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12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 9:52am On Jul 24, 2014 |
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court. 2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home -placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom. 3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself. 4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to beat home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him. 5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the 'De Facto' head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home. 6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest. 7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame. 8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks, shape,dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you goto bed smelling of onions and ogiri. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks -we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase. 9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian! 10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers. 11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied. 12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer,sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a"uselessman", is not careless about her looks or dressing,always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and indeed 8 Likes |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by MizMyColi(f): 11:15am On Jul 24, 2014 |
Hehehe Prisca......I will answer this question when I'm married and about 12 months old init Nice writ btw.....sounds harsh though, but still a good and timely one 1 Like |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 12:40pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Hehehe Prisca......I will answer this question when I'm married and about 12 months old initLmao Thanks dear 2 Likes |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by egopersonified(f): 8:12pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Nl marriage classes, well let me do my best ohh, I cant fit kill myself. 1 Like |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by lokito: 8:19pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Wow! I feel so relaxed on this section with a bit of relief. Not like the Romance and Celebrity sections where you'll see posts like: Tonto Dike has Body Odour, click here to see Body Odour.. www.thunderfireallofthemblogs/bodyodour.com Well that's none of my business tho 2 Likes |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by Kanwulia: 8:27pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Okaaaaaaaaaaay! Noted! What next? |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 9:33pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Okaaaaaaaaaaay!Go n marry |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 9:34pm On Jul 24, 2014 |
lokito: Wow! I feel so relaxed on this section with a bit of relief. Not like the Romance and Celebrity sections where you'll see posts like:Hehehhehe Lwkmd no be small body odour,and that ur source na die |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by Kanwulia: 8:28pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
priscaoge: You must be grossly misinformed. I nor dey una Facebook singles club o! 1 Like |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
Kanwulia: |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by maingwaest(f): 10:43am On Jul 26, 2014 |
Nice write up OP so she that has an ear .......... Meanwhile nos. 6 de work for me wella . 1 Like |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 11:05am On Jul 26, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Lmao |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by shizzleStar: 7:02pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Hehehe Prisca......I will answer this question when I'm married and about 12 months old initWhats harsh about it View the post with a liberal mind, eliminate all feministic thoughts and idealism, and you will agree you've just been given a textbook recipe for a successful married life. If you are not a brainwashed feminist, you can implement it in real life with at least 95% success. Happy future! 1 Like |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by shizzleStar: 7:13pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
maingwaest: Nice write up OP so she that has an ear .......... Meanwhile nos. 6 de work for me wella .You are smart, andi believe you are having a happy married life even thou some women interpret smartness as being sturbon and unwittingly difficult 2 Likes |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 8:14pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
maingwaest: Nice write up OP so she that has an ear .......... Meanwhile nos. 6 de work for me wella .Happy married life Dear 1 Like |
Re: 12 Points For Wives To Note!!! by priscaoge(f): 8:15pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
maingwaest: Nice write up OP so she that has an ear .......... Meanwhile nos. 6 de work for me wella .Happy married life Dear! 1 Like |
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