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Poll: Should women be allowed to head churches and mosques?

Yes: 48% (15 votes)
No: 51% (16 votes)
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Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by mlksbaby(f): 11:17am On Jul 03, 2006
Issues are interpreted variously by people who see things differently. There have been concerns as to which could possibly be the right interpretation of a text in various religions. Focusing on just Islam and Christianity at the present, what views would readers offer to the question:

Should Women Be Ordained As Heads/Clerics in Churches and Mosques?

The Bible seems to reserve a not-so-public role for women in ecclesiastical matters, according to such texts as 1 Cor. 14:34 ('Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law') and 1 Tim. 2:12 - ('But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.') However, some are persuaded that whatever the texts may imply, women can still be ordained into the Christian ministry with the same roles and functions as the men. This has become a matter of concern in some large Christian churches, as is the case with the present deadlocks in both the Anglican Church and Roman Catholic impassé (an example here from a BBC report).

On the other hand, for women to assume any leading roles in public life seems to generate an equally heated concern among the Muslim community. Some have expressed the view that women are not to share the same roles as the men in public life, and particularly in religious activities - to the extent that in some Muslim quarters, women are not welcome to attend Mosques as do the men. Consequently, one could understand how very controversial was a recent event in the US in which a woman led a mixed-gender Islamic prayer service early last year (click here for a preview).

What do readers think about this issue - should women be ordained as clerics in churches and mosques on the same pedestal as the men?
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Seun(m): 11:30am On Jul 03, 2006
Yes, of course. Anything that increases competition in this business will tend to favor the customers. wink
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by mlksbaby(f): 11:33am On Jul 03, 2006
Lol, Seun. I hear you. How body? cheesy
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by mrmayor(m): 11:37am On Jul 03, 2006
Seun:

Yes, of course. Anything that increases competition in this business will tend to favor the customers. wink

Seun,I agree with you,there is a need to offer different flavours to the congregation but the women have to be fine

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Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by michy(f): 11:40am On Jul 03, 2006
i dont think they should be ordained.When Jesus was choosing his disciples,he didnt choose any woman.women were around but i think he had a reason.this question is somehow.but to be on a safer side,i think they should not be ordained
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Seun(m): 11:50am On Jul 03, 2006
Once upon a time, pastors believed they were messengers of God and their only duty was to deliver commands to their church-members. But as competition increased, pastors decided to add entertainment to the package. This benefits the members because church services are now more interesting. You get more value for your tithes!

If women are allowed to become pastors and Imams, they are likely to bring a new dimension to the practice. Maybe compassion. That compassion will tend to draw people from the churches with male leaders to the churches with female leaders. In order to retain more members, the male pastors will be forced to inculcate that element of compassion in their own ministries. This will benefit the church members: they'll get more value for their tithes.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by lunafish(f): 11:51am On Jul 03, 2006
If you read the bible very well, you will know that Jesus first revealed himself to a WOMAN. According to Luke; Three women.

Mary Magdalene, Mary Mother of Jesus and Mary Mother of James.

There was not Henry at the tomb.

Hell yeah-women should be ordained. Like men are doing such a great job,
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by jagunlabi(m): 11:56am On Jul 03, 2006
Rubbish!Women were very much a part of Jesus ministry.Without them,there would've been no ministry of Jesus christ.And who was the Apostle of the apostles?Yeah,MARY MAGDALENE!
I do not know about the muslims,but christians should let women be ordained.
michy:

i don't think they should be ordained.When Jesus was choosing his disciples,he didnt choose any woman.women were around but i think he had a reason.this question is somehow.but to be on a safer side,i think they should not be ordained
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by muntakamo(m): 12:45pm On Jul 03, 2006
women should not headed such kind of leadership at all and when such happens we are all dead in terms of everythings,because they created from our left ribs part of our body.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by TV01(m): 1:00pm On Jul 03, 2006
Please see my post in "The Value Of Women In Islam And Christianity" for the essence of my response to this question.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by zarah(f): 1:21pm On Jul 03, 2006
I think there are female pastors all over now, like pastor Bimbo or is that different, isn't dat ordained? correct me if am wrong.

Well i am sure it is allowed in christianity, but in islam NO it hasn't happened, and it will NEVER happen. a woman cannot lead a congregation in prayer, thus cannot be an imam.

You know muslim women are still very local and submissive, so would rather be un-heard.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by saintchux(m): 1:30pm On Jul 03, 2006
Whether a woman should be ordained priest or imam is just being discussed because the church and mosque has failed in their duty of giving the word of God. We are in a period of church or mosque business. That is why seun is talking about competition. Competiton in giving God's word and instruction to his people? Competion  for what?
Compassion for people that are living in sin, so that they will perish, lucifer will love this.

In the days of Jeremaiah, Isaiah, Deborah, Esther and Amos, etc. they were chosen by God to deliver his word and Instructions to his people, there was no competition. They were not ordained by man. When God choose them, God gave them the instrument to work for Him. If God choose a man or a woman to deliver his word, the person will do it and people around will know that. There are woman chosen by God; Esther, Deborah, Ruth, etc. They performed their duty crditably.  They were not made leader of the people or Priest in the synagogue just because they are called by God.

