Efemena_xy:

As wives, we owe it to ourselves to understand our husbands - the man we marry and plan to spend the rest of our lives with. She married him and with three kids let's assume they've been married for over 5 years. More than enough time to know when enough is enough.
If u know me credit me
I repeat, things wouldn't have gone that far if she'd kept schtum. How feasible is it to sustain an argument with a spouse when the other one keeps solidly quiet? Na craze? She brought that beating of her life upon herself.

Just because my man is calm doesn't mean I'll go all out to push all his buttons - to the point of endangering our lives and that of our kids. Credit me with some common sense please.

Chillisauce:

Pulling her out not same as beating her up. I will gently come down, look for rope and masking tape, tie her up like a mentally chanllaged person.

You don't beat up a mentally challenged person na

steph7: How, if I may ask? what about if he had killed her in the process

coogar:

beating well-deserved.
she verbally abused her husband before her kids, it's only fair she got physically battered before her kids too.

now the kids know if they run their mouths disrespectfully, they might get punished for it. verbal/physical abuse are the same thing. next time, she will learn to shut up when her husband tells her to.

Efemena_xy:

No.

@OP said he witnessed the drama between fishy mouthed wife and her hubby.

You must be the woman that got beaten up by the husband. @OP had no way of knowing that fishy mouthed wife is a nlander who'll read her story.

I can understand why you're irked by this.

Efemena_xy:

You just don't get it, do you?

The fact that you admit you'll gently come down says a lot about your personality - that you respect yourself!

Madam big mouth didn't even want to come out of the car. She had to be pulled out, probably cursing and swearing. I can almost picture the scene. Even when out of the car, she must have continued raining insult upon insult upon that man. Nor be craze. Obviously the man couldn't reason with her and just had to slap some sense into her thick skull.



Really?

What if he had had a fatal accident because he took his eyes of the road because of her?

coogar:

beating well-deserved.
she verbally abused her husband before her kids, it's only fair she got physically battered before her kids too.

now the kids know if they run their mouths disrespectfully, they might get punished for it. verbal/physical abuse are the same thing. next time, she will learn to shut up when her husband tells her to.

kulyie: is a lie.violence cannot save lives,infact violence leads to revenge and worse things.if nelson madela the world celebrates today decided to go into violence to get back at the people that jailed him for 27 years,wouldnt lives not have been lost,including innocent ones.me i have not seen where violence saves lives o

kulyie: what so people with animalistic tendencies have not finished in nigeria ( pardon my language,i was shocked and still very shocked)

see the person i was even vouching for o.why do people believe in violence so much.no wonder the boko haram guys will not stop doing their thing,opc guys will not stop doing their thine e.g the people that poured pepper into a woman genitals for stealing ordinary useless pepper,niger delta militants too wont stop wrecking havoc.
Violence left right and centre.everybody just thinks fists solves all things.

The nonsense that man performed can he do it in other civilized and normal society without getting locked up is it not because here in nigeria anything goes.anybody can just take laws into their hands as if we are living in a jungle abi zoo instead of a territorial entity.nawa o

steph7:
Which is why you shouldn't drive while you are angry, when he was getting angry he should have parked at the side of the road, told her to come down or give her the car keys, take the children and go home.

Chillisauce:

It saves lives sometimes o.
Ask America.
Even your Mandela some claimed he was a terrorist. Bombing places. But that's another story.
But for me, this case hasn't gotten to that yet .

Eminado01: Efemena, you need to shut up now!

Chillisauce:
Abeg make your pressure no rise o. For something to continue, they must be enjoying it. Wetin concern me. I don talk my own Sha. Na today u know say Naija na jungle.

kulyie: america is the land of liberty so i dont understand how violence can thrive in a free society where no one is above the law like some people here

Eminado01: Nairalanders need liberation from the African and Religious sentimentalism.

Efemena_xy:

Haven't you got bruises to tend to?

Eminado01:
Seriously? Lol, you kept telling yourself that and now you believed your own wild imagination?

Lol honey, come back to reality will you?

Chillisauce:

Their own form of violence is different. Ask Iraq

kulyie: their own case is different.they are protecting/defending their nation from all forms of aggression and terrorism so they need to curb their excesses but in this case,this is a husband and wife matter,the husband is using violence to subdue the wife instead of acting like a real man.it is only loosers that will hit a woman no matter what :/

Chillisauce: Beating things.
I wonder if the husband would do that to a man stronger than him who is sitting in the car with him.

You will see him begging

Efemena_xy:

Still doesn't change the fact that you've got sores to cover up.

Now go away. I'm done chit-chatting with you.

kulyie: their own case is different.they are protecting/defending their nation from all forms of aggression and terrorism so they need to curb their excesses but in this case,this is a husband and wife matter,the husband is using violence to subdue the wife instead of acting like a real man.it is only loosers that will hit a woman no matter what :/

Chillisauce:

Na the same thing. In this case Iraq is the wife and America is the husband trying to subdue.
Terrorism you say, you never jam politics yet.

Where they are ready to sacrifice some beings just to get access to free oil and gas.