It's better and safer for the lady to stay away, because there's no way they will not fight.

The in-laws will be watching her every move and when they notice their son's sent her money without sending any to them? T-R-O-U-B-L-E!!

She can't even afford to dress well and look good - they'll start feeding their son with lies and ideas.

STAY AWAY!!

jennykadri:

maybe he thinks shes safer there

as long as the inlaws r ok and good,then i see nothing wrong wt that,afterall its for a little while

jennykadri:

like i said it depends on d inlaws,and if its for a little while,then fine

jay bee:

Where is she staying @ the moment?
She might as well stay put @ her current location until the whole thing goes through.
Staying with in-laws before marriage is a recipe for disaster

jay bee:

Where is she staying @ the moment?
She might as well stay put @ her current location until the whole thing goes through.
Staying with in-laws before marriage is a recipe for disaster

SeXYhOTmOM:

as for me am strongly against d idea
because d eye service go too much
any little tin u do na their pickin them go first call


besides this, her fiancee's sisters are still in d house
and d 1st girl is a bit on the troublesome side
aw do u expect me to advice my poor friend to stay in that house after marriage
don't u think early frustration in marriage could because a lot of damage in future?

SeXYhOTmOM:

as for me am strongly against d idea
because d eye service go too much
any little tin u do na their pickin them go first call


besides this, her fiancee's sisters are still in d house
and d 1st girl is a bit on the troublesome side
aw do u expect me to advice my poor friend to stay in that house after marriage
don't u think early frustration in marriage could because a lot of damage in future?

jay bee:

Less risky after the marriage as long as d period ain't more than 4 or so weeks.

What's the current relationship with her in-laws like @ the moment?

SeXYhOTmOM:

my dear it would hvae been a different tin if dey were sure of d time frame
but d estimated time frame is 6months
jeez that 1 na die o!!!!!


infact shes here with me now
make she read all ur contributions

SeXYhOTmOM:

as for me am strongly against d idea
because d eye service go too much
any little tin u do na their pickin them go first call


besides this, her fiancee's sisters are still in d house
and d 1st girl is a bit on the troublesome side
aw do u expect me to advice my poor friend to stay in that house after marriage
don't u think early frustration in marriage could because a lot of damage in future?

SeXYhOTmOM:

thank you guys for all ur contributions
when my fiancee came home the last time
i stayed with him at their family house
and everybody was nie to me except mhis sister

when i even spoke with his siblings dey were telling of how
nasty their sister culd be, i even saw examples of d nastiness
dey told me of how she has fought with her elder brodas wives
aw she fights with everbody in d compound ,

am not used to typing much
there are still a lot of tins attached to my indecision

jennykadri:

ruky stop generalizing

tope2000:

thats like a life sentence oooo  
but like jenny said maybe it depends on her relationship with her in-law, Are they nice people?

tope2000:



@jenny
urs are just nice
i hardly hear good things about inlaws

jennykadri:

abeg u people r making it sound as if all inlaws r bad

d fact that u experienced some kind of misunderstanding wt them does not mean it will happen to another person or all inlaws r d same

there r some nice ones abeg,i never stayed wt mine,but if i had to,i know i wouldnt have regretted it

they even report my husband to me smtimes