If a woman is called by God let her do her duty, God made man the head of the family. A woman can exist without actually being the head of a church or mosque and without being ordained.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by ajia23(m): 2:33pm On Jul 03, 2006
Mlks_baby

Islam recognizes women as equal to man in piety, good deeds, and being a person. But Islam also acknowledges the differences in physiology, psychology, and anatomy as well as role, of women and men in society. So, while it is not compulsory for a woman to cook for her husband, feed the children, take care of the house in Islam, they are encouraged to do so to seek the pleasure of God, and their husbands. The husbands are also encouraged to pay them for those services. But Islam clearly stipulates that a woman CANNOT be the political leader of a society, and warns of the severity of the consequences of this happening.

Therefore, a woman cannot be an Imam since she can't be a political leader, and the Imam is both the political and religious leader of a community. I can't speak for christianity, but as regards the Islamic position, I will encourage my wife to get to the top of her career if she is in the education line, health or business, but I will never allow her into politics.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by mlksbaby(f): 6:01pm On Jul 03, 2006
I've enjoyed the inputs so far and hope that others would give their views as well.

The Islamic perception in this regard is appreciated based on the tenet of that faith. It may be that women are found in so many areas of public life and leadership, even Muslim women making more push for political leadership today; but it may help to elucidate more on the reasons as to why in Islam they CANNOT be political leaders - delineating the consequences otherwise for this.

Since it is an open Forum, I should well consider and appreciate the views of our non-religious bloggers as well. Seun has a very observant point in the "compassion" that women are often associated with; and that's something for our religious leaders to consider. The "entertainment" aspect of it all seems to me a bit facetious, but there again, your say.

There's substance as well in raising the point that all twelve disciples chosen by Jesus Christ were men; although it's clear in reading the Bible that He very well respected and upheld the place and value of women in society and the home. Given that, I also wonder that men were specifically chosen as His apostles in His earthly ministry, and that trend seemed to have been carried over as a matter of course into the Church. It's also significant that women carried the news of His resurrection to the rest of the disciples. Anyone has anything to remark here? (TV01, thanks for your views in the sister thread to this topic - I deliberately separated them as I'd like to see views on how women are valued in both religions as distinct from this one on the question of female ordination specifically).

On the whole, it would seem that there's a more concerted puch for the ordination of female clerics in churches and mosques in contemporary times. Perhaps we should ask a pertinent question in this regard:

Should it matter at all what the Scriptures (Qur'an and Bible) say about this issue, or the agenda should be carried regardless
of what the holy writs stipulate?

Keep it coming guys.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by gigitte(f): 7:34pm On Jul 03, 2006
i wil as usual speak from a catholic point of view

who ever mentioned that without mary magdalene the ministry of jesus would have been incomplete is completely right but i disagree that it means that women should be ordained. after all, mary magda was not a disciple of christ even though he could have very well chosen her. i think the whole ordination question is like when u tell some naija parents you want to be a nurse and they tell you to be a doctor. y'all feel me that doctors arent really superior to nurses, they may work closely but their work is different and they need each other to make the health care system work, its a symbiotic relationship. i think it is the same way with men and women in the church, men being ordained into the roles of priests and being allowed to say mass and confer sacraments etc etc may have the more 'glamorous' roles, after all they are the ppl we see at mass, as cardinals and as pope but does it mean that women who take holy orders are less important, i think not, their work is just different. but a lot of ppl dont see that they just see as marginalization or patriarchy but they way me i see just like in a marriage, a husband may be the head of the house, but his house will be not be the same without his wife who may not be head but is just as important, and a singer may always be in the limelight but she needs good producers, etc etc etc, are those ppl less important than the singer? i dont think so

and in cases where there is a shortage of priests, nuns can run the parish and just have another priest come say mass.

in summary, men and women for the most part are called to different roles in the church, both of which are equally important
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by ajia23(m): 9:17pm On Jul 03, 2006
Well said gigitte, different roles! That's right.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by 4getme1(m): 12:58pm On Jul 04, 2006
Haba!! How can a woman HEAD a Church? It doesn't matter that there are a few female pastors in Church history, especially in contemporary times. But wait - that would be like re-writing and re-arranging the explicit tenet of the Christian faith. I believe the Bible is clear on the matter: the Lord Jesus Christ did not commit the leadership of the Church to a woman, but rather to the Holy Spirit; and by the Spirit the Lord chose men to be responsible for that position, so that it was to Peter that He gave the keys of the Kingdom. The apostles followed that trend, so that without denegrading the beauty and role of women, Paul re-iterates this matter twice: first in 1 Cor. 14:34 and 1 Tim. 2:12.

As for women ordained to the positions of Imam to HEAD services in Mosques, I don't know what the Qur'an (and even the hadith) says on that matter. It's true that there are contemporary moves towards this trend by many women in various quarters, but our Muslim friends need to help us clarify this matter from their holy books. Methinks, however, that even though she was a professor of Islamic studies at Virginia Commonwealth University in USA, Amina Wadud's leading prayers in the Mosque would be unheard of in Saudi Arabia!

