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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 5:55pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
LadyHeaven: Lol. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:13am On Jan 14, 2018 |
[quote author=whillyamz98 post=63949617] My only problem with wooing a lady is fear of rejection. And probably my height yeah rejection aint cool, it makes you cringe whenever you remember the failed attempt. Remember, wat does not kill u willmake u strong, give it a trial till u are use to it, this is my mission this year have started already. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Omoluabi16(m): 6:27pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
[quote author=GlorianaCO post=63973021][/quote] Hi madam introvert. Happy new year to you. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charley94: 8:46am On Jan 16, 2018 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Hopeak: 12:39am On Jan 20, 2018 |
Arsenate:So true..but one has to balance it to survive in a country like Nigeria. Especially relating to people. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Burpee: 8:43pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
I never knew have got people like me, I find it difficult to relate with people have just met. I need to be very familiar with you before I can converse freely plus I enjoy staying indoor. I could be in my apartment for days without my neighbours knowing am around but I job require me to mix with different people. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AvailableCofOLa(m): 5:28am On Jan 22, 2018 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Hopeak: 5:39pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Burpee:True.. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Geofavor(m): 12:41pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
I greet the house. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 2:12pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
Geofavor: You're greeted. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 11:12pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Im introverted....i find it hard talking with people i dnt know...at times wen i go out with my friend i seem to be invisible. I ve already spent 2 yrs in the uni. My relationship with the opposite sex ve suffered..lost people i liked cos of been scared to approach dem. Im workin on my self dis yr, but i still ve a problem overcoming the nervousness when i approach a gal. All help offered will be highly appreciated. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by FIDELITY24(m): 10:53am On Jan 29, 2018 |
Am an introvert and av made great progress in my social life, I can talk to anyone am interested in but whenever someone says am too quite I find it offensive, I don't know if it's something to be angry about. I love being me and I Enjoy every single moment of my day. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 6:21pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
emperordachris: It will be very helpful to read up a few pages, say the last ten, from this thread. Don't worry about the nervousness you feel when you want to approach the opposite sex. Just feel calm and collected and wait for the right opportunity to talk to them. You can in fact create an opportunity if it's not forthcoming. If it's a coursemate, chat her up about a difficult course. If it's a student of another faculty and you're meeting at the cafeteria or something, ask about the day or the weather or the food sold at the cafeteria. The idea is, always talk neutral and do not talk to a lady and express interest straight away. Get to know that lady first. If you've had a great conversation with her and you feel you won't see her again easily, ask for her contact and let her know you enjoyed her company and would like to chat with her sometime later. Be polite and don't be scared of rejection. Life goes on if you get rejected. Note, you'll get panic attacks or have your heartbeat race when you want to try these, but take a couple of deep breath and relax yourself - the nervousness will go away. Just practice and don't try to rush yourself. You'll be fine. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 7:59pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
The heartbeat race nd the panic attack na die...makes me shake at times. Creating an opportunity is sometin i ve been thinking of how to do. For example there is this gal i wanted to talk to today, but she was with her friends all along. This got me discouraged cos im finding it difficult to handle one person talkmore of with her friends. I will read up the previous 10 chats |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Kathyl: 8:54pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
ultron12345: Try belonging to an association in school, could be a fellowship or even your village association and be committed in it, you'll get to meet new friends. the main issue here is leaving your comfort zone, don't get too relaxed just being by yourself. yes, sometimes we need those quiet moments but most times, we need people around. No man is an Island. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 9:04pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
emperordachris: Yeah, I get the shaking. Trust me, if you can overcome that little inertia barrier, you'll sail smoothly. About the lady you wanted to talk to, I'm sure another opportunity will show up and she'll probably be alone or with only one friend. Just be spontaneous and calm when you do get to have the encounter. But just remember to not appear forward or presumptuous. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 11:14pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
DonOms: thanks i will definitely try to talk with someone else tomorrow |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 11:17pm On Jan 29, 2018 |
labrat:welcome aboard |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 11:50am On Jan 31, 2018 |
hey guys got to meet two gals yesterday
couldn't believe I could do it... my friend pushed me to it... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 10:42pm On Jan 31, 2018 |
emperordachris: Well, like I said, "if you can overcome that little inertia barrier, you'll sail smoothly." Just remember to treat everyone you meet with respect and be yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 7:40am On Feb 01, 2018 |
Happy new month fam 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 6:05pm On Feb 01, 2018 |
DonOms:tanks bro...there was this one dat snubbed me. But anyway...it doesnt really matter |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by emperordachris(m): 6:06pm On Feb 01, 2018 |
DonOms: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Melsan: 8:27pm On Feb 01, 2018 |
Rukkydelta:Happy new month |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 8:54pm On Feb 01, 2018 |
May this new month called February, bring out the Best in you All. May the Heavens over you All be opened. happy great February to all my fellow introverts 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 8:54pm On Feb 01, 2018 |
May this new month called February, bring out the Best in you All. May the Heavens over you All be opened. happy great February to all my fellow introverts . 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:24pm On Feb 03, 2018 |
Been long. All the advice wey una dey throw up and down here, e go enter my left ear and exit thru my right. I would be listening attentively o, but when it comes to doing the do, liver go cut ur guy. In case you wanted to ask if i had approached any lady since then, they neva born me well. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:28am On Feb 04, 2018 |
locust: 2 Likes
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Sard(m): 3:14pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
locust: the last part of your post got me laughing really hard. But the fear of approaching a lady doesn't primarily have to do with introversion. It's more of shyness, fear of rejection and possibly low self-esteem. I'll suggest that you you approach ladies you ain't interested in (for dating or even friendship). Even if such person rejects you, it won't be so significant on your self-esteem. Sales girls and others who are obliged to be responsive and courteous are other target persons. Over all, go out more and have fun, even if you just have to sit down while watching people do their things. All the best. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 04, 2018 |
Sard: Hailings from here, bro! |
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