Ify Angela: Truth is U just have to move on with your life shit happens.

redgem:

I want to, but it won't be easy trying to forget him and also what happened... to forget someone you love takes time and sometimes does not even happen...

baralatie:
that is why i said try Jesus!

redgem:

already have Jesus in my life but will get closer maybe, I will be a nun

baralatie: U already av a carnal knowledge of manhood.it disqualifies u from becoming a nun!

baralatie: U already av a carnal knowledge of manhood.it disqualifies u from becoming a nun!

lomaxx:

Hello Christian

baralatie: U already av a carnal knowledge of manhood.it disqualifies u from becoming a nun!

baralatie:

Merry xmas!

redgem:

really?

redgem:

MERRY XMAS to you too

baralatie:
sure!how do u tink u wil survive inside a seminary.imagine u are trying to meditate in the garden and u saw 2 birds making out.u wil now remember the akpako era(wahala don come)ur body start overheat nxt tin u breaking vows!

redgem:

I can always overcome it as far as the holy spirit is with me....If I take the vow, I shall keep to it.

redgem:

sorry to say this but, right now it is hard for me to trust the opposite sex

redgem:

I can always overcome it as far as the holy spirit is with me....If I take the vow, I shall keep to it.

kulyie: yes but not at the expense of my dignity,sanity,principles and standards

Fraternize: Guys and ladies that have been let down by their partners always hold the same opinion you are now holding. Dear, time heals all wounds. For you to feel this way implies that that guy is the one who have lost a rare gem like you. I wouldn't say you shouldn't feel sore, please do, but strategize to move on... Alot of guys are dying to meet a lady like you, believe me. Not all guys are callous ditto the ladies....remember this....he has broken your heart but has proved that he is not worth you....you the winner girl...cheer up please

dagr8: Menh, i landed on dis thread not by intention bt on investigation..lol

@topic...why are some pple just hitting on d "she had sex with him" part, the op is just explaining the extent to which she gave to the relationship. Iam not in support of pre-marital sex, but she had made a mistake and she had to forge ahead.
In answer to your questions...though is not fair judging a case using only one side of the story...i will say:

1. Yes guys also get hurt ...unfortunately d guy you fell for did not love you from the onset. He was after something and he got it...the "break up" sex u talked about is a clear revelation he had been staying for the sake of sex that he had been getting all along.
2. Love is about 100% giving, you are right for you to give...but when it comes to sex..the creator has defined where it should be used i.e in marriage. Like we all know sex is not equal to love...neither is love equal to sex.
You were wrong by being with the wrong person..that all i can say...
In subsequent relationships, define and know what you want and also define your preference with your reason not with your emotion.

3. Yes. You have to love. A Yoruba adage says, " if you choose to close your eyes because you don't wanna see an evil person passing, when a good person is passing you wont see him too"

God created us as relational beings to love and to be loved...and when it comes to marital love, it is God's design for you...you wont because of one guy who broke your heart become a nun...did you have the intention of becoming a nun before you started a relationship with him?

Life is about learning...for every mistake we make we learn from it and what we learnt we apply in subsequent encounters...
now you have learnt something, apply what you have learnt in the next encounter, don't run away from the encounter

Get good friends around U from both genders,thank God you are now on NairaLand, you can find wonderful friends around, enjoy your life especially in God...I assure you will get healed with time....and you will surely fall in love again ...

My dear, move on and move up, a better love and lover await you don't miss it/him....

In conclusion, rely on Jesus..the only one who knows and owns the future....

...Merry Christmas ..

dagr8: Menh, i landed on dis thread not by intention bt on investigation..lol

@topic...why are some pple just hitting on d "she had sex with him" part, the op is just explaining the extent to which she gave to the relationship. Iam not in support of pre-marital sex, but she had made a mistake and she had to forge ahead.
In answer to your questions...though is not fair judging a case using only one side of the story...i will say:

1. Yes guys also get hurt ...unfortunately d guy you fell for did not love you from the onset. He was after something and he got it...the "break up" sex u talked about is a clear revelation he had been staying for the sake of sex that he had been getting all along.
2. Love is about 100% giving, you are right for you to give...but when it comes to sex..the creator has defined where it should be used i.e in marriage. Like we all know sex is not equal to love...neither is love equal to sex.
You were wrong by being with the wrong person..that all i can say...
In subsequent relationships, define and know what you want and also define your preference with your reason not with your emotion.

3. Yes. You have to love. A Yoruba adage says, " if you choose to close your eyes because you don't wanna see an evil person passing, when a good person is passing you wont see him too"

God created us as relational beings to love and to be loved...and when it comes to marital love, it is God's design for you...you wont because of one guy who broke your heart become a nun...did you have the intention of becoming a nun before you started a relationship with him?

Life is about learning...for every mistake we make we learn from it and what we learnt we apply in subsequent encounters...
now you have learnt something, apply what you have learnt in the next encounter, don't run away from the encounter

Get good friends around U from both genders,thank God you are now on NairaLand, you can find wonderful friends around, enjoy your life especially in God...I assure you will get healed with time....and you will surely fall in love again ...

My dear, move on and move up, a better love and lover await you don't miss it/him....

In conclusion, rely on Jesus..the only one who knows and owns the future....

...Merry Christmas ..

Reyginus: Words of wisdom. Oga boss!

dagr8: Menh, i landed on dis thread not by intention bt on investigation..lol

@topic...why are some pple just hitting on d "she had sex with him" part, the op is just explaining the extent to which she gave to the relationship. Iam not in support of pre-marital sex, but she had made a mistake and she had to forge ahead.
In answer to your questions...though is not fair judging a case using only one side of the story...i will say:

1. Yes guys also get hurt ...unfortunately d guy you fell for did not love you from the onset. He was after something and he got it...the "break up" sex u talked about is a clear revelation he had been staying for the sake of sex that he had been getting all along.
2. Love is about 100% giving, you are right for you to give...but when it comes to sex..the creator has defined where it should be used i.e in marriage. Like we all know sex is not equal to love...neither is love equal to sex.
You were wrong by being with the wrong person..that's all i can say...
In subsequent relationships, define and know what you want and also define your preference with your reasoning not with your emotion.

3. Yes. You have to love. A Yoruba adage says, " if you choose to close your eyes because you don't wanna see an evil person passing, when a good person is passing you wont see him too"

God created us as relational beings to love and to be loved...and when it comes to marital love, it is God's design for you...you wont because of one guy who broke your heart become a nun...did you have the intention of becoming a nun before you started a relationship with him?

Life is about learning...for every mistake we make we learn from it and what we learnt we apply in subsequent encounters...
now you have learnt something, apply what you have learnt in the next encounter, don't run away from the encounter

Get good friends around U from both genders,thank God you are now on NairaLand, you can find wonderful friends around, enjoy your life especially in God...I assure you will get healed with time....and you will surely fall in love again ...

My dear, move on and move up, a better love and lover await you don't miss it/him....

In conclusion, rely on Jesus..the only one who knows and owns the future....

...Merry Christmas ..

redgem:

I want to, but it won't be easy trying to forget him and also what happened... to forget someone you love takes time and sometimes does not even happen...

dagr8: A Yoruba adage says,
"if you choose to close your eyes because you
don't wanna see an evil person passing, when a
good person is passing you wont see him too".

mecussey: I dont understand why women want to marry anybody they date. Men only want a date for s*x and if they fall in luv in the process, they will marry you. If they discover that you are less than what they think you are, they will hit ur thing and pick race, that's what I do.

redgem:

and you are happy with what you do?