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Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by rosebase(f): 7:30am On Jan 17, 2015 |
d lady needs help |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by kilimanjaro(m): 7:37am On Jan 17, 2015 |
What nonsense! This is one of the disadvantages of being too soft. Some men would have thrown that lady out in the middle of the night for being a threat to his family. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by 5minsmadness: 9:33am On Jan 17, 2015 |
kunyeo:Dafuq? My own house I paid for with my money? In fact. Op you are nice. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by LewsTherin: 11:55am On Jan 17, 2015 |
Hang on. I am yet to see what the wife's reaction to all this is. Sister-in-law is shameless. Father-in-law needs to be slapped. But no reaction from wifey who bears the brunt of the SIL's bitchyness? Please! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by damiso(f): 12:03pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Oga I know it's kinda a face off now but your wife has to be the one who calls her family to order.Its not too wise of her to allow you be the one who has to face her family she is meant to be the mediator because as I always says no matter how we sugar coat she is their daughter.She is the one that grew up and spent the larger part of her early years with them.Even if they take offence with her it will be a bit more bearable than it coming from you. Hand it over to your wife she is the one who needs to grow some spine and set her family straight(believe me I know what I am talking about and this is coming from someone whose parents word was law for most of her life) 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by pickabeau1: 2:14pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
Dont Back Down 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by otokx(m): 2:36pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
This our extended family model in Nigeria needs rejigging. Does the lady not go to work? Those saying buy 1 get 1 free have a strong point. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by soulglo: 5:29pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
otokx: Imagine!!! Responsible for a 36 year old woman. This has to be the joke of 2015. Even if he does get her a little studio he should only pay for like 6 months or so. She needs to take some responsibility for herself |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by 5minsmadness: 5:46pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
otokx:The op is a nice person, that's all. Father in law come to MY house to give ME orders? under MY roof?? Hahaha. And his wife was quiet? Hahaha. I laugh well well. |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by EfemenaXY: 7:02pm On Jan 17, 2015 |
kunyeo: This comment was posted over a year ago. Kunyeo, what's happened since then? Does your sister-in-law still live with you lot? |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by Bigsteveg(m): 1:30pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
mutter: U just solved the issue. @op do the bolded |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by cococandy(f): 4:10pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
mutter: |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by nnamdiosu(m): 8:58am On Jan 19, 2015 |
DankemzI: oga pls take time o. I am almost forced to ask ur age. (no offense pls) is op a match maker? or did he tell u that he doesn't have work to do other than looking for husband for a manner less and disrespectful woman. For Gods sake she is 36 years old with no future ambition. and since you are so concerned abt how her let op hook two of u together so u can marry her na. if op doesn't remove her she would remain in that houses till rapture or possibly cause problems BTW him and his wife. let her leave and go outside and face life. and see if her altitude wont change and she would be well mannered. op be wise. |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by saintneo(m): 10:46am On Jan 19, 2015 |
mutter: Wisdom 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by Opiosko: 4:45am On Jan 20, 2015 |
mutter: |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by maclatunji: 8:19am On Jan 20, 2015 |
DankemzI: Abi. |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by Thinkr(m): 4:40pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
This is what you should have done one month after she first reached your house. I dislike dull men who can't forecast situation am smarter than this... Call the police |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by SapphireGlows: 4:47pm On Jan 20, 2015 |
You sure there is nothing fishy going on in their family? Why would it be okay for the father to be upset that you wanted the daughter that you didn't marry stay in your walls for half a decade? Could it just be sisterly affection your wife has for her sister? Generally, it is strange she has become too comfortable under your roof. If you perceive no ulterior motive, then you encourage her by taking your stance and insisting she doesn't stay but assist her with shelter. It might be hard initially but she'll thank you later. Yours truly. |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by kunyeo(m): 5:44pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
About a year after,I would say the problem has been resolved.Let me correct some misconceptions.I am Yoruba and so are my in-laws.This is no Nollywood story as someone erroneously said on this forum.That is annoying! Finally,I was able to rent a place for her to stay and after a week of feet -dragging.she finally moved to her new place.I even helped with the packing.Seeing some urgent needs for some renovation I was forced to even help,but strangely to the chagrin of my wife(women are strange). A year after,my in-law is now on good terms with us.She now comes on some weekends to spend some time with us. WHAT ARE THE LESSONS OF THIS EXPERIENCE? 1.When you make a stand,stick to it 2.You appreciate yourselves more ,when you are apart. 3.Dont allow anybody to dictate to you, how to run your home. THANKS. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by cococandy(f): 5:46pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Good for you |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
kunyeo: Very very true, I think over a certain age we should not live with others. My sister inlaw that used to live with me used to drive me up the wall. Now she has moved we get on like a house on fire. Even my sister sef I don't want to live with. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by urchbarbie(f): 11:22pm On Mar 04, 2015 |
Lolx! Mehn u just took me back to lawskl kai! Dis was na Tenancy @sufferance abi na Tenancy by being inlaws. Lolx again indigene: |
Re: How Do I Send My Sister In Law Packing? by shitshappen(m): 11:17am On Mar 05, 2015 |
That awkward moment when u marry one, and they give you one as Jara. What more can I say bro? She is the bonus package. |
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