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Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 12:46pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
There is an argument, between a couple in my compound. The wife is fond of beating her children mercilessly, but the hubby will only intervene, when the beating is getting out of hand. The wife said she gave birth to the children and carried them in her womb for nine months. Breast feed and nurtured them till age. So she is the owner of the children. The hubby said he is the head of the family, the children belongs to him, the children are bearing his surname. Please Lander who is the owner of the children, the woman or the man? |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by JustGood(m): 12:50pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
Tell the woman to beat the children to death first, then they can decide who owns the children. my wife does not touch my children but I remember dealing with my first son a few times and she never told me it was wrong |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by MrCrackles(m): 12:58pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
Na everytime couples for your compound dey quarrel! werin dey naw? Abi na barracks you dey live?! |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kolaoloye(m): 12:59pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
@ topic, Anyone that lives longer (father or mother) As a matter of fact it depends on locality and culture. In some part of the world the children belong to their mother but in this our part, the father owns the children. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by tope2000(f): 1:00pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
Brash!: hehhehehehe but seriously children are not just cars u own, parent bring children up together |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by MissyB1(m): 1:35pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
Children belongs to both the man and the woman. I support using the rod but when it's becomes persistent it's not proper. There's no need fighting over ownership of the children. One of 'em(I suggest the woman) should calm down and listen to the other. B.T.W I thought it was fathers who beats kids and the mum is alwaz the one to plead. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 2:26pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
Brash get serious. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by MrCrackles(m): 4:02pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
kemisuga: u know i never get any more serious especially when i have to deal with you! |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by bawomolo(m): 4:22pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
if the child is smart, na me get am. if the child is dumb, na mama get am |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by MissyB1(m): 5:48pm On Sep 10, 2008 |
bawomolo:Lmao |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by Morenike3(f): 1:28am On Sep 11, 2008 |
This thread is ridiculous. An egg cannot be fertilized without sperm. Anywayz sha, any parent that does not know how to raise a child right without the expense of beating the child mercilessly, then he/she should not be claiming her as his/her property. Let's say the child is God's own eh. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by Queenisha: 1:32am On Sep 11, 2008 |
The man owns the kids I own the man so ultimately na me own everything |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 8:59am On Sep 11, 2008 |
Queen, guess u are right |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by memento: 9:42am On Sep 11, 2008 |
@ Queenisha The man owns the kidsu wish. What is the surname/family name of the child?? thats a pointer to who owns the child |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 9:47am On Sep 11, 2008 |
Does bearing name really matters. A child can even give himself/herself name. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by memento: 9:50am On Sep 11, 2008 |
obviously, ur linage, family, city and even country of origin all reflects in ur name. If u gv ur self a name that simply buries the origin but it will be dug out whenver the name reappers. Any way ppl hardly change the surname except for some cynic reasons, |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by Nobody: 10:03am On Sep 11, 2008 |
Both. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by timbabng(m): 10:59am On Sep 11, 2008 |
legally, i think the child belongs to the mother until she's six years old, then the father takes over |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by blackchief(m): 11:17am On Sep 11, 2008 |
MY PEOPLE READ BETWEEN THE LINE AND ANS. THE QUESTION 1.who paid the health bill, school frees, house rent, food, cloth of the kid 2. who propose (between man & woman) 3. who those the kid bear the name 4. who paid for who (man or woman) 5.if the kid dies who village is the child taken to (between man & woman) |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by carmelily: 11:39am On Sep 11, 2008 |
when i saw the topic on home page i thought it was unbearably silly. and now i'm amazed at the replies so far. Only Siena has said what i wrongly assumed was obvious enough. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by bludutch: 12:04pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
NA GOD!!!!! God giveth and he taketh.PERIOD!! |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 12:05pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
carmelily, siena might be right. But one of the two has more preference than the other. blackchief, so who is the answer of your questions? |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by dove24u(m): 12:06pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
Good one belongs to the father,while the wayward one belongs to |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
The Father! |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by carmelily: 12:24pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
kemisuga: @kemisuga then there's a problem with the phrasing of the topic o. "preference" vs. "owning". |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 12:41pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
the one that has more preference is the owner of the child. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by carmelily: 12:44pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
what is more preference? what do you mean? |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by ud4u: 12:54pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
Both parents own the children, so up bringing should be a collective responsibility. |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by stanloski(m): 1:04pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
I pity the children, they are being brought up by idiots! That question is as foolish as can be. Its like asking which leg would you rather have, left leg or right. Its a spurious and useless issue. Please lets bring up a more interesting topic jare! |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by kemisuga(f): 1:29pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
stan am sorry for you |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by chamotex(m): 1:32pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
who put AKAMU inside? |
Re: Who Owns A Child? Father Or Mother? by carmelily: 1:37pm On Sep 11, 2008 |
stanloski: my thoughts exactly. chamotex: na inside AIR the person put the AKAMU? |
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