COLLECTION OF EXPENSIVE BRIDE PRICE. IT CAN LEAD THE GROOM ASTRAY.

#THAT CULTURE KILL PASS

shejane:

What part of Nigeria pls

kogi state

Atmmachine: Many konji among the female folk, i got rape.d by 5 married women.. i couldn't walk for two days.

U wish

Dis false and brain washin traditions are introduced by old lazy thiefs then called chief, nt we hv new generation con men cultures introduced by pastors over takin d ones of old fools, new once now are, pray against any evil net hanging ur prayers on d air, evry evil swallowing ur cold prayers cause thy are nt hot enough 4 d devil reasons being ur nt riteous enough 2 produce hot prayers, etc

Amuga: kogi state

We have it in some part of Akwa Ibom State. It's called "ekpo nka owo"

samflexxy: Am from a community were if a married woman is cauth with another man she would be striped naked in front of the whole community.she will also be banned from going to the market or attending any social gatherings while the man.Do u think its fair?

You should have mentioned the community. That's the only way we can learn.

shejane: I hate the way people look down on divorce women or single mothers

Mostly how a man will throw his wife out without nuffn

I belv if a man is tired of d marriage or his wife, he shd leave d house and go not d woman

And the woman will then, invite another man in ur house...

willorie:

earnestly l like it dat Traditions are fading......l just pray it's fade fast in my own community

Why?
Calling Fulaman198

The only reason I want some tradition to be abolish is that it favour men a lot over women, it make some illiterate men to oppress their wife a lot even some literate men oppress their wife too

babymama3: I dislike that we don't have the tradition of men using their wives to do Kola for visitors as is done in some Benue community
Na to target one berra bobo and ask him to visit often


Hahahahahahaha

hahahahaha madam BM na your own i take o. I sorry for women who marry from the village where it is a taboo for a woman to cheat while is ceremonious for a man to do so. Una pele o

Genital mutilation

xynerise: Eating Ona---A yam-like food, is a taboo.


WTF!! I ate is so many times before I was told.

You must be an Uratta person from Owerri North.

....they know nothing about u and Ur family....
















Then all if a sudden from no where, they come and say u all must see Ur kindred before Ur daughter gets married......













.who give a fvvk about them......





I'm breaking the tradition anyways....


#team no tradition.
#psquared....

I only got to learn of the tradition of a certain village in abia state, the men from that village only marry women from their village but their women can marry from any state but preferably d next village. The village starts with 'I'. Ladies should find out about dis beforehand cos in my own case, u'll regret it when it's too late.


Another tradition is paying bride price to the father of the girl whether he was responsible for her upkeep or not. If a woman struggles to take care of her children singlehandedly, the bride price should be hers or bettter still, pay it to the law court.

xynerise: Eating Ona---A yam-like food, is a taboo.


WTF!! I ate is so many times before I was told.

Which village are you from? Ona isn't found everywhere. I love that food.

Mbediogu:
You must be an Uratta person from Owerri North.

Ehime-Mbano

my community-
wen a woman is packing or moving out of her husbands home or her marriage out of her own volition, and her husbqnd mistakenly helps her pick up an item that fell out from her belongings , it automatically means d husband sent her away even if thats not d case.

so its beta d husband sits and watches his wife strugglng to move her tins than to help . if not na for him head o

Opiosko: Pls can u give some details abt the bolded. I think it's just superstitious scare tactics.

As a married woman in Esan land,you dare not commit adultery. Na you go take your mouth confess your sins.

Amuga: Exactly what i thought until it happen to my cousin. I 've not being to my village for 13yrs now so i thought as a christain, couple with the fact that we were not raise up there it wont have an effect.
Now concerning the bolded, this is how it works. When a married woman commits adultery, it will not have an effect on her immediately till she have sex with her own husband.
The effects are; she immediately become sick and wont get better no matter the medication
given to that individual,
She will also begin to act like someone with a high fever.

But in some other tradition,it is the husband and children that would be affected...like husband falling sick and children too.

hensben: The only reason I want some tradition to be abolish is that it favour men a lot over women, it make some illiterate men to oppress their wife a lot even some literate men oppress their wife too

Yes....some men will sit outside their houses drinking sapele water while their wives fends for the family

Where i come from, when a married women commits adultery it doesn't show immediately but with time, her entire family will be wiped off until she confesses and the necessary sacrifice performed.

There are also some things they do during some festivals that I don't fins funny.

Bride price should be abolished.

Where I come from, we don't kill snakes. Snakes sometimes invade people's houses only for you to get a stick and take them away. But I came to realize that they are all superstitious believe because my cousin that came from the states one used his pump action to kill 1 after I warned him not to kill it, but he persisted and yet nothing happened to him.

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author=AriDsexy]
But in some other tradition,it is the husband and children that would be
affected...like husband falling sick and children too.[/quote] I dont
know about that. But in my area, it's the wife that would be affected,
and that is better.Let the owner of the load carry her stuff.

Amuga: I dont
know about that. But in my area, it's the wife that would be affected,
and that is better.Let the owner of the load carry her stuff.

Very correct

Delete away!
Last Bullet
I v no beefing for deities.
My concern is about my communities way of socializing, celebrating & showing off!
I hate it when MC especially the female ones at engagement ceremonies keep using diff tactics to obtain money from groom's family. You ll see a situation whereby they ll be demanding for housewives money, neighbourhood children's money, elder's money etc.

Apatheist:
Why?
Calling Fulaman198

r u seriously asking me "why"?......it's like u've not come across some uncalled-for, rudeness & insignificant traditions b4

willorie:

r u seriously asking me "why"?......it's like u've not come across some uncalled-for, rudeness & insignificant traditions b4

Not all of them.
Your ancestors survived millennia with them

Apatheist:
Why?
Calling Fulaman198

I'll be here soon my phone is at its last moments

ucheokpara100: Dis false and brain washin traditions are introduced by old lazy thiefs then called chief, nt we hv new generation con men cultures introduced by pastors over takin d ones of old fools, new once now are, pray against any evil net hanging ur prayers on d air, evry evil swallowing ur cold prayers cause thy are nt hot enough 4 d devil reasons being ur nt riteous enough 2 produce hot prayers, etc

Old fools?
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Some people just enjoy backwardness as long as they remain far away from their forefathers.

Apatheist:
Why?
Calling Fulaman198

Some people are like that, I'll expand upon what I'm saying.

There is no best/worst tradition in this world. Every tradition has its good and bad. Why is there no perfect tradition? Human beings are not perfect. Everywhere you travel around the world, you will notice and see vast imperfections.

So to the woman who says that she wishes for all tradition to dissipate from the face of this earth, she says so out of complete Naivete.

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