame.

yes never bn xo sure.betting a wager on it.

You may just loose your bet, unless you enjoy taking risks

Thanks much for the nod, I doubt I should be in this hall of fame though...

SAD

crackhaus:
You may just loose your bet, unless you enjoy taking risks

Thanks much for the nod, I doubt I should be in this hall of fame though...

ahnie: SAD

Sad? You sad?

Oui,but not to worry.

crackhaus:
Sad? You sad?

ahnie: Oui,but not to worry.

Since I'm the cause, I need to worry. What can I do to help?

edozie04: I have never cheated on any girl,it wz d ladies that actually cheated on me
The first got pregnant 4 anoda guy while proclaiming heaven and earth 4 me,d second left me 4 an a.b.o.k.I.,chai!!!I felt insulted,she did nt even think of going 4 sumbody beta thn me,nd d third left me bcus of 5k,how I wish she knows how much am worth today,anyway
LIFE GOES ON

lol.

my Ex left me cos the mum said she shouldn't get married to a teacher then,thank God,am now a proprietor,and a lecturer. Last time I saw her,she was a shadow of herself.

One also left me cos I refused to give her 10k to travel to a friend's wedding,calling me all sorts of names.

I don't care about ladies again,I do what I like.

No matter what you do,a lady that will stay,will stay,and the lady not meant for you will go.

Yomieluv: lol.

my Ex left me cos the mum said she shouldn't get married to a teacher then,thank God,am now a proprietor,and a lecturer. Last time I saw her,she was a shadow of herself.

One also left me cos I refused to give her 10k to travel to a friend's wedding,calling me all sorts of names.

I don't care about ladies again,I do what I like.

No matter what you do,a lady that will stay,will stay,and the lady not meant for you will go.

Yeah,exactly,success commands respect,even I thank God for all the experiences cus it made me stronger although am still looking for my caro sha but God will surely make a way for his people