DankemzI: She's insecure she feels safe in your home don't pursue her. She needs a "happy" family like yours

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Arrange a suitor for her. A good man with good qualities.

Hey! wat are you sayin?! ..A home she's trying to tear apart wit her useless attitude? and u want him to arrange a good man wit good qualities for her abi?.. dat she'll plague wit her bad attitude n insecurity? ..I pray not!

Chomzy19: Find an Apartment for her with or without her consent or notification; one saturday morning pack everything she has inside d booth, throw her inside the car and drive her to her new furnished house... Ofcourse before you do it tell her mum n dad dt is what you intend doing bt go ahead wit it wether they agree wit u or not

hotmolo: Wake her up by 3am nd tel her ... "We need to talk".

kunyeo: As a sequel to my earlier posting,there's a latest development. My father- in- law stormed our house unannounced today and I definitely knew the purpose. He went round and round coming to the conclusion that I allow my sister in law stay with us for some time.I stood my ground and he was about leaving,he gave the parting shot that the lady would stay with us.That was when I lost my cool,letting him know that he can only advise me, but not come and impose his decision on me in my own house.He felt offended that I was arrogant to have boasted that the house belongs to me.He left for his base.I tried apologising to him if I was rude,but frankly there were no ways to assert and express myself.

kunyeo: As a sequel to my earlier posting,there's a latest development. My father- in- law stormed our house unannounced today and I definitely knew the purpose. He went round and round coming to the conclusion that I allow my sister in law stay with us for some time.I stood my ground and he was about leaving,he gave the parting shot that the lady would stay with us.That was when I lost my cool,letting him know that he can only advise me, but not come and impose his decision on me in my own house.He felt offended that I was arrogant to have boasted that the house belongs to me.He left for his base.I tried apologising to him if I was rude,but frankly there were no ways to assert and express myself.

kunyeo:
As a sequel to my earlier posting,there's a latest development. My father- in- law stormed our house unannounced today and I definitely knew the purpose. He went round and round coming to the conclusion that I allow my sister in law stay with us for some time.I stood my ground and he was about leaving,he gave the parting shot that the lady would stay with us.That was when I lost my cool,letting him know that he can only advise me, but not come and impose his decision on me in my own house.He felt offended that I was arrogant to have boasted that the house belongs to me.He left for his base.I tried apologising to him if I was rude,but frankly there were no ways to assert and express myself.

kunyeo:
I frankly need your advice. There is my sister in law(junior sister) to my wife that has been living with us for 5 years now.She has reached a marriageable age of 36 and she doesn't seem interested in marriage. Apart from this ,she doesn't respect her sister,always at loggerheads with her up to the point of exchanging bitter words. I normally tried not to interfere but being a person who does' nt like b much noise round me,it wasn't easy . This December,she travelled to their place and I asked the sister to tell her not to come back that she would not be staying with us again.She thought I wasn't serious because she had begged me many times in the past that she would change all to no avail.

My challenge now is.She came back right and I told her point blank that she won't stay with us . She begged as usual,but I remained resolute. She has refused to leave my house claim ing she doesn't have where to go.I have even asked her to to get her own place that I would pay,but she just wants to stay with us ,please how how can I make her to leave.

mutter:
Just marry her. They have literally given her to you!
How could you let her pack in at the age of 31.

Just tell your wife you plan to marry her to make itt official and you will see how fast that sister-in-law is gone

moreeni:
I know for certain you guys are not Yorubas. We get shame for body no be small! In-law ejecting me ke

To the issue, get an estate agent to work with her and give some of your time to search for an apartment for her. Then, pay and help her move out.No one will accuse you of rendering her destitute. Viola...problem solved!

kunyeo:
As a sequel to my earlier posting,there's a latest development. My father- in- law stormed our house unannounced today and I definitely knew the purpose. He went round and round coming to the conclusion that I allow my sister in law stay with us for some time.I stood my ground and he was about leaving,he gave the parting shot that the lady would stay with us.That was when I lost my cool,letting him know that he can only advise me, but not come and impose his decision on me in my own house.He felt offended that I was arrogant to have boasted that the house belongs to me.He left for his base.I tried apologising to him if I was rude,but frankly there were no ways to assert and express myself.

moreeni:
I know for certain you guys are not Yorubas. We get shame for body no be small! In-law ejecting me ke

To the issue, get an estate agent to work with her and give some of your time to search for an apartment for her. Then, pay and help her move out.No one will accuse you of rendering her destitute. Viola...problem solved!

cococandy:
He doesn't owe her rent. Which yeye entitlement mentality be that one?
At 36? Gosh
Even if she's 20 Is he her father?
His fault was letting her stay 5yrs with that attitude in his house .
Too much kindness sometimes makes o e look like a fool

moreeni:


Coco, let this guy find a replacement and get her out of his house/life. Its the most amiable form of eject I could think of as sis in-law is as shameless as they come. Imagine her refusing to leave when asked to like it's her father's house. Second yr is what he won't pay for.

cococandy:
my annoyance is that he even offered to pay and she refused insisting on living in their house.
What Insolence
I would have agreed with you except that father in law came to the house to enforce the daughter's staying too. For that reason alone, he shouldn't pay again if he was serious about paying.

That kind of rent you will pay and nobody will tell you thank you. Then the second year that he doesn't pay he will become the evil son in law with not appreciation for the ones he already did in the past.

It is like fetching water with a basket