On the whole, women are to be respected for their honourable roles in life and society - afterall, most men contributing to this thread are sandwiched between two women in their lives: their mothers and their wifes (or girlfriends, sweeties, heartthrobs, 'BMWs', 'kill-me-softlies').  grin
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Drusilla(f): 4:18pm On Jul 04, 2006
No women should not be ordained to head churches.

But that is just my personal preference.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by TV01(m): 5:04pm On Jul 04, 2006
Hi Drusilla,

Drusilla:

No women should not be ordained to head churches.

But that is just my personal preference.

Following on from your quote above, may I ask why?

God bless
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by shawna(f): 9:07pm On Jul 04, 2006
i don't see anything wrong with women being ordained as head of a church or a mosque i think will be a very good thing if women started being ordain as head of a church or mosque it will be another step to making status of women in our society and world in general stronger grin
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by ajia23(m): 11:12pm On Jul 04, 2006
If horses were wishes, or is it if wishes were horses, then shawna will ride.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Reverend(m): 11:15pm On Jul 04, 2006
Women surely can not make a worse job of it.

At least we will be able to cut down on the amount of sexual abuse of children by the church!

As long as they do not start nagging the congregation or treating people badly during their periods, I am all for it grin

(They will of course have to cover their heads, burn their trousers and buy a Micheal Jackson album first)
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by ajia23(m): 11:25pm On Jul 04, 2006
Dear reverend,

Can you possibly create a graffitti of a woman leading the congregational prayer in Islam and she's got this big butt and all the guys are staring at that instead of keeping their minds on worship? Or maybe a woman leading the church and all the elders scrambling to have her as a bed mate? These are some of the situations that are surely recipes for disaster if women are allowed to foray into this aspect of life.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Reverend(m): 11:35pm On Jul 04, 2006
@ Alija23

I am working on the Islamic big butt picture grin grin grin

Here is my idea for women in the Christian church!

Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by damygurl(f): 11:47pm On Jul 04, 2006
we got lots of female ordained ministers infact they even got there own church and they are doing a very wonderful job so it doesn't really matter anymore.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by 4getme1(m): 6:42am On Jul 05, 2006
Question:

mlks_baby:

Should it matter at all what the Scriptures (Qur'an and Bible) say about this issue, or the agenda should be carried
regardless of what the holy writs stipulate?

Opinion:

damygurl:

we got lots of female ordained ministers infact they even got there own church and they are doing a very wonderful job so it doesn't really matter anymore.

I hear this a lot - and it seems to me a lot of believers are saying it doesn't matter what the Scriptures say.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by damygurl(f): 9:42am On Jul 05, 2006
aight where exactly in the scripture did it say women should not lead/ head the church?
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by 4getme1(m): 10:16am On Jul 05, 2006
Lol, damygurl. . . you're asking doctored questions that won't provide the exact answers you pray for. It is like asking "aight, where exactly in the scripture did Jesus Christ say He is not God?" and several other questions formulated that way. I know this is not about the deity of Jesus, but just to point out that your question really ignores what the Scriptures in fact say:

"I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet." - 1 Tim. 2:12.

"The women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission,
as the Law also says." - 1 Cor. 14:34.

Most people who advocate the ordination of women as HEAD of churches rarely address these texts, and some who do just treat them in a liberal manner like whatever God says that don't square with what they want to do, just doesn't matter anymore. This is not about you, damygurl; but I often hear that quip a lot: "it really doesn't matter anymore." We might as well ask doctored questions about other issues: "where exactly in scripture does it say we should not smoke cigars? where exactly in scripture does it say we should not wear miniskirts? where exactly in scripture does it say we should not do this or that or the other?" Some of these questions are legitimate in their contexts, but the point is that most people who just want to do their thing are not paying close attention to what exactly in fact the Scripture says about a subject; and that's why they come to the conclusion that this, and that, and the other doesn't matter anymore. Again, it's not about you: it's more about the general feelings expressed by most people these days about what God says.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Reverend(m): 10:26am On Jul 05, 2006
"I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet." - 1 Tim. 2:12.

"The women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission,
as the Law also says." - 1 Cor. 14:34.

The more I read these excerpts from the Bible, the more I believe that the Bible is the work of manipulative humans and in no way represents the word of God!
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Drusilla(f): 10:31am On Jul 05, 2006
Rev,

The bible is God's. The manipulation is man's.

The bible also says: Sell what you have and give to the poor.

Your not going to see any of these Mercedes driving preachers, preaching that scripture.

No, the only scriptures they find that are written in stone?

One's against women and ones saying give them cash.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by retro(f): 10:35am On Jul 05, 2006
Reverend:



Oh my God, she's HOT. I definately want her to be my pastor.
Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by Drusilla(f): 10:42am On Jul 05, 2006
tv01,

It's just my personal comfort level with the idea of some other woman over my husband spiritually.

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