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Is He A Father? by kelitacliff(m): 3:30pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
It was on a sunday afternoon i was just chilling outside after eating,then i heard some people screaming from the next compound,i went in and was about to ask a lady what the problem was,then i saw a grown up man tearing the net of his window and immediately jumped out,then i learnt it was just a little fire caused by his(the man who fled his house) neighbour's child.I begin to wonder why will a man married with three kids, a boy and two girls including a little baby the wife just delivered,fly out of the window like that leaving his family to perish,does it mean he devalues his family.ThIs was amazing the way he tore the net and flied out like jetli,but if this man was suppose to be your father or husband what will you think of him? |
Re: Is He A Father? by AdeniyiA(m): 3:35pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
unlike in Titanic, the first thing that comes to your mind in emergency situations is to save yourself, then others IF possible 1 Like |
Re: Is He A Father? by beeevan: 4:02pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
Coward, a man who cannot give up his life for his family if need be is no father, neither is he a husband. 2 Likes |
Re: Is He A Father? by kelitacliff(m): 4:03pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
AdeniyiA: unlike in Titanic, the first thing that comes to your mind in emergency situations is to save yourself, then others IF possibleu dey mind dat guy,im just fly out i think say na stone |
Re: Is He A Father? by kelitacliff(m): 4:04pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
beeevan: Coward, a man who cannot give up his life for his family if need be is no father, neither is he a husband.d guy no wan die |
Re: Is He A Father? by beeevan: 4:06pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
kelitacliff: d guy no wan die His family will be so disappointed, its really pathetic, man of the house indeed! 8 Likes |
Re: Is He A Father? by AdeniyiA(m): 4:09pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
kelitacliff: u dey mind dat guy,im just fly out i think say na stonewho wan die... |
Re: Is He A Father? by kreamidiva(f): 4:11pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
Re: Is He A Father? by mstik(f): 4:18pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
I guess he loves his life too much Paternal instinct should tell you to save your family first before thinking of yourself. |
Re: Is He A Father? by dominique(f): 4:20pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
I've also heard of a man that jumped out of the house and left his family at the mercy of armed robbers. Thank goodness no one was harmed. Can such men beat their chests and claim head of family after such cowardly acts? 1 Like |
Re: Is He A Father? by kelitacliff(m): 4:24pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
Since then i just disliked the man,even his head is like rhombus |
Re: Is He A Father? by corisande: 4:29pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
selfish! So if it was a big fire, he would've have jumped out to where? go call for help without helping first? If na me marry this one ehn, after the incident I'll learn BIG lesson oh! Himself go learn Something!!!! |
Re: Is He A Father? by CORTANA: 4:42pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
kelitacliff: Since then i just disliked the man,even his head is like rhombusHead like RHOMBUS? Now that got me cracking! 2 Likes |
Re: Is He A Father? by OXCUBA: 4:47pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
dominique: I've also heard of a man that jumped out of the house and left his family at the mercy of armed robbers. Thank goodness no one was harmed. Can such men beat their chests and claim head of family after such cowardly acts?HEY YOUNG LADY.... I AGREED IN THE INCIDENT OF FIRE THE MAN WAS WRONG ..... BUT IN THE CASE OF ARM ROBBERS .... THE MEN ARE NUMBER ONE TARGET .... IF THE MAN DOESN'T HAVE ANY WEAPON .....HIM BETTER RUN FOR HIS LIFE ........ HOW MANY ARM ROBBERS ... WILL COME TO A ROB A HOUSE AND START ASKING THE MAN WHERE IS YOUR WIFE? OR WHERE ARE YOUR CHILDREN? |
Re: Is He A Father? by mstik(f): 4:51pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
That's no excuse at all!! The wife and children are equally in danger as the armed robbers can out of anger kill the wife and children. The man should be able to stand and take a bullet for them. Shebi, he's claiming the head? He should protect those that he's leading OXCUBA: HEY YOUNG LADY.... I AGREED IN THE INCIDENT OF FIRE THE MAN WAS WRONG ..... BUT IN THE CASE OF ARM ROBBERS .... THE MEN ARE NUMBER TARGET .... IF THE MAN DOESN'T HAVE ANY WEAPON .....HIM BETTER RUN FOR HIS LIFE ........ HOW MANY ARM ROBBERS ... WILL COME TO A ROB A HOUSE AND START ASKING THE MAN WHERE IS YOUR WIFE? OR WHERE ARE YOUR CHILDREN? 3 Likes |
Re: Is He A Father? by OmoAlata1(f): 4:54pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
OXCUBA: HEY YOUNG LADY.... I AGREED IN THE INCIDENT OF FIRE THE MAN WAS WRONG ..... BUT IN THE CASE OF ARM ROBBERS .... THE MEN ARE NUMBER TARGET .... IF THE MAN DOESN'T HAVE ANY WEAPON .....HIM BETTER RUN FOR HIS LIFE ........ HOW MANY ARM ROBBERS ... WILL COME TO A ROB A HOUSE AND START ASKING THE MAN WHERE IS YOUR WIFE? OR WHERE ARE YOUR CHILDREN? Some arm robbers love to rapee women too. Only a coward would leave his woman at the mercy of rapi.st 2 Likes |
Re: Is He A Father? by Tallesty1(m): 4:59pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
dominique: I've also heard of a man that jumped out of the house and left his family at the mercy of armed robbers. Thank goodness no one was harmed. Can such men beat their chests and claim head of family after such cowardly acts?You don't compare Robbery with this one ma, Some robbers come to kill the home owner and go, they have no business with the wife and kids so they don't have much to worry about. |
Re: Is He A Father? by dominique(f): 4:59pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
OXCUBA: HEY YOUNG LADY.... I AGREED IN THE INCIDENT OF FIRE THE MAN WAS WRONG ..... BUT IN THE CASE OF ARM ROBBERS .... THE MEN ARE NUMBER TARGET .... IF THE MAN DOESN'T HAVE ANY WEAPON .....HIM BETTER RUN FOR HIS LIFE ........ HOW MANY ARM ROBBERS ... WILL COME TO A ROB A HOUSE AND START ASKING THE MAN WHERE IS YOUR WIFE? OR WHERE ARE YOUR CHILDREN? Oga, some vicious armed robbers are not gender or age spicific when aiming their guns. The duty of a father is to provide for and PROTECT his family. The robbers were breaking into the house and the best he could do was jump out the balcony. How on earth is that cowardly? |
Re: Is He A Father? by Tallesty1(m): 5:03pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
mstik: That's no excuse at all!! The wife and children are equally in danger as the armed robbers can out of anger kill the wife and children. The man should be able to stand and take a bullet for them. Shebi, he's claiming the head? He should protect those that he's leadingKikikikikikikik, Laughing in KUVUKI language, what if their mission was to kill the man? What if it is a set-up by an unknown enemy? No be only take the bullet for his family. |
Re: Is He A Father? by mstik(f): 5:07pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
truth hurts. my point remains only cowards will run away Tallesty1: Kikikikikikikik, Laughing in KUVUKI language, what if their mission was to kill the man? What if it is a set-up by an unknown enemy? No be only take the bullet for his family. |
Re: Is He A Father? by OXCUBA: 5:08pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
mstik: That's no excuse at all!! The wife and children are equally in danger as the armed robbers can out of anger kill the wife and children. The man should be able to stand and take a bullet for them. Shebi, he's claiming the head? He should protect those that he's leadingYES ... THE WIFE AND CHILDREN ARE THE SECONDARY TARGET .... THE MEN ARE ALWAYS THE PRIME OR PRIMARY TARGET ...... DURING WARS .... CHILDREN AND WOMEN .... ARE BEEN CONSIDERED ..... (which robber go meet the husband of the house .... dey ask am where is your wife .... ) IF YOU ARE MARRIED REMEMBER ... TO ADVICE YOUR HOBBY TO ESCAPE .. IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN SUCH AN UGLY SITUATION. |
Re: Is He A Father? by cococandy(f): 5:18pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
He said to me 'I can die for you. I'll put myself in the face of danger and take a bullet before I let anything happen to you' Biko we are all humans and I really don't want a situation to test such a claim to arise. |
Re: Is He A Father? by OXCUBA: 5:26pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
dominique:OK IMAGINE WHEN THE LADY ESCAPE ..... SHE WILL .... THREW HER SELF ON GROUND AND START SHOUTING OR CRYING , OR RUN TO HER PASTORS HOUSE .... TO PRAY AGAINST EVERY SPIRIT OF ARM ROBBERY TO BE CASTED AWAY ...... BUT IF IS THE MAN .... HIM WILL RUN TO THE POLICE .... OR DEVICE A MEANS .. TO APPREHEND THE CRIMINALS. |
Re: Is He A Father? by OXCUBA: 5:32pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
OmoAlata1:SOME ROBBERS ARE HIGHER KILLERS TOO .... ONLY AN IDIOTIC LADY WOULD ADVICE HIS HUSBAND TO STAY.... AND MAKE HER A WIDOW. |
Re: Is He A Father? by bennyrazz: 5:33pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
When he tore the net of the window, he should have allowed His kids to pass through there first then after that he can decide to go after the kids, then his wife can come out. On cases of armed robbers, there are cases whereby when the robbers learn the man of the house absconded, they run away too cuz their thinking is the man has gone for reinforcements. |
Re: Is He A Father? by OmoAlata1(f): 5:53pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
OXCUBA: SOME ROBBERS ARE HIGHER KILLERS TOO .... ONLY AN IDIOTIC LADY WOULD ADVICE HIS HUSBAND TO STAY.... AND MAKE HER A WIDOW. So your advice to men is to allow their wives to get gang rapedd by arm robbers to spear their life? lol. wow and all those men were getting heart attack in the men are not head of household thread. i guess there are circumstances where a man should not be called HOH according to you. 2 Likes |
Re: Is He A Father? by maingwaest(f): 6:07pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
I just de imagine the whole thing and e no even funny @ all. U don't call such a person a man now,how selfish can a person be. Allah ya sauke. |
Re: Is He A Father? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
Your story sounds a lil nollywood-y. you heard screams, right? I believe if he wanted to escape, he should have done so before you got there. So, what wqs he doing when the screaming happened and you walked down there? We're talking reflex action here, bro or is this an attempt at making up a storyline for Nollywood? |
Re: Is He A Father? by Kanwulia: 6:22pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
It is called a fight or flight response. He probably was not thinking. On the other hand. . .not all people are maternal or paternal. Marriage and family life might just be inconvenienceS to them. Any escape route is a welcome relief. He prolly started the fire too! *edited to correct my IBONS. . . before one ITK like moi shove am for my face. . . LIKE I 'DOES'!!!* |
Re: Is He A Father? by OXCUBA: 6:35pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
OmoAlata1:SO YOUR ADVICE TO WOMEN IS TO ALLOW THEIR HUSBAND'S TO GET KILLED BY ARM ROBBERS IN OTHER NOT TO BE GANG RAPED? I BELIEVED WHERE THERE IS LIFE THERE IS HOPE...... (IF THE MAN .... DIE ... THE WOMAN GO GET WIDOW CERTIFICATE ADD TO HER .... COMMON ENTRANCES CERT) ..... BECAUSE IT IS ONLY AN ILLITERATE THAT WILL BEG HER HUSBAND TO STAY AT HOME WHEN SUCH INCIDENT IS HAPPENING. |
Re: Is He A Father? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
Kanwulia: It is called a fight or flight response. Nice one, your posts can sabi make sense sha. |
Re: Is He A Father? by Kanwulia: 8:03pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
fellis: Of course! *nor let awon jolosi peeps cassssh you o* Chai!!! 2PM. . . .Time to go pick my mamma and the kids from h-aiport. . .LONDON OFF WE GO! >loggs off< |